How can I become popular when most relations abominate me?
K so at my school, I own a couple friends like 5, two I don't hang up out with ever and three are complete jerk to me and treat me like **** so only just recently i stopped man friends with them. So um yeah, and those two other friends aren't within any of my classes. So um yeah I'm in middle conservatory and I really want to be popular, but most of the popular kids hate me because of who I used to dangle out with, and the other ones are indifferent. And consequently two talk to me occasionally. I'm exactly similar to all of the popular girls. I dress within the same styles, and primarily are the same. I'm not dreadful, I'm not mean, and I'm not sk@nky, so how can I become popular?
Answers: " popular-smopualar"
" lately be yourself"
Thats actually the awnser =P
I be set to what more can we tell you?
We dont really know these relations..
what they like, How they are?
and the together "I dress in one and the same styles, and basically are matching. I'm not ugly, I'm not imply, and I'm not sk@nky, so how can I become popular?".
Yeah. to tell you the truth. individual the same, isnt gonna build new friends.
Which go back too " Be yourself".
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...be yourself, and associates don't like it they can suck it.
hey thats what I do and in good health...people love me.
only sometimes talk to the "within crowd". slowly, let the adopt you into their group. try also joining clubs or activities that they soak up.
*thenks* i think, associates like to be around those that make them grain good. i reason, if u are friendly to everyone, and give them an extra pencil when they stipulation it, and stick up for people if someone is getting them down, they will respect u and liek u. i thenk..soemtimes "popular" kids arent reallay popular, i thenk other kids are afraid of them, i reckon they are afraid that they will not liek them and then everyone will be suggest to them. i am always purely myself, i dunt care or verbs about family trying to intimedate me, and i thenk, if u want to be liked by everee one, u shud take home other people have a feeling gud *smiles* a'cause seein' society as "popular" jus' means man scared of them to me
capture some friends out of school and dangle out with them like mad,so then the associates in your arts school will see you with your n"new" friends and start thinking "possibly she's coola after all" or stuff like that.
The problem is what you want, not a soul who is "popular" said Mum one day I really want to be be popular, it is usually basically a statice for girls who show just somewhat more skin and guys notice them. You are your own individual and popularity starts by one person anyone their extreme self whether that is by mortal mean or loud. Plus individual popular some how means not other being nice within middle school. Is it worth adjectives the DRAMA MAMAS?
Being popular is overrated.
Find something in adjectives with the family you want to hang beside. Join some school clubs...They own to let you within, its the law.
It will nick time to change peoples view about you. Don't be discouraged. Invite relatives over after school. Ask someone to lend a hand you study for a test. Don't lift anyones crap for starters.
wow 8 answers form 8 people who have the same problem appreciably. Lets be honest here, you have to dress other, look good, play sports (especially cheerleading) simply all the stereotypes. It's big school and teenagers dont be in motion by the "be yourself" crap, you want to be popular, quit crying and make yourself popular, simply like the others did. You acquire out of something what you put into it, just resembling your grades.
showing your personallity really helps. Sometimes a short time ago being nice doesn't do anything. Maybe cooperate about art or a favorite movie or leash you like. Also funny joke. People will remember what they have surrounded by common beside you and you'll talk up a storm and own lots of friends. And don't just focus on the popular group. Just be friends next to anyone no matter what color of clothing or doesn`t matter what they are :]
you are really really really pathetic. i give attention to your just almost the most pathetic party i've seen on feelbaby.com.
Why on soil would you try and be popular? i dont even consider popular, being truly popular. i infer people who try to be popular: crave attention, are desperate to be like, Fake, gay personality, stupid, bitchy, pitiful, and have an extreamly low self of steam.
Dont surplus your life trying to fit surrounded by because when your grown up your going to look back on your younger years and enjoy nothing to show for it except one with a group of nation who have virtual personalitys.
but do what you want.
Well, the being yourself trick really does work, it did for me!
But, if you want different answers, afterwards I'll try.
Make sure to get yourself into adjectives the sports that they are in first of adjectives. And, slowly work your way into the group by conversation to the preps a little at a time. This doesn't come to pass all of a sudden, so hold your restraint.
If you have like interests and out looks as the preps, then this will be easier. That's why the unharmed sports thing works all right.
Most kids don't try to be one of the preps, they are too scared, so I regard as that you can do it if you are confident enough.
Just remember Hun, be yourself to a unshakable extent. For example, if your new friends are making fun of a girls shirt and you're not approaching that, don't go along beside it just because they are. You can't tolerate yourself go a short time ago to have the friends that you want.
Best wishes! :)
haha wow...im laffing result in you were right when you said some race would tell you to be yourself LoL...
ok if you want my suggestion open up, agree more to people contained by your classes. After your comfortable talking to empire in your classes. try slack out with them during lunch or after conservatory. and just spread yourself to modern groups in academy. but to be honest, I just graduate and can honestly say that the number of friends (usually what indicates if your popular or not) isnt going to be major in the adjectives. Instead of trying to be popular you should try to find friends that you will love forever. People you will be proud/happy to have agreed. Even if its only resembling 4 or 5 friends.
LoL.. oh and back to the popularity entity real hurried. Just dont worry/care about what folks think of you, if they laff anything if they say $#!t who care. its not gonna affect you. LoL the coolest people i kno do embarrasing things greatly but dont care, and everyone loves them
If they don't resembling you, then don't force them to close to you! It just make you more irritating to them! There's this one girl who moved to my school surrounded by 7th grade. At her hoary school, she have been popular, so she be trying to reclaim her status. Ultimately, everyone thinks she's obnoxious!
the "popular kids" are in truth hated by more culture then they are like. all because they consider themselves popular that doesn't indicate the whole university does. im not in middle conservatory but thats how it works in my dignified school. sorry.
its intricate i kno. im in middle university too and the be ur self thing yah it doesnt rlly work..... so i sugjest u swing out with ppl that enjoy the same intrests as u.... dont try to be friends near those really popular girls! start slowly and make some friends be nice to them and slowly ull gain more friends....more virtuous friends = more popularity and more populairity = u being more bullish... also try to gain more friends by like utter ur funny well explain to jokes.... u approaching fashion.. be friends near ppl who like vogue...... basicly gain friends by doing what ur good at...try after university clubs too.... that helps alot too.. economically i hope this helps!
Bieng popular or cool isnt everything. Make some friends and next you will figure out if you r popular or not. If u have an idea that that ur popular and others dont ignor them. Everyone is popular in their own process!!
Your main desire shouldn't be popularity: that's a sure way not to become popular. You should merely be yourself & put your personality out in attendance. Be outgoing & friendly. I f they still don't like you... they can suck eggs.
Now in general I'd be like, "Who wishes to be one of those prissy 'lil popular people, anyway? But I know what it's similar to to be lonely. There is absolutely nobody around me. People even move away when I sit down. It's a horrible awareness, isn't it? I know what you want. You don't want to be one of those little idiot jerks. You want to be the brand of person i.e. so popular, they can talk to everybody, popular or loser. You want to be the manner of person that EVERYBODY like, and instead of you following someone else around like a puppy looking for friendship, they'll be following you! I suggest tendency everybody. Whoever you talk to, take home them walk away inkling good, merely because they talked to you. And as crazy as it sounds, if truth be told try changing your style. I found sooner or later when I was not wearing my best clothes, general public alienated me a little bit more than the subsequent day, when I be wearing nicer clothes. Don't dress like a skank, purely dress classy. Like European adults. Be kind, polite, and unanimously nice. It is the key.
be outgoing, funny, and nice. no quip.
if you are put in a situation similar to this, talk greatly during the group and make joke and be kind. basically make sure not to drive them crazy by conversation nonstop.
im also within middle school, and its sturdy! when i went in attendance, i didnt know a SOUL. now im pretty popular tho, and adjectives i did was be myself which is above lol. lately try to be outgoing and funny and nice to everyone. be trustworthy, because that always turns general public on.
you need to accomplishment like you are confident, even if you're fake it. not snobby, not better than anyone, but happy and sure of yourself. sure ample of yourself to give everyone equal time. don't filch part contained by ANY backbiting(that part's important). and stay away from the drama. the trip to the top is long, but it will be lasting if you impose sanctions to be someone who makes populace feel doomed to failure, and seem to be sure that your worth it.
I am "myself" and im pretty popular...but it doesnt other work with everybody.
You should step out with the "really hot guy at school", that will aid you.
Be nice to the losers...get everyone of them on your side!
afterwards move up to the normals, and then to the popular citizens.
Throwing parties other helps...as long as its angelic and doesnt become one huge mess.
Dont do drugs.
Dont have sex...dont be a skank!
try to become popular next to a nice attitude.
k so ummmmm like omg!
wow seriously...first of adjectives stop talking approaching that...its annoying.
and maybe theres a object that your other friends dont like you. man popular means have a lot of friends and have ppl like you not your clothes or facade or w.e. make friends! anddd MAYBE youll eventually become popular.
possibly.
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