Please help me! im pregnant and depressed?
Answer:
first of all you gonan need a job, hmm you in a hard situation. best thing you can do is try to get the best job you can get.
well if you are in a city of size there are programs you can sign up for, make some calls tomarrow and tell them your situation, if your parents know you are pregnant why are they throwing you out. seems heart less to me.
The best thing for you to do is look for a job that won't have such an impact on the baby, but one that pays enough. If your looking for a peaceful house look for one on the beach where no one could bother you! I hope I helped,
G.W.P.
Stressing will result in miscarriage.. so don stress.
Talk to ur parents if u want to have the baby
else go to a gud gyn
There is support out there for people in your situation, even financially. I dont think your parents should be booting you out when this is the time that you need their support the most.I am assuming that they know.Make sure that your boyfriend knows whats in store in having a kid and he is going to support you all the way too, if not kick him to the curb.If you are not prepared to be a parent just yet consider giving up your baby for adoption there is lots of people out there just waiting to give the love to a baby. Just remember that the baby never chose to come into the world so do what you think is best for the baby. Im all for adoption because Im adopted myself and like to think pretty normal. Ive even met my birth parents and understand why she had to give me up. Wish you the best, you will do the right thing.
Why can't you talk to your parents about letting you stay with them until the baby is born,and then you can find a job and move out on your own, your boy friend is young but he can get a part time job to help out while you are there at your parents house. You can also makes some call and find out were the free clients are so you can get prenatal care.
I understand what you're going through. First just calm down and think rationally. Be glad that your boyfriend is excited about having this baby. A lot of guys would get scared and run off. So at least you can breathe easier about that.
Next, concentrate on getting a job because you're going to have a lot of expenses with your little one coming! You'll be able to find something, so just get a resume together and get started on the job hunt.
About the fighting: just calm down because added stress affects your baby. Just explain to everyone you're fighting with in plain terms that you're going through a lot right now. Let them know exactly how you feel. If they are important in your life then they will understand.
Talk to your parents about maybe staying in the house a little longer. Offer to pay 1/2 or a 1/3 or the rent/mortage and utilities. This will help them out and make them more apt to letting you stay AND help you at the same time. You'll be living for 1/2 the cost than if you go out and get a place of your own.
Just take it one day and one issue at a time. You can get through this if you calm down and think about it. Then after the baby gets here maybe you can think about going back to school. But thats something to think about later.
Good luck and don't get depressed. Just remember you have a little baby on the way and things aren't as bad as they could be.
youre still at the beginning stages of being pregnant so you should be able to get a job go back to school for something like dental assitant or medical billing so that when youure done with your course youll already have a job set up and get a job while going to school and stay with one of your friends untill you get a place to stay are maybe you should have an abortion because kids are hard why did your parents kick you out
GO TO College, dump the boyfriend, open your big blue eyes and give the baby up for adoption, you obviously aren't ready. But you can do this, you can make it through this. You really can.
As you are 3 months pregnant, your hormones are changing. It is perfectly normal to feel depressed...especially in your situation. I think you are most upset about fighting with your family and boyfriend. The only bit of advice I have is to try to let things go once in a while. What starts a fight?? A snide remark. Try to not respond when someone gives you one, or hold your breath and not give one yourself! Honestly, think before you speak, it might help.
Congratulations on the baby!! My baby changed my life, and even though I was young, I wouldn't go back on it for the world.
Call 311 it will help you find community resources to get mental help. I delt with depression while pregnant the entire time from a boyfriend that wasnt supportive then the nasty break up from him. Getting the support you need is important to help prevent post partum depression which can be worse. Also, contact your OB they may be able to help as well with medication. If there is a possibility of you being homeless contact local charities, many are christian but dont care what you are they just want to help your baby have a good start. Also, contact the local health and welfare office in your state you may qualify for benefits such as free medical, food stamps, and assistance. I know its hard to swallow your pride but do it for your baby they deserve it.
Do make a good preparation for your next life n ur baby,, contact local social society or departmen.. get assist as many as possible from other kind people.. get long with anyone.,, don't panic and be patience .. fix Uur helat n finance life ... most important thing is your life n ur baby
Being emotional is a given w/ pregnancy. I was really depressed w/ my first (I was 18 when I got pregnant), and the doctor prescribed an anti-depressant. Some of these are okay to take while pregnant, and it may be just what you need. Your mood also may be affected when you have the baby, and medication will help to stabalize your mood. Speak w/ your doctor and consider signing up for therapy as well.
The answers post by the user, for information only, FeelBaby.com does not guarantee the right.