Can someone pplz helpme out..im a 13 yr old gurl who needs help!!?
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Ask your Dad if you could write her letters, e-mail her, and/or call her on the weekends. If he says no at first, try to negotiate with him for at least one of the options. If things work out, maybe eventually you and your Mom could meet somewhere for lunch (after working both of your schedules out). I'm sorry to hear about this, but try to go easy on your Dad, it's hard on him too.
You need to sit down with your dad and have a serious talk. Just tell him that it hurts you so bad. Most parents hate to see their kids hurt. You need your mom at this time in your life, even just for advice and girl talk. I think if you poor your heart out to your dad he might reconcider. Either that or start asking him hard questions about the womans body and changes, you know like a period and he might realize he doesnt have all the answers! Good luck with everything!
you brought me to tears sweety. i know you miss your mom. and from what i just read from you it appears you are more grown up than your two parents. first off, your dad needs to GET OVER the fact that those two are no longer together. secondly, you need to tell your dad, that irreguardless of what may have happened in the past, is in the past and that for a FACT, until he leaves this earth he will always be your dad and SHE will always be your mom. your dad needs to grow up and your mom needs to stand on her two feet and demand to see her daughter
wow your feeling the same way i feel. We both have alot in common. I understand that you can't see your mom but, why dont you ask her to see you for a little while after school or tell your dad that you need to do a project with your friends at the library and tell her to meet you there so you guys could talk and, if this doesn't work talk to him and, tell him how you feel, how you really need to see her and that you have the right because you are her daughter too and if this doesn't work ,Tell a guidance counselor at school that you can trust of how your feeling and how your dad is not letting you speak or talk to your mom and, im sure she/he will try all they can to help you in this tough situation also, if your mom has a computer try emailing her so atleast you can get in contact with her somehow. Good luck hun.
Oh Honey i know how that hurts, i really do.
WHat you need to do is sit down with your Dad and tell him that even though Your mom and him have unresolvable issues (which probably could be resolved if they really tried) Your mom is your mom, and by seeing her, you aren't "betraying" your dad or anything, you're seeing the other person that you love the most in your life. And the thing is, he's an adult, he needs to step up and be mature. I think that he likely believes that if you spend a lot of time with your mom, you'll start siding with her or whatever. You should be able to see her, because keeping you from her is wrong. If you don't get to see her that often, than you should be able to send her emails, letters, maybe set up some kind of a webcam to you can do a video chat. You need to explain to him that 1. it's wrong 2. you need to have a relationship with both your parents, not just one 3. Why won't he let you see her.
Put him on the spot. Make him tell you everything. If he gets mad at you keep on charging. now, by all means, don't wreck your relationship with him, but make sure that atleast somethign positive comes out of it. if you want someone to talk with or whatever, you can email me. rachi_b53@yahoo.com
I'm your same age. And I kinda had the same problem. All I can say is 2 write to her and maybe ask your dad if you could talk to her. Then after a while ask him if she could see you like after school for a little if she works. So you won't she her husband but you can see her. Hope this works caz I know how you feel. Don't worry everything will turn out okay. If you want anymore suggestions just email me.. soccertoric Good luck!!
Write her letters.
tell them how all this SH********T affects you badly... I feel sorry for you dude... hang in there.
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