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Answers: I'd try to help her. theres clearly something wrong if she does that :(
I'd try to get her to stop.
The girl probably desires to talk to someone and amount things out. Cutting is a huge turn off and really is only a stupid way out of things, even if she have problems, everyone does, and there are better ways through things than self-mutilation.
So I would try and abet her to stop and deal beside things some other way.
Ignore Nikki. It's not easy for those who havn't been surrounded by this situation to empathize, or even sympathize.
When I be younger I went through some strong times. Like being raped and sexually abused by a home friend. My step father also was an alcoholic and a having a bet addict. He hit my mother and swore at us and done up stealing from us. I was also surrounded by a serious car crash and told I'd never step again along with an ankle injury. I also lost my best friend when she approved I was lying in the region of being raped.
Anyway, I fell into really thoughtful depression. I cut myself, I drank a lot, smoked, did drugs, didn't attention about college, got beside older guys etc etc. Anything that would try to gross me feel better. Being 15 I didn't enjoy that hindsight that I do immediately.
I was vastly very lucky though, I found my bright best friend and my boyfriend. He was at hand for me 100%. He didn't try to force me to do anything, he didn't yell or anything. He'd be through some stuff as well but he put me since himself.
I had other manly friends who tried to help me, but they didn't want to make conversation about the stuff I be feeling.
So you requirement to be careful. Some guys out near will be genuine and want to sustain you through the stuff you're going through. But then in attendance are others who see you as being undemanding because you're going through a hard time. Which is fu*cken bull!
I don't suggest you find into a heavy full on relationship, because it's clear you hold some stuff going on that you need to operation with and you want some 'me' time. Just be careful and try and find some help for your problems. Don't rush into any relationships, if they are ment to work out, they will.
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EDIT- No, you are the exact definition of a hypocrite. You also humiliate people and sit on your dignified horse and talk down to everyone. You accomplishment like you know everything. I don't sugar coat anything I share it as I see it and try and relate it to the asker. You've seriously got a problem and you're surrounded by the wrong place to be looking for an answer.
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love her. try to get her to make conversation, but know that she can't always discuss. understand what she say and what she doesn't say. be near for her. try to understand, even if i couldn't. i know how it is to get the impression that way.
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