(women/girls only preferably) Im having a problem at school theres this boy...?
On friyday 2 weeks ago when i was leaving school passing the dissmissle site when i was near the end (where the popular 8th grade boys are) i herd someone say my name then i herd it again and then i herd someone say "Crystal Buchanan!! Woo!!" after that ive been worried about passing him in the hall (i do alot) cuz i don't want him to say something stupid then when i was leaving 8th period i passed him really close in the hallway i herd him say my name soft and slow i ran for the door...
today i was so nervous i broke out in hives. What shoould i do it doesn't feel right to talk about this even to my mom... HELP! pleaz (o and don't give me anything to get 2pts or any thing like "grow up) i really need advice
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when i was in 8th grade a guy did that to me im pretty sure he didnt like me or any thing he was just messing with me because i was friends with someone that he thought was really weird so he found it all funny. but now me and him are friends and he still does things like call my name stupid stuff like that. i think he likes you, but if hes the immature type then hes probably just messing with you
Awww sweety. First of all dont be so hard on yourself. He is not better than you just because he is on the basketball team.I do remember this time in my life though. I felt like I was a nerd and never thought I had a chance with several popular guys. Guys can be really immature and play jokes just to show of in front of their friends. If he really likes you, he will be mature about it and tell you. He wont do it in a way that will purposely embarrass you. He will consider your feelings. Only time will tell. In the mean time relax and breathe. Dont make it too big of a deal in your mind. Dont get too down on yourself either, what you project, you will get. Dont worry- there will be plenty more guys coming along, and you want the one that treats you right, and that is worth waitig for!
Oh baby this is your first puppy crush. You'll be fine. Just don't try to pursue anything other than friendship. You are young and there will be plenty more crushes that will come and go. Concentrate on school first.
I hate to tell you this, but it's just part of middle school. If he's acting like this, whether or not he likes you, he's incredible immature. If it turns out he does actually like you, I beg you, don't go out with him. Ever. He needs to grow up before he goes out with anybody. As far as being scared or nervous, you have no reason to be unless he starts following you. If this is the case, report him. That's stalking and harassment, and has huge consequences. Although, it sounds like he could already be reported for harassment. Talk to an adult at your school and see if this could be classified as harassment. If it could, tell your principal. He'll get in trouble, and you won't have to mess with him anymore.
BTW, I don't mean to offend you, but being only in middle school where everybody is pretty immature, he doesn't like you. He probably is only doing it to get you worked up because as you called yourself, he probably sees you as a nerd. Don' t worry about it. I was labeled as a "nerd" all through middle school, and now I couldn't be more content with my life.
It's middle school. It'll blow over.
He's a boy. Don't get into boys til you're at least 16 I promise you'll be glad you did. By 16 boys have started to learn about what feelings are. Also he can drive.
It sounds like he likes you...he keeps harrassing you. He is using his time and energy to make sure that you notice him! Give yourself some credit...lots of guys like smart girls! You keep your head high and when he calls out your name...make sure that you look him straight in the eyes so that he knows that you are watching him too! He is flirting with you...so do it back!
Don't be so hard on yourself. Just because he likes sports and you like books doesn't mean he's better than you in any way. Most guys really like smart girls.
It sounds like he likes you. He really is flirting. So when he calls out your name make sure you look at him and smile. Flirt back.
Seems like hes just messing with you.
Most guys in 8th grade I've known won't date 6th grade people.
Well if he does it mainly around his friends, it's probably a joke. Boys are stupid like that. I'm in ninth grade now but, It doesn't change that much. The whole whispering your name thing however, is really, really scary. If he still does it when it's just him and not his friends, he might be serious. Then, you could consider a restraining order b/c this kid is really creepy. Also, have some confidence, or do what i do and fake it when you don't feel confident. Don't run that'll keep making him mess w/ you if it's just a joke.
well try to calm down then find something to talk to him about that has nothing to do with you likeing him and see what he does like get advice make it sorta look like you don't like him so if he's playing games he'll feel stupid but if he's not you'll know
First and 4 most your not a Nerd. Stay away this guys are so rapped up with their life they have no time but to hurt people. Honey just stay away from this A Hole.
you know what.. im facing similar situations
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