Pleaze don't put silly answers I am serios this is soo important?
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NO!do NOT put her threw peer mediation. talking with skool mates isn't gonna help none, cuz like you said there just gonna call her emo and crap like that. Be there for her, and do random but daily checks to see if she has done anyhting to herself, if she has don't make a huge deal out of it, but let her now that this is NOT the right thing to do and she will love her life eventually. If you ever see anything sharp, like saftey pins a sharp pencil, anyhting to the sort, take it away from her. Let her know that it's ok to talk to someone, it would be nice if she would talk to you. Don't push her to tell you though, just let her know that you're there for her anytime that she needs you, no matter what's going on in your life. Don't tell her about your problems durning this time either. that's the last thing that she needs, cuz then that's adding more stress to her life. she dont' need any of that. When. if someone calls her emo or anything else to the sort, defend her. keep repeating yourself about telling her that it's ok to talk to you or someone else that's close and telling her that everything will be ok at the end. I went threw the same thing, both me and my best friend tried to commit. we brought each other threw it and now our friendship is closer then ever. nothing could break our bonds now. I HOPE THIS HELPS YOU OUT!!!
Chelsie
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I would talk to your mom about it.
You should talk to your mom, teacher, or any adult that you trust as soon as you can. The'll be able to help you hunn.
she needs proffessional help, besides your support! try talking to her parents!
You should definitely tell someone about it, and the peer mediation is a great way to start. You're a good friend for worrying and wanting to help your friend!
Tell her to just get through it.I went through it,when my parents divorced and my mom and her bf were fightin.Suicide is stupid.
um..councaling maby that would help? tharapy and just try 2 cheer her up until u ccan get help/
I am not sure how old you are but you are not trained to handle this kind of a situation. You need to talk it over with someone older that you can trust. I would suggest your mother if the two of you are close. If not please talk to a teacher or a counselor at school. It is not fair for you to be trying to deal with this on your own. You need some help. Find the right person to talk to about this and don't wait too long to do it either.
Love and Blessings
Lady T~
well have her talk to a counselor at school about it, just be there for her, maybe suggest to the school someone talk to the parents so they are aware, since they are the problem, good luck!
She needs professional help, you can be there for her and support her but it's not something you and her can fix by yourselves. Tell a teacher, you mom, her mom, someone you trust.
don't get other students involved, but maybe talk to a teacher she really likes and would listen to or maybe your mom or some adult who would take you seriously. maybe she just really needs to know that someone gives a care.
TELL AN ADULT!!!!!
That is the only thing that will help your friend. if you are not comfortable talking to your parents tell a trusted teacher or other adult. your friend needs help and fast! you could also call the suicide hot line and tell then what is going on. you should put her up for peer meditation. she needs to rethink her values in like. make sure that you tell her that you will be with her every step of the way. someone going through that much emotional stress really needs someone to be there to back them up and who they can lean on. make sure you show her how great life really is!
She does need to talk to someone, and I know how she feels.. my parents always were at it and I felt the same way she did. Talking does help! look in your local area phone book and get the crisis teen hotline or suiside hotline for your area. She might need some medication to help out (paxil) or something . good luck!!~!
first of all ask questions that people under stand
and do not use street slang might help you get your
point across to human people
yes you are doing the right thing whit the peer mediation plus if she is your best friend then you know her mom and she needs to know. if not her then a teacher or somebody that can help because when someone talks about suicide that is a cry for help before they do it.
oh my....baby girl i tell u this without going to a long story i myself was once like that same situation... i would tell her that u need her n if she do that then u will be lost without her tell her that her life is not hers alone that it belong to the Lord n u... because if she is gone who will look after u n love u like her... she will know the answer to that... her n ur dad need to work things out n tell her that if she do off herself she will surely go to hell. hey it sounds like she needs a friend that dont know her n wont judge her actions tell ur mom to email me i will be her friend n talk to her no matter what day or time it is if she dont have an yahoo account make one for her since u 2 r best friends just do that for me n i will try my best to help her now n lattter this is something that God will be pleased for her to reach out n get help tell her to let go n let GOD. please tell her to contact me asap GOD BLESS U ALL
when i was 12 or so my parents were divorced and i took it really hard also. one thing your friend needs to understand is this is not her fault, and her mum and dad love her no matter what happens with them.
if she was going to take her own life it would only make it harder on her family and no one wants to see that happen.
you should try and get her to speak to her school councillor he/she may have some sort of activity or routine to help her take her mind off things..
she should also talk to her family and tell them whats going on if they understand just how much this is affecting her they can sit down and talk to her about it and try and figure out a way to get along for her sake..
my parents tried to get back together for our sake and everytime it just got worse on us and i think we were better off when they were not together, but everyone is different.
ask her to your house for a weekend see if your mum will let you and just hire outsome movies or do what ever it is you guys are interested in to make her happy make it a weekend without thinking about whats going on with her mum and dad. just keep being a good friend
try calling this number, and it over with some one who can help and who cares. people on the net are not going to ive you true help. after you call then have your freind call. or have your freind with you when you call. the number is for girls and boys town. a national teen help org. the hotline is 24/7 so you can call any time.
1-800-448-3000
OR girlsandboystown.org
PLEASE TRY TO KEEP HER BUSY, GO OUT WITH HER TRY TO DO THINGS SHE LIKES TO DO, DON'T LEAVE HER ALONE.MEAN WHILE TRY TALKING TO YOUR PARENTS MAY THEY CAN TALK TO YOUR FRIEND'S PARENT AND POINT OUT TO THEM HOW THEIR PROBLEMS ARE AFFECTING THEIR DAUTHER.
why cant u tell her, its her life, if she love her life, why does she thinks of stupid things...so what if she has problems with her parents, i think she should talk to her parents that making each other's a hell wld make her feel comfortable, that if they love her, try to solve. not fighting...if it makes it better, u talk to her, and tell her u'll be there if she wants help like talking to her parents in person... or something, suicide doesnt solve anything... if u really cant help, get help from the school councellor, they will talk to ur friend's parents, and u wont be involved with their problem then...its the best so far...
tell ur friend dat is not worth doing.if its getting irritating then to talk 2 her parents cause i used 2 regret dat i didnt talk 2 ma parents .n i am being serious
try to talk to ur parents and hers too about it
You really need to talk to either your parents about it,or an adult that you feel comfortable with,whether it's a teacher at school,or an aunt or uncle.In the meantime,just be their for your friend,listen to her when she feels like talking about things,but if you are going to do this,please if possible talk to some one your self,whether it's a school counsellor,or a parent,as listening to peoples problems can be very stressful on a person,whether they are aware of it or not.I hope that your friend is feeling alot better about herself very soon.take care.
You poor girl, my friend went like that and turned me like that so make sure you stay as happy as possible.
Try to talk her out of it by pointing out the good points to her life eg. you and other friends. Also point out the flaws there is whole list of them on my Piczo website so go onto the website below with her and go on the Don't die page (it's the one at the bottom of the my pages list).
FIRST, CALL A SUICIDE HOT LINE! Then start telling anyone who can help! school counselor, pastor, parents, teacher. You are in over your head here, do not try to help by tour self! She may be mad at you at first, but she will thank you for it later. DO THIS NOW!!
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