Is it ok for 13 year olds to be making out in public?
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i'm a 13 girl. i think its sick.
yeah sure it is if you are a **** or a MANWHORE, but other wise then yeah sure it is
I don't personally like seeing even older people totally makeing out in public. So I guess no
not in the park or in a restruant, but in the movies, try sitting in the back, people don't want two views.. lol
Ofcourse I do! And I'm 13!
I lived with a kid who was making out with girls when he was thirteen. Had sex by 15, was a dad by 17. Kissing is one thing (I had my first when I was 16), but making out is a little much in my book.
i think its disrespectfull
how are you going to stop it other than locking him in his room? id be very careful if i were you because it may not be long before you become a grandparent...thirteen-year olds have no business in any relationship, hell, they just figured out how to tie their shoes...you need to find him a hobby
I don't think it's appropriate for 13 year olds (or anyone) to be "making out" in public.
Awkward for you, because it's not like you want him to be taking this into a dark room with no supervision though, either, right?
I suggest you explain that some signs of affection -- ie holding hands, walking with arms around each other, brief kisses -- is OK, anything more makes people around them uncomfortable and doesn't put them in the most positive light.
Suggest that they keep this activity to when they're at home, or alone (ie walking home from school, etc.)...but also firmly explain that they are way too young to go further, that there are serious consequences; ie share your families' values with him. If you don't want him to have sex 'till he's 18, say so. If you don't want him to have sex 'till he's married, say so. It doesn't mean he will "obey," but he'll certainly know how you feel about it. That said, you can also explain that you are always there for him, and that he should feel free to come discuss anything at all with you. That you take him seriously and will talk about anything.
no, its not ok. but then pda's are not ok for anyone
13 is too young to be having a "relationship".. and seriously... you say "a very serious relationship" THEY ARE 13!1 Hell most 17 and 18 year olds who claim they are in a serious relationship- well anyone out of high school will most likely tell you it's a joke. But anywyas... He needs some hobbies- and be careful what you are banning-- are you banning him from PDA'S (oe teaching him he should only show affection for her when nobody is around?) or are you banning him from kissing her/having a girlfriend???
13 is way tooo young for girlfriend/boyfriend relationships and making out.
When i was that age- we had boyfriends- but the most we ever did was maybe hold hands at recess. we knew better. and frankly.. even then at 13- kissing was still kinda gross...
No, I don't think they should (regardles of age too)
deffintly not that is disrespectful to herself and to you
of course not. He is only 13! Allow it and you could be an early grandmother...
personally when i see people making out in public, i get the idea that they dont really chreish what they have. A little kiss, ok.. but full fledge making out is kind of just tackey, like they're doing it for show, not because they love each other. personally, my thought is that "intimacy" at any leavel should be done in private. the public doesnt need to see 13 year olds making out, if they would like to make out with eachother they should seriously consider doing so in a more private setting.
Personally, I don't approve of kids kissing in public.
It depends on where you are, though.
Where not to kiss in public: school, mall, restaurants, stores. Anywhere its obvious and in the line of view. When I'm walking in the halls at school, the last thing I want to see is 2 people making out. They can hold hands, hug, kiss on the cheek, but making out? Its awkward and distracting.
Where to kiss: Movies, on the street (if they really want to), in the living room (not sure is this is considered public to your standards). These are apporpriate and won't encourage you son to use his or her room.
Please talk to him about it. If he's making out with his gf in front of you (which makes most parents uncomfortable, and reasonabley so), tell him.
13 is a little young to be makeing out..also my personal opinion is that it is disrespectful just to make out in public
How can a 13-year-old be in a "very serious relationship"? Yeah sure, go ahead and let them kiss and make out. Maybe you'll be a grandfather soon and get to raise another kid!
IM 13 AND I DONT DO MAKE OUT IN PUBLIC
No it is not ok and 13 is too young to be in a dating relationship. Tell him to wait for all that until he's married.
Ok first of all, i disagree with all the people that say that 13 is too young for a serious relationship. I am 14 almost 15 and I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I am so happy with him. Our parents totally trust us, and I believe just knowing that we are being trusted like that kind of helps set boundries.
I dont think there is anything wrong with kissing or making out in public. I do think there is a problem with making out at restuarants or places that are formal. but your son will probably figure out very fast what places are acceptable for that and what places are not. I know my boyfriend and I did. Also, if you give him that opportunity, he will probably realize after a little but that there is more to it that just making out, and he will most likely not be as public about it.
Good luck with your son, and try thinking about it from his point of view also.
No. That is too young!
please no. that's disgusting. actually, anyone making out in public is disgusting. *gag*
i have a 13 year old son, and the girls are always trying to get him. but if my son were to be making out like that in public i would be kicking his a** along with hers.
No, it's not ok! Your son should be guarding the heart of this girl, not stealing her love. He's stealing from her future husband. I think she deserves more respect than that, and if he truly loves her, he'll keep his hands off of her. And if he just happens to become her future husband (which at 13, I really doubt that's going to happen, but you never know...) then he'll have as much of her as he wants once they're married. But until then...hands off. And if he doesn't truly love her, then he shouldn't be making out with her anyway!
i mean really i would not allow him to be having PDA... how serious can a relationship be if he is 13 let him peck her but not makeout save that for highschool.
hell yeh!
Watching anyone make out in public is disturbing and rude, if anything he should be taught manners, because for one there are too many people in this world who opinionate everyone else and think they are perfect and would call you a bad parent, even if you are a great parent, or would call your kid impolite names. People in this day and age think they are right and everyone else is wrong, if you are comfortable with it, then you do what you want, if you know you are a good mother, then you don't have to prove yourself to any one else but the person you look in the mirror each day! If you are fine with it, then let him, but just remember, people are heartless, and you may be called names and your son may be treated badly if you allow it to go on.
uhhh no 13 year olds should be worried about getting out of middle school first. Besides making out leads to other things. When i was in middle school we had 5 pregnant 13-14 year old girls and the number's only increased since I was last in middle school.
I don't think so. I know that I wouldn't want to see 2 13 year olds let alone anyone making out in public. *Mind you I am 13*
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