Help please please?
but when i get my period i have so many cramps and stuff so i was talking to my health teacher she said that birth control might help so how do i ask my mom to put me on it with out her FLIPPING on me ?? please answer
Answer:
Just tell her why you want to be on it. Explain to her what the teacher told you and how it would help. Explain to her that it is not for sex. Good luck
Tell her about your period and get your teacher to talk to your mom. Problem solved. Duh.
- Bride
Tell your doctor next time you see him. Tell him about the periods and cramps. And let HIM suggest birth control, that's probablly what he'll do. And then tell him to explain to your mom why you need birth control. I will open up opportunity to talk with your mom.
I just went through the same issue with my daughter. She got great relief from painful periods BUT...I also understand where your mom is coming from. How about you talk to a docotor together about hormone therapy and don't call it birth control. It worked for the dad in our house.
let her know that sex is the furthest thing from your mind right now, and let her know that you realize how awkward of a situation it is, but that you were talking with a teacher at school and she said that birth control could help with cramps. i'm assuming she knows that your cramps are bad every month and just be as honest with her as possible. your mom was a girl once too and i know she has heard that birth control can help with the cramps and as long as she trusts you, i'm sure you'll be able to convince her. as an added bonus, you could throw in that if you were having sex at such a young age, wouldn't she want you to be protected?? (but i wouldn't lead with that) just relax and talk to her about it when she's in a good mood and you're alone and it'll be fine. your mom is much more understanding than you think. good luck!!
Trust me when I say, life has a way to teach us lessons. If it s not learned in the first chance, then the second chance will be much louder and harder, and each one after untill we learn the real hard way.
If you do not be honest with your mom now, life will give you no other option in the future , by getting you pregnant.
Remember , it s better to face the music earlier, then it is later.
Believe me. I m 25 , and have learned that lesson of life over and over.
ok I kinda had this problem when I asked my mom and I was 16 just tell her that you would like to be on it so that way it can make your periods regular and that you dont plan on going out and having sex just be honest with her about the whole thing and you should be ok I wish you luck
you should use your head and wait until you are at least 18 before doing that stuff the guy doing it should be going to jail and you should have a cork up there or a good spanking
Tell your mum about your painful cramps, and ask her to accompany you to a dr's appointment, advise her that your teacher said that the pill could possibly help and you would like her to be with you to disucss this with the dr, she will then also hear the proffessionals response for herself.
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