Hellllp! a difficult sitiation!!?
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She's not a true friend. If she were then despite the fact that she may also like the boy, obviously this is his choice and she should be happy for you.
Well who have you known longer? Whoever you knew longer that is your answer.
Your friend shouldn't deny you happiness. A real friend would step aside, considering he's made it clear who he's more interested in. I'd definitely say yes and if she's a real friend, she'll be happy for you. With time, she'll accept it. You sound young, so it's really not that serious at this point anyway. By next week, she'll have another boyfriend. And so will you probably, lol.
Most true friends would be happy for you even if it is not what they want. Be his girlfriend.
On the other hand, is your friend worth losing over a boy you will only date for a short while? (Its not like you guys will stay together through school, college, and then get married)
Lot of Luck
Trust me, do not date the guy. IT WILL DESTROY your friendship. I know from experience. I know how happy you are, but if you want to keep your friend - do not date him.
say yes and say sorry to your friend but your friends can't always hold you back he really likes you
tell your friend to accept your relasioship or take a hike. a real friend will always be happy for her friend.she is not your real friend.
she isn't worth being a friend with, you should just go out with him...even tho "friends are forever, boys are whatever", she doesn't sound like the "forever" type friend...she will be jealous whenever anything good happens to you, instead of being happy for you...as long as you have other good friends then you should just go out with him...
Sounds like your friend is jealous and hurt. Your friend does not have the right to be angry at you. The guy wouldn't be interested in her even if you said no to him. so, your not standing between them... he made a choice, and he chose you. Your friend is trying to control you by giving you an ultimatum, and a real friend would not do that. If you allow her to direct what you do and don't do, then she can pull this any time she wants. Don't allow her to control your life. Your not choosing between her and him... she is the one who is choosing not to be your friend.
Look say wat your heart is telling u to say cuz if she was really your friend she'll be your friend all day everyday anyway so say yes or dont say nothin at all.
So she has known the fact that you like him for longer. In that case you go for the guy and hell with that mate of your. infact she is not your mate. is she . if she cant compare your love for him ( if thats what it truly is) with a mere hullicigenic( spelling!!) crush which will wear off when a better looking guy turns ups.
Infact tell her you will not be her friend if she goes with him.. simple.. base don the response you will get your answer
go with the guy
if your freind is not happy for you, shes not youre freind
go for it if shes a true friend she should be there to for you and understand that he like you not her
friends last forever boys are just whatever
shes not a really good, or true freind if she would do that to you.
PLus this could turn into "your freind stealing your bf" ****!!
SO I WOULD not date him, Tell him why, or talk to your freind, or..
screw your freind (becuz shes selfish...lol) and date him!
IT UP TO U!!
ASK HER WHAT WOULD SHE DO IF IT WAS THE OTHER WAY AROUND AND SHE LIKED HIM AND HE LIKED HER I THINK SHE WOULD SAY YES WHAT KIND OF FRIEND IS SHE I DON'T THINK SHE IS BEING FAIR.
She should at least understand he likes you more.She shouldn't get mad if u went out with him cuz even if u didn't, she doesn't have a chance with him.So u might as well go out with him.Also you should tell her that it is a stupid reasons for u guys not to be friends over a guy when an friendship is more important.tell her that even if u went out with the guy you both like, he will never break up your friendship.If she still doesn't understand and still gets upset about you two going out, then obviously she's not the right friend for you.You deserve better friends who understand your feelings and doesn't care who u go out with.what only matters is your friendship.
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