My bf and i both have integrity and dignity, but he told me to get cretive, any ideas?

My bf and i have been really good friends for over a year, and started dating 2 weeks ago, so far it was been incredible, he is being so sweet and doing all the traditional stuff and he told me to get creative with the relationship, but there is a problem, i am a scientist, no creativity. any ideas? and we both have integity, dignity and self respect, meaning we arent going to do anything stupid or wierd. I am 15 and he is 17

Answer:
Hmm. Creative things you can do together?

How about a picture date? Arrange to go somewhere (even if it's just a backyard or a walk along the street) and find interesting things to take pictures of. Capture each other in funny poses or take photos of other beautiful or amusing things. After the film is developed you can make a scrapbook together.

Plan a meal together. Look up recipes in books and online, try things you've never eaten before, and cook them one afternoon. Take pictures of each other trying to cook! That's always fun. Take everything outside and have yourselves a picnic. Add the recipes and pictures to your scrapbook if you made one!

Go to a coffee shop and get yourselves some coffee. Try something new. Look at the cool CD selection while you're drinking it. Chances are they have something you've never heard of! If you buy one, listen to it together and add the insert to your scrapbook.

Get some friends together for a little 'party'. Maybe another couple or two. Play games, like Twister and Cranium. Those are great because they require both creativity AND something else ... flexibility or knowledge. Make popcorn and watch a romantic movie. Make a pizza from a premade crust and let everyone pick the toppings for their own slices. Let them all listen to the CD you got at the coffee shop. Take pictures of everyone dancing.

Here is something fun that's romantic. Your boyfriend might like it because he can see 'pictures' and you'll like learning about it! Get a book or look up online some info on constellations and the sky. Put some hot chocolate in a thermos. Go sit outside after dark and wait for the stars to come out. Point out constellations to each other. Make up new ones. See if you can find outlines of yourselves in the stars while you drink hot chocolate and cuddle. Very romantic.

Hope some of those help! They're all fun and won't insult your dignity or test your morals. Hopefully your creative boyfriend will like them, too. I think most of them would also be fun to someone who likes to learn and think scientifically.
I think you mean you are right brained dominent. The right side of the brain that deals with science and problem solving skills, where the left half deals with art, and creativity. You dont have to compromise anything to have a great relationship. In fact you can help it grow while being creative. Try going to art shows, or the ballet. See the opera, or watch indipendent films together. All of this will help you start to develope the right side of your brain, while letting him know you are learning to be creative.
Good luck, and God Bless
No you are a very bad girlfriend I hope you never get married.
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