Age difference?

me and my boyfriend were talking for about 8 months b4 we acually got together weve been together since sep 8 so weve been together for two months for one do you think that 8 mnts is long enough to talk b4 acually getting with him and another thing hes 25 and im 17 we didnt have sex un till maby two weeks ago for the fsrt time he actes the same as before we even had sex for the first time i like evry thing about him ad im in love with him do you have to love b4 ur in luv with some and another thing he takes me out to dinner we hold hands and we doo the kissy kissy thing in the open like in public i want to ask another question two weeks ago we were having sex an thenin the morning we were in the shower together and he pulled out b4 he came and he came all down my butt and i felt my vagina and i felt the but area and it was the same fluid and i just finished my period two days b4 what does this mean i cant be preganant

Answer:
The legal age to consent for sex is 16, I dont get why its ok for s 35 year old to date and marry a 22 year old but its not okay for a 25 year old to date a 17 year old. Since you were friends for 8 months before you were offically a "Couple" and got to know him it ok, its not like you jumped his bones 2 minutes after you met him.

To answer your question, your probably not pregnant since you had ended your period 2 days previous but since youve decided to have sex I would use some form of birth control My friend who is also 17 is engaged to a guy whos 22 and shes been on birth control since before they even thought about having sex. If you choose to have sex you have to be responisible because having a baby when your only 17 could ruin your life.

Im not critizing you since Im 17 and my ex boyfriend was a senior in high school when I was a freshman we only recently broke up due to the fact that he was incapeable of being only 2 hours away and sleeping in his own bed, So age really doesnt matter if you love that person it wont matter and it shouldnt matter
17 and 25 what the hell is mentally wrong with him that he needs to seek out a minor? I'll leave it at that because you really dont want my opinion but if you were my child and a 25 yr old MAN showed up at my door I'd knock his *** out before he had a chance to ring the door bell.
anytime you have sex you can get pregnant.

a 25 year old has NO business with a 17 year old girl. Its illegal for a reason.

Theres the same amount of years between me and my husband, but we didnt even meet until I was 19, and he didnt even know i was so much younger than him until we had been dating for a few months.

When an adult of that age dates a girl who is 17 he KNOWS she's 17, KNOWS she's a child, and is takign advantage of her, no matter what he says or how he acts.

A good man will never risk getting you pregnant. Dont be an idiot and continue convincing yourself this guy is somethinig more than he is.

He's a loser and you shouldnt be with him.
pregnancy is possible, but not very likely. Just so you know if he gets caught having sex with you he can go to jail. I am 24 and would never think about being with someone soooooo young. (gross) but if you don't use protection you can be pregnant. He does not have to ejaculate in you. There is a thing called pre ejaculation. this is just as good at getting you pregnant then regular. I suggest either using protection, or plann on getting pregnant.
yea maybe. you might be. get checked out and go on birth control if you're gonna be having sex a lot. you may as well. then he can *** inside you and that's fun and sexy!

sexy shower scene by the way, made me daydream.. why don't you use punctuation? this is a computer and not a txt msg.
First of all he can get in trouble for being with you. If your parents for example do not like him they can press charges on him. 8 months is pleny of time to get to know someone as long as they are not being fake. You are probably not pregnant b-cuz you usually ovulate about 2 weeks after the first day of your period. A woman's body produces natural juices when we are aroused and it is possible that it was you.
you seem rather immature for 17.. I was somewhat confused reading your question...

age difference is important.. especially when you are younger.. it would be different if you were 50 and he was 57 - then it wouldnt matter so much
but maturity at young ages makes a big difference.. why would a 25 yr old guy be with a 17 yr old girl?? its not because they have alot in common...so I warn you to take caution

even if a guy pulls out you can get pregnant - use protection.. but even then you can still get AIDS or other STD...
better to be SURE you are going to be with a person for a long long time..
25-17=8

17/8=2.125

2.125=Number of seconds it would take me to knock out the
25y/o pedophile that came looking for my 17 y/o daughter
well, first of all, don't trust pulling out unless you're on birth control because i got pregnant doing that. if you finished your period two days before, chances are you're not because you're not ovulating until around 10 days after your period, but if your next period is late, i'd suggest doing a test just in case.

i've always dated older guys as well, and as long as you understand that there will come times when the age difference will matter, and you're cool with that, then it's fine. at least i think so. age is just a number unless the guy is an ***, and in that case you may have trouble.
He's 25 and you're 17? I am going to severely restrain myself on this one although I want to shake some sense into you and rip him a new butthole for having sex with a minor. But at 17, I guess you are old enough to accept the consequences of your actions.

First, you are not in love with someone you've been dating for only 2 months. Time to grow up if you want to play in the adult world. Next, stop referring to anything you do as the "kissy kissy thing." No 25 year old does anything that's called a "kissy kissy" anything.

Now for the important stuff. Pulling out does not guarantee you won't get pregnant. So of course you CAN be pregnant. If you don't know what causes pregnancy, you should NOT be having sexual relations with anyone. So get yourself and your bf to the doctor or clinic for HIV/AIDS and STD testing. Then, practice safe sex and birth control -- that's bc pills and condoms!
I hope your not knocked up as you sound so very uneducated. go to school and learn something before making any babies that all the rest of us have to support...
My boyfriend was 24 when we met and I was 17 but we didn't even date or anything like that until a while later. I think you should have thought about the pregnancy thing before you had unprotected sex with him. Yes, there is a possibility you could be pregnant and it would be just as much your fault as it would be his and at this point if I was your mother I would have him put in jail because he shouldn't have been having sex with a minor.
But another thing...does your parents know you spend the night with this guy? That's really wrong.
If you are 17 and he is 25 it is against the law for him to have sex with you even if you are willing. As a minor you are not legally able to give consent. It is unlikely to get pregnant 2 days after your period, but it can happen. You should always use protection, and pulling out doesn't count as protection. I don't really think that 8 years is that big of an age difference, but you should wait until you are at least 22 or 23 before you start dating this guy. Where are your parents that you are having sex in the shower in the morning?
How close are you to 18?
even though hes 25 and more experienced you can get pregnant, especially by just pulling out, and if hes putting those fluids on your bottom it can run to your vagina so u definitely need to get birth control pills,condoms. if hes 25 then u need to make sure your the only one hes having sex with cause i imagine he gets to stay out and go to more places, your still under 21 so use some protection for your own safety.
.Honey people judge a LOT! Some people here are telling you its illegal but that their partner have the same age difference so go figure! I'm 21 and my husband is 29, Sometimes its better to be with someone older than an immature boy your age, I'm not saying you are Immature I'm talking about boys, when they are young they don't know what they want and play with you, its not the end of the world, just be more careful when u have sex, use protection ALWAYS! you can not only get pregnant but you can get std, I dont think you are pregnant if you had your period 2 days before that you couldn't be ovulating. You'll be 18 in no time and it will be legal so dont worry i think if he just wanted to have sex with you he wouldnt have waited 8 months and would have looked for another girl. Good luck
Well, I don't think so, but I'd be careful if I were you.
What he is doing is against the law. Get away from him and go get yourself checked.
if you are worried about getting pregnant ... you shouldnt be haveing sex or you should be on birth control...
so ... how much do you have in common with this young man?.. what are your expectations from this relationship? what are his?....

most men of that age who seek out a girl of your age. have issues... he is using you
ask yourself why he is unable to have a relationship with someone his own age?.
what is he trying to mold you into.... i pray you have no delusions that he is in love with you.
Well that's rape cos of the age difference.
Um seriously..what could a 25 year old want with a 17 year old...one thing...a piece of a**...
first of all age is just a number but you are not in love with him and he dose not love you all he wants is a to mess with and s his age are smart enough and muture enough to know th difference when he says he loves you its all fake sorry to tell you.thats also sagitory and he could go to jail for a long tiime
ummmm......17 and 25...and you think it's love......tell him that and he'll be gone like this........
First the chances of getting pregnant while close to the end of the beginning of your period are minimal but not impossible, second as of the age difference a lot of hypocrites out there whose husbands might be a lot older than they are, think by indoctrination (being told since kids) that is a bad match since he is older, which is not at all true, is it illegal? yes, does that mean you are not meant to be? absolutely not, if you two do mean to be together make sure you take the adequate precautions and be responsible if he loves you the way he says actions prove more than words, he should think about you and u getting pregnant is not going to help you in a future with him, I wish both of you good luck!!!

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