Turned 13, First Kiss, First date?

I just turned 13 and this kinda bothers me cause I havent had my First Kiss with a girl or even a date. Most of my friends have had dates and first kisses (age 13-14) and i go to an all boys day school. Most fo my friends think I am all boring and innocent and they think that Id rather read a book than call a girl. As I said going to an all boys school makes it harder for me to meet girls, talklessof walking up and talking to them since I dont see them on a daily basis. And I dont want my first kiss or date to be too late. What should I do?

Answer:
relax. i just had my first kiss/date in october (im not officially allowed to date), and im turning 15 next month! all of my friends, except 1, was surprised that that was my first kiss and date. its fine. it actually doesnt mean anything. just dont kiss somebody u cant imagine dating. beleive me. i wish id waited even longer, bcuz the guy said, on our date (at the movies, with 2 of my friends), he said he realized some things, and only saw us as being friends. now he barley talks 2 me at all, and it breaks my heart every time i think about him.

find a girl in your neighborhood or something, go out and do stuff w/ ur friends. go 2 the skating rink or something.
plz, dont go on a date and kiss some1 just 2 be able to say u went on a date and have had ur fist kiss.
dont rush it! Seriously, its not a big deal:)
Kids at ur age just want to be "cool" or "mature" by going on a date or kissin' but honestly, dont sweat it;)


**SharkBite**
you should wait a little longer.. go to a party and try to talk to the girlss there, also your kinda young for a GOOOOOOD first kiss, if you want a really good first kiss wait a little longer.. it'll come. and just talk to them like your talking to any of your other friends that are girls, so in my opinion the longer you wait, the better the girls get. :] good luck <3
It's never too late to have your first date or kiss. I didn't have my first kiss until I was 15, and I didn't go on my first date until I was 17. These things happen when they happen. Your friends shouldn't give you such a hard time. If you want to meet girls, then you can start hanging out with your friends on the weekend. Going to different places is a good way to meet people. And, just be yourself. Don't let your peers influence your actions.
Why does a first kiss have to be at such a young age or with some random girl?

You should wait. Dont let your friends tell you how and when it needs to be done. Be strong for yourself.

You should wait for the first kiss till your ready and you meet the right girl. It will be more special and you will remember it for ever.
just wait it out, it will happen sooner or later. i know 17 year olds who have never had a kiss.
13? You shouldn't be worrying about such things. Although I'm a girl, I'm 15 and have never been on a date. Do I worry about it? No. It will come when it comes. Worry about doing well in school and transitioning to HS (which I assume is coming up).

When you find the right girl, you find it. You don't want to remember your first kiss/date as being with some girl you didn't care about.
I'm 14 one of the most popular guys in school and I haven't had my first kiss. I'm just waiting for the right time!
Let your friends think what they want, don't rush things. You are still young, and you will have your first date/kiss when you find the right girl. Your right, you don't see them everyday, so it's kind of an "out of place" situation for you. Have fun with your friends, when you find the right girl, you will know, and you will have the courage to go up and talk to her :)
no offense but dating a thirteen year old boy is like dating a eunuch. Your voice hasn't even dropped yet.
Don't worry that you haven't had your first kiss/date yet. I'm 14 and haven't gone on a date either. If you want to meet more girls you should try activities outside of your school, for example, I go to the YMCA. Your first date will be at the right time, not to late, especially if you find a person you really like. Hope this helps
Don't worry because I'm 15 and haven't had a first date or kiss don't worry!!!
*Alacransita*
At first, I thought you were a girl, so I was gonna tell you it was okay. But then I realized you were a boy, so I'm still going to tell you it's okay because it is. Look, you just turned 13!!! You still have your whole 13th year to find a girlfriend! And I bet by the time you're 15/16, you'll meet some girl who will think it's really cute/sweet that you haven't been kissed. It'll give them the idea that you're someone they can take home to meet their parents (which hopefully you are) and what girl wouldn't want to be a boy's first kiss? Who cares if you haven't done anything yet - YES, I am aware you are a boy. If you're really desperate, why don't you go and hang out with your friends when they have their girl around? Maybe they can introduce you to someone. Okay. Bye.
who cares if u haven't been kissed yet...u'll find someone soon that will like you for who you are

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