My moms a gynacologist and wants to ya know with me...?
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Well normally it would be against the law. Since she is your mother she shouldn't be doing any mediacal exams on you. If you went to the ER and had an injury and she was an ER doc she would not be allowed to work on you. Tell her you want your own doctor and you aren't comfortable with her touching you in that manner or asking you private questions. Tell her if she needs to save money to save it on something else besides your medical exams.
Just tell her.
You're like 10 or 11 years old, right?
if you not comforatable about it just say it!! she should respect your decision without takin offence to it!
Yeah, is a little weird - mom should know better - is a conflict of interest thing. Get yourself your own gynecologist and showing mom that you're going to regular appointments should be adequate.
Just tell your mom that you're not comfortable with that and if she'd recommend a gp for you to see. Your mom probably has your best interests at heart, but if you aren't comfortable with her, then don't do it.
you are also 13 and pregnant, right?! have you decided between adoption or abortion yet? people can look at your other questions! thanks for the 2 points.
ok doctors do not work on there own children. either your full of **** or you should be telling the police and not us.
II WOULD TELL HER YOUR UNCOMFORTABLE ABOUT IT
6 days ago you posted a question stating you are pregnant. Is your mom doing a pregnancy exam?
Be honest tell her you would prefer to see someone else that it makes you really uncomfy and that this way if you were to answer a question and she didnt like the response she cant get mad at you plus with another doctor you have patient-doctor confidentialty which means she cant pry to see if you have sex unless you tell her as mom and daughter so i mean the worst that can happen is what you hurt her feelings but what do you prefer getting felt on by dr.mom or saying uh gross for me i would like to not do that stuff with you sorry. she cant do anything about it just speak up good luck
yeah, that's a little too weird. You need to let your mother know you're not comfortable with it and that you want to see a doctor that's not related to you.
You should never have to be in an uncomfortable situation like that. It would be entirely different if you were comfortable and happy w/ the situation. It may or may not hurt her feelings, but you do need to tell her. She doesn't have the right to impose that on you.
that is weird. i would tell her that you prefer to go to someone else and ask her if there is someone that she would recommend.
i would also find this really weird
especially the actual examination not so much the questions
that is strange, i can see why you would be uncomfortable, you really must sit down and have a heart to heart with her,
if you are uncomfortable, then yes. My advice is to polietly tell your mom that you would feel more comfy seeing another professional.
seems wierd to me,, thought docs could not treat family members?
I agree with littleluvkitty, Physicians do not practice on their own families. What your mother is doing could be considered molestation and child abuse. If you're not sexually active, you do not need an internal examination. If you are, tell her you will find your own OB/GYN. And by all means, contact your local Police Dept. and Dept of Social Services and report her. Good luck.
If you are uncomfortable about your mom giving you a physical then you need to tell her that and go to another doctor. She is you mother and all but she should still respect you decision that you don't want her to be poking around your business like that.
You're the only one who can really answer this for yourself: reason being: some families can be that close, some prefer a little comfortable distance and privacy with the people they've got to eat dinner with everynight. I know how you feel. I had to ask my husband to stop checking my every little scrape and flaw for a while when we started dating and he was in med school. Now a couple of years later, I am thankful he can check out my issues a-z, but I still go to the doctor, for a-z...you know, the doctor who I don't have to eat dinner with.
Tell her to please consider your need for privacy if that is what you need.
I would think that your mother would suspect that this might feel awkward for you. I am VERY surprized that it doesn't feel awkward for HER. I am a nurse, and in my experience, physicians NEVER treat their own family members. It is like an unwritten rule. I think you should REFUSE to allow any more exams of this nature by ANY physician who makes you uncomfortable. Remember, it is YOUR body.
Tell her you don't feel comfortable and ask her if you can go to another gyno.
Tell her that you would prefer to see another gynecologist because you do not feel comfortable talking to her about these things. Tell her that some things your mother just shouldn't know.
i would tell her your not comfortable with ehr being your gynocologist and if you would like to go to a gynocologist go to someone different
i would drather have my mom check cause i dont know but docters just creep me out ! lol. but if u dont feel the same way i do i would just tell your mom that u feel akward because she is your mom she will most likely under stand but if she doesnt just explain your self and see how it goes
Tell her you'd rather go to someone else.
Yes definately tell her to stop. I would feel so uncomfortable I can't even imagine it and feel so so sorry for you. Just let her know if you need to get all that done, you'd feel more comfortable having your own doctor who you aren't emotionally attached to.
tell her that you want to see a gyno that isn't your mom...she should understand...just cause that is gross and weird!
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