How do I stop getting bullied?
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I was bullied so bad in school... the only way I got them to leave me alone was to laugh at them and their insecurities. "oh, wow that hurts my feelings so bad. is that how you felt when your dad left your mom for his secretary??" and would just turn everything around on them. if you ignore them, it will get worse. you have to acknowledge the problem and depending on the bully, find the best way to annoy and hurt and bother them back. To be quiet and just take it is going to make it worse. but most importantly DON'T LET THEM GET TO YOU. it doesn't matter what these dumbas*es think of you or say about you, only how you feel about yourself.
Get a friend to help, or stand up for yourself. There was this group of guys that use to make fun of me, until I defended myself. Than they pretty much left me alone.
well, try to ignore them.and play as if you are not affected...they will stop...
Do things back to them in a sneaky manner. For example, I got even with a boy by sprinkling his assigned seat with a little bit of fiberglass before he sat down; man, was he scratching by the end of class! Now, I don't RECOMMEND you do something like that..
Well, sometimes, you just have to fight. Yep, it's scary, and yep, its gonna hurt some. But not as much as the humiliation your enduring from not standing up for yourself. Listen, bulliology works like this, people watch your reaction to being bullied, see what you do, the next s.o.b that wants to make his mark as a tough guy chooses you as a target cause they saw your previous reaction and the cycle continues. Stand up for yourself, any bully wanna be's see your not taking that -hit, and choose another target. The original bullies? Even if they wipe the floor with you, their respect for you rises...cause you stood up! Sometimes, Ya just gotta take a stand!
Bullies tend to bully because they have insecurities, and by picking on others they hope people will fail to see their own imperfections, it also makes them feel more confident and popular as they are with the 'in crowd'. I know its hard, but ignore them, they are no doubt immature and lacking in intelligence. Mention it to a teacher/adult you trust and talk about it to someone who will listen. In the meantime if you don't react to them and try your best to shut yourself off to them they will get bored and move on - Bullies are looking for a reaction, if you shout back, try and hit them, this will amuse them and prompt them to do more. Rise above them, be the more mature person and try to not let it get you down.
A bully will always continue to pick on you as long as they can see that it is affecting you. Thats how a bully gets their kicks. You have 2 choices either make a firm stand and tell them to stop it,or ignore them and dont show them that its affecting you.
if u cant beat them join them.so join them and start making fun of others!
First of all you need to let your parents know what's going on. Then tell the bus driver. If he/she doesn't do anything about it, have your parents GO to the school and complain. It's an unwanted feeling and it should be stopped. My 10 year old was being bullied on the bus. I complained to the driver and the school. Things didn't change much at first until the day I went ON the bus and spoke with the boy myself. The other kids giggled at him and he gave me a bad look, not to mention, I kind of embarrassed my son, but he has not been bullied since. Seriously, you need to let the school know. Times are different these days, you never know what's in these crazy bullies minds.Good Luck to you Sweetie!!
thats bad!!you better pick a fight with them.knock them down.
bully them back if i were u i would tease them back tell them if the got a penis to bug u they will have a dick to leave u alone
it depends no how old they are. whatever their age is, thats what the'll act like. talk to PEOPLE let them know whats going on. tell brother(if u have one) try ignoreing them don't give them your power.when they make fun of you, look at them and smile and say YEPsure is. agree with them and go about your business like nothing happened. hold your head up. I know its rough out there.
do not let it worry you anymore.they are only looking attention.ignore the fun making as much as possible or at least make it less visible that they are annoying you.boys love teasing girls.
Every time you react or get upset it fuels their fire. Go to the principal, school counsellor, and your parents and tell them that the bus driver is allowing this behaviour, as well you feel threatened and scared. They HAVE to protect you as they have to protect all their students whether on school grounds or on the bus. Ask if they have a "Anti-bullying Act". All schools are supposed to have one. And if all else fails, tell your parents you want to report this to the police. It's best to go to all lengths necessary before something serious happens.
Pick up some mace or a tazer. Use it wisely (in otherwords, not in front of people)
Be brave.
They can only hurt you if you let them.
Seek help from adults you trust and talk things over with them.
If it is verbal bullying, try and think of some good retorts.
If you don't show it hurts you, they'll stop, they are just trying to get a reaction.
Have self esteem! The best way to stand up to a bully is by being confident in yourself. Don't be afraid to stand up, because your true friends will have your back.
Just run away if everything seems to be getting worse.
Carry something that the teachers won't think is a weapon, and if you think they're going to start being violent, hold it and prepare. Something like a house key, preferably with edges, can be a great scratch weapon if held in between the fingers.
Do whatever you can to avoid them.
It is getting worst because you keep on talking back to them. This is a bully's attitude - the more you show them that you are scared, the more they will bully you and the more you argue with them the more they will get on your nerves. So the best thing is to show them that you don't care about what the heck they say and show them that you are not afraid. You have to show them that you are a stronger person. Then they will feel that there is no point to bully you anymore. Just ignore them like they are not there. If you try it for a while, by less than 1 month, it will mainly work. Believe me.
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