10 POINTS FOR THE BEST ANSWER!! EASY QUESTION FOR TEENS!! pls?
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Girls like it when a guy really tries to get to know them not all the oh you look great- yeah it's nice to say it to her once or twince dont drag on and on about it all noght-. there's more to her then the dress and heels. dont gossips about how gooffy,sluttly,druggy, etc another prom goer is. ask her htings like-what are your plans for the summer coming u are you going away// etc- if she states a specific trip comment about you've been there, or like to sometime. then tell her a little something about a trip your planning allowing her the insiders view to you. the best relationships are made of talking. and the more you know about someone the more concrete you will be in all deciosions you;ll ever make whether it's to be a couple,break up,stay as friends.. also- dont put the moves on her all night. so many gyuys think of prom as the opportunity to get their rocks off- and it puts pressure on the girl to comply or oose the guy. let it be clear you and her and hanging out and prom night is about dancing, eating and haning out and talking. again-this will impress her more then you'd ever knw. and let her know if your nervous- i as you can see am a blabber mouth my hubbys is a quite as a filed mouse- he told me straight up- i am pretty shy it's not that i dontlike you or am ignoring you- i am just shy and a little nervous- i was too and told him so and 15 years later we're still dancing to these are the times to remember, (our prom theme0. good luck and have a nice prom. make it a happy memory.
Talk about how pretty she looks & how pretty her dress is & ask her about herself & talk about movies etc.
Great Question .hopefully you get along really well and the conversation runs smoothly ..but here are some good ideas .ask her what career she wants when she is done school !
If she could have one PERFECT day ...what would it consist of !
What are her 3 wishes?
does she get along well with her mum or dad or both ?
What does she like to eat ?
Ask her what her most romantic night wouold be like ?
I could go on forever ..don't be so nervous and forget these ok ; )
Good luck and relax and have a great time !!
yes, just relax! it will be fine, it is normal to feel nervous!! since you know her well already, you both will be the same as usual. talk about your usually things, movies, music, talk to your other friends! and one more thing, she'll hold her part of the conversation! you could always go with other couples!! have a great time!
i was wrong about the # of replies (lol) Good Q and Good Luck with the
prom! [PS: hope you get a lot of replies from the girls]
awww... thats soo sweet!! we always think that we are the only ones worried about what to say and how to act we dont even realize that guys feel the same way... anyway best thing is to just ask her alot of questions.. girls love to talk about themselves... which concerts she's been to, her fav bands, fav restaunrant, fav movies... just do it casually not like your giving her the third degree, since you know her well you might already know these tnigns but if you dont its just fun and easy conversation, also making fun of what other people are wearing to eachother is always fun too (a little mean but fun).. anyway just try to have fun... dont worry and let the good times roll ( god i sound soo old, haha) prom is something you'll remeber forever!! Hope you have a GREAT TIME!
like a couple of weeks before the prom! ask her wut her favorite colour is!! (if you dont know it already)..then go to a florist and have then make like a lil wrist flower thing for her..with her favorite colours!
prom time..when you guys meet up b4 prom! give her the flowers and tell her how gorgeous she looks!!put the flower thing on her wrist and slightly kiss her on the cheek! (only if you want to)..and talk to her about current events! like for example! if you guys are seniors! "are you excited to be going to college!" "are you happy that your graduating!" "do you know what you are going to study in college" "will you come vist me"
and if you are juniors! going to be seniors! ask if "shes excited to becomming a senior..and its you last year" and big college plans that she has thought of!
just be yourself! try not to think too much on what is the right to say or do you might end up saying/doing the worst thing and DON'T GET NERVOUS! It is also important to know what type of person she is so you will be able to plan your moves. Goodluck mate!
well just talk about how her eyes shine, and how pretty she is and what she likes in a man. what job she wants when she is out of school. she will probably ask you questions too. And when it gets quiet and you don't know what to say... ask her to dance w/ you and think of questions while you are dancing.
Perhaps you should hang out with her a while before the prom. Get to know eachother and learn to be yourself around her. You'll find that once you become closer, you'll have more to say, and you won't have to worry about saying something stupid because she might have gotten used to it [me and my boyfriend have haha] we just laugh it off. So yeah, relax, be yourself, and have fun! xx
make her laugh, be yourself at all times, share jokes, share your interests and talk about her favorite things and dance together, it sure can use up the time..if you don't wanna talk already..
The first time all feel the same!!! Just relax, and when you be with her speak about the thinks that she likes to do, and asked about you want serenaly, speak about her hair or everything else that she have and you like... and when you feel ok, she will be a friend who don´t make to be scared.
Only you know your feels, and it´s nice that she can know them too!! Good luck champion.
You talk about your interests and then you ask her about hers. Talk about your friends and then ask her about hers.
Talk about what you do for fun and ask about hers.
You just keep going back and forth. The conversation will eventually take over and lead it's own way. Just stay calm and ask questions and in turn she'll ask you questions. Oh and yeah . Make sure you tell her how great she looks. That's a must.
You can also talk about music, movies, computer stuff, etc. You'll be able to feel out what she's interested in talking about.
Talk to her about her family, if she plays sports, any pet she has, any hobbies she has, things she likes.tell her about you. Talk about the things that you like too...she probably won't mind listening to you as well as talking about herself. Ask her is she has any plans for the summer, what teachers she has now, if they suck, what classes she has.tell her she looks really pretty.. just be yourself and don't worry! She probably will be shy, but I am sure youw ill pull it out!
tell her her shoes are very pretty. she'll be shocked you noticed. (it's a good thing.)
i tottaly get what ur sayin
its like you have got tis thing that you want to say in yer head and yer hope that he (but for you it would be she) is think the same thing but when you say it it sound completely retarded and they arent thinkin the same thing and it makes the rest of the night akward right
best solution make small talk with other couples like a group conversation and avoid alone time unless yer dancin
i bet shes thinking the same thing right now:)
do you plan on talking the entire night or dancing? dont give her too many compliments just like 2 or 3, 4 tops. because then she'll start thinking that you're obsessing or something. umm. ask her how her day was but dont danc with her the whole ngiht. well dont expect her too. if you guys are just friends then let ehr have her boundaries. but that also doesnt eman going up and dancing wiht other girls. let them come to you. ahah I knwo this is out of what your asked but eyah. good luck.
talk about how drunk you guys are gonna get and how many drugs you can do and how shes gonna have the best sex ever..it worked for me
The best thing I can tell you is to relax, and be yourself. You say you know her, why turn shy? It's guaranteed to happen if you keep thinking about it, just let yourself go, and have a great time.
relax. if you know her well, treat her like a good friend. then coveration is just normal. if your still nervous, hang out with your friends too. if you cant talk to her, maybe one of them can think of something to say to the group.
oh who needs talking haha just dance the night away!!
Well this sometimes happens to me
think possitive and stay calm if you get really shy then just think about the thing you love most in the world don't forget it and then take a deep breath and start talking to the girl start out by asking her something easy like "how are you" chances are she is having the same problem as you - good luck
-baby girl (14)
Try telling her that you're kind of nervous and she'll probably support you if you do need it.
you dont have to say much just wait until she's in tha car and talk about like stuff like school or like sports ..COMMENT HER.
- - > nicee dress
and then SHAKE YOU MONEY MAKERR on the dance floor when you gett there.. you will be having too much fun you wont even have to THINK of anything to say because you'll be having to much fun
I think that with prom she'll b so excited about it, and everything going on.
Try to sit at a table with other friends. Don't worry about what to say, if the girl says yes then she likes you, and what you used to talk about. Just relaz and have fun!
p.s. any compliments u give her she will really like and it will break the ice!
Tell her she looks nice, this will make her like you even more.
Talking tips ;
about her friends,
whats she doing the next day,
what she does in her time,
her hobbies. But member if she says something like i just go out to cinema and stuff, you tell her about you aswell, like saying 'o yh me too, what films do you like?' && continue the convo :]
Just be yourself and everything will be ok, she obv likes you because she said she will go with you. Dont 'change'.
Stay calm try not to get shy :]
Hope i helped abit, sorry if i didnt xxx
be yourself and the night will be a lot of fun
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