I am 13 and pregnant?
how do i tell them
Answer:
You need to tell your parents right away. At thirteen your body hasn't developed enough to be pregnant. This puts you at high risk, you need prenatal care ASAP!
which part of Tennesse are you from?
start with ur mom and tell her u have been having sex ...then tell her the news wit ur dad the next day.
just tell them--parents seem to be more understanding than what u think
Well congrats. but you have to tell them cuz u need prenatal care. Y dont u have you rb/f there when u tell them, theyneed to know that he is going to be their for the baby. It may not be pleasent but all is well that ends well. Good Luck.
I think you should get your mom a shirt that says proud to be a grandmother.Put it in a box and give it to her. Stand by the door if she has a history of a bad temper. Don't worry if your mom loves you she might be disappointed but she will get over it. Do you plan of keeping it. Good luck.
Just sit them down and tell them. It won't be easy. They won't kick you ot of the house. If they do, let us know here and we'll find you help. I wish you the best.
Tell them the truth as soon as possible like as in NOW!!!You are going to need them.They will be furious but highly doubtful they will kick you out.They need to know.
you just have to tell them you are pregnant, and then tell them your plans. ask for any suggestions.
try not to worry to much... get it off your chest... they may suprise you and be supportive.
i would suggest telling your mom first they are usually more understanding then you and her can figure out how to tell your dad. good luck
just tell them
sit down with them say Mom Dad i want to be straight up with you then say I'm pregnant
yes they will be mad,hurt and all that come with it. But you really have to tell them.Just have them sit down and you tell them.Don't beat around the bush about it.I know how you feel,I was15 when I got pregnant with my 1st child. Its better for you as well.
You need to tell your parents and you should also be making an appointment with a doctor for prenatal. It's difficult having a baby at 13 and dangerous you should really tell someone soon. So you can get the proper care. Good Luck! And I hope everything goes well.
If you're old enough for sex, then you're old enough to face the consequences. You'd better tell your parents, and the sooner the better. You'll need their support. And, well, if they throw you out, there are places you can go.
I hope they do kick you out.Are you even sure that you have had your period?
your too Young to have a baby!
but if you've decided to keep the baby make sure you and your bf have realistic plans on how your gunna live the next 18+ yrs of your lives bringing up this child, at least then your parents will know that even tho you have been irresponsible by have sex so young that have made adult decisions about this new life your going to bring into the world
first u tell your parents
yu never know what the outcome
will be... second you need jesus
may god have mercy on your soul.good luck
Tell your parents, or another trusted adult who maybe able to be with you when you tell your partents. You can also talk to a counselor at your school. Your parents will be very upset with you. But they will get over it eventually.
Your parents can't (by law) kick you out. But if you are unhappy at home, you maybe able to go to a group home that assist unwed teenage mothers.
Good luck and God Bless you and your baby
get an abortion
Hey hon: There's no turning back now.. So you have to tell your parents. If they kick out a 13 year old pregnant girl...(well I can't tell you what I would think of that, it would be disrespectful of me)
Don't be afraid...they will be in "shock" ..you would be too if you were them.
You seem to have a good plan, you're staying in school, then returning after the baby..all good!
Don't count on the bf too much, he's only 16 and could change his mind..
So, at such a young age, you have to be strong for yourself and your baby..
Now.. go tell them. Write back, let us know what's happening, many people on this site will be concerned for you.
They won't kick you out sweetie. They can't by law anyway. The sooner you tell them, the sooner you can get medical care for you and your baby. Your parents will be mad, of course. That's to be expected. You will understand their frustration when you have a child that does the same thing. I'm sad that you chose to have sex at such an early age though. You are too young to be doing "adult" things. You are still in middle school! I had a baby at almost 19, and it was still hard. I can only imagine the road you have ahead of you. Adoption might be a good choice for you. You will live the rest of your life having people put you down because of your age and how early in life you got pregnant. Be a kid, and enjoy life, not sex. I don't mean to be harsh, what's done is done, but you have to take responsibility for this. Your parents need to know so they can help you. Whatever you do though, do NOT abort! You will regret it. Does your bf's family know yet? You will need to "grow up" really fast, and just be honest with yourself and your parents. I wish you the best of luck, and my prayers are certainly with you. You will need them hon.
well first of all congrats. even tho you are young a baby is a gift from god dont be afraid to talk to your parents yes at first they will be disappointed and mad but after all they are your parents and will understand. talk to your boyfriend about coming over to your house for dinner and after dinner take your parents to the living room and talk to them tell them that your pregnant and you would like to keep your baby and go to school if they yell at you stay quiet and listen to them try to understand that not only will this affect you but also your parents. after you have talked with your parents have your mom take you to a dr. so you can get prenantal care thats very important if all else fails and they kick you out see if you can live with your bf until they cool off but plz take care of yourself and that baby. good luck
Well maybe if you didnt open your legs this would have never happened.
I doubt your parent's will kick you out. I'm not going to lie and say that they won't be angry and upset and extremely disappointed, but most parents will be supportive.
If you feel that you need help talking to them, ask another trusted adult to be there with you. That can be a teacher, aunt or uncle, counselor, anyone that will be there to support you AND your parents. Just tell them. Work through whatever decisions you have to make. You can't do this alone.
I'm not going to lecture about being pregnant at 13. There's no point now. I feel really sad for you, it's so much tougher than will ever imagine. You won't be allowed to be a child any longer.
You should be ashamed of yourself. You should have been careful now you must paid the price
I know how you feel. I got pregnant at 15, I was so scared to tell my parents but they took it a lot better than i thought yes they where upset but they supported me. my boyfriend and I got married right before i turned 16 and i would not change it for the world. My daughter was born in october of 2002 she's now 4 years old and she is the best thing that has happened to me.i am currently trying for #2... if i was you i would start out talking to mom first then let her help you tell your dad.
If you don't tell them, they will be even more furious for not letting them know they have a grand baby. I think you should tell them sooner or later. Yes they will be mad, but realize that we are not perfect and we can make mistakes sometimes. Just remember that the decision you took to have this baby is very important to you and your boyfriend. I think the fact that he has a job and that he is taking the responsibility to take care of his child is great!! while your parents are yelling at you in the living room, tell them with a sincere heart how you feel about this then tell them that you will be in your baby's life and that it would mean a lot if they could be in his or her life too. The life of a baby has no significance if the mother is not a part of it. But the life of that baby is worth nothing if the grandparents don't recognize him or her.
Tell the parent that you connect with the most, and then the two of you can break the news to the other parental figure... I would tell dad first and then start crying right away if your daddy's little girl he should start trying to comfort you and protect you against mom.
Sounds like you have it all figured out! Where your parents aware that you and your boyfriend were sexually active. You have mentioned that you have been together for two years, that would have made you eleven. Your parents should have some idea that their little girl is growing up having allowed you to carry on for two years with a boyfriend. It is not a day to rejoice in that you have fallen pregnant as your a child yourself but they must understand that it does happen and that you must pull together as a family. They will be disappointed and no doubt raise their voice but in the end they will come around and when they see the beauty of this babies face as they recall how beautiful you were as a baby they will begin the healing process and fall in love with your baby.
Well, if I were your parents, I would get very mad at you. You're 13, and not fully educated and your boyfriend is 16, why are you having sex anyway, you should be in school learning something. You should tell your parents anyway, but truly, I have no pity over you.
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