Should I wait till im married to lose my virginity?
Answer:
Here's what you need before you should think about sex:
Independence
A job (with medical benefits)
A home (that you own or rent)
A savings account (with enough money to pay all of your bills for at least one year)
A supportive family (and/or friends)
An education
Some life experience
Why? Because sex, no matter how prepared you think you are to handle it, is emotional. It's also how you get babies, even though you may think you're using protection. If you're willing to accept that you may get pregnant, and you have all of the above, then by all means... have sex. Many women end up in a situation where they have to raise a child alone, and having a child out of wedlock is certainly no exception. Some men leave, some men stay. But is it really worth the risk to lose your virginity if you don't have a solid foundation in place in case you do get pregnant?
Personally, I wouldn't wait (and didn't - hell I'd still be waiting) But do what's right for you. not a decision you should base on the answers of people on here.
WAIT! you should totally wait until you find THE ONE for you, and it will go alot better, and he won't be wondering how many guys you've slept with etc. it brings alot more satisfaction to wait, even if it's hard. that's what i've heard from other ppl and that's what i'm planning on doing, i've heard alot of ppl say they didn't wait and they regret it now.
YES WAITED.. Its way to much of a emotional thing to give it to just anybody
i didn't
and you people act as if when u have sex your whole life ends
heyy buddy they invented something for that called a condom
i'm 12 and i am gonna wait untill i'm married (cause i don't wanna be a teen mom) or wait untill i'm about that age.
I'm sure you will get married and a big reason to wait if not for religious reasons then for health reasons, both physical and emotional. If you think about it, if you sleep with someone who is not a virgin then you are sleeping with everyone they have slept with and everyone their partners have slept with and so on. You greatly increase you chance of disease and when you sleep with someone you give a small piece of your heart to them. There is always some kind of emotional attachement. I waited until I was married and so did my husband and we have never regretted saving ourselves for marriage. It gives us more of a peace of mind knowing that we are each other's only one. And don't worry about the whole "practice makes perfect" bit. It will come naturally.
You should wait. I didn't and I regret it. I've been married for two years now and I so wish that my husband would have been the only one for me. I love him so much that I wish I would have given myself to him and only him.
Would you buy a car without driving it first?
Would you buy a pair of shoes without trying them on first?
What I think you SHOULDN'T have before you get married is a baby. Having sex is what makes babies so if you do have sex, make sure you have reliable protection from babies and diseases ( don't count on the guy to do it, 'cause he doesn't have as much at stake as you do ) until you find "Mr. Right".
You should Definitely wait until you are married. Good for you if you can do this! It's what I plan to do. SOOO many people nowdays think they can have "sexual freedom"..Umm..NO! Wait until you are married to have sex. God bless.
It depends. If you have been with a boyfriend for a long time and you know you are in love with him, then it's okay. Don't loose your virginity just for the sake of it. And all because you don't wait till your married doesn't make you a bad person. I lost mine to my boyfriend that I am in love with and I don't regret it at all. =)
What do guys know? What could I tell you that would convince you to wait? You should, but if you are already wondering if you should, more than likely you won't. A question you should ask is, would the man responsible support the baby if indeed your not married. I know you didn't say anything about a baby, but 9 times out of 10 if you don't wait, you will end up pregnant. It is not for anyone to decide but yourself. Why not wait? Is the pressure being turned up by hearing others tell their experiences? It is something that should be sacred between a husband and wife. Be careful in making your decision. WAIT!! You must think about the diseases that are out there. You would not believe how many young people have contracted a STD.
I think you should wait till you are married. Or at least the one that you plan to marry. That is the one you will love. I'm sure he will think the same, WOW a virgin. And that will mean alot more to him and you, maybe not now, but later on during that special romantic love act. So I say, "SAVE IT FOR THE ONE YOU LOVE, AND THE ONE THAT WILL LOVE YOU"
it really depends on the person
I told my self to wait till i was married when i was in high school and now i'm 19 and in college. I didn't wait. i had sex with my bf we have been together a year now. I think he's a keeper. He was the i was waiting for. So waiting until you get married is the best thing but you never know. Just in case you cant wait make sure that you protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy and STD's.
I didn't. I was 16 and way too young. I don't think that you should wait until you are married but I do think that you should love the person and know them and their medical history well.
Here's the bottom line: You cannot give your virginity to your future husband if you do not have it and that is the ONLY thing you can give him that no one else can.
Wait. . . you'll be glad you did
I am now 33 years old and have been happliy married for over 5 years. I waited until I got married and let me tell you it is so worth the wait. I was 28 years old and still a virgin on my wedding night. My virginity was that special that I wanted to give it to one person only, My husband. He was so honored because I saved it just for him. Love making is so special and so wonderful that it should be only givien to your husband.
Please wait. You will find that special someone and you can honor him by giving your full self to him on your wedding night.
NO ONE IS GOING TO WAIT THAT LONG AND YOU KNOW IT. LOOK AT OUR CULTURE. Btw I wasnt trying to sound mean but that is the truth.
God's Rules want you to wait until you r married
reli, r u seriously askin this question.. will what i answer effect what u will do..
come on..
its up to u at the end of the day.. u know what i am saying..
YES YES YES...WAIT
according to the Bible YES wait
according to this world of lust,and pleasure,no
giving into your worldly desires is so childish even if its hard
if you really want to know more on this subject pam stencil is the one to consult sorry only can give the name wish i could help more.
I'll tell you what i am doing I am almost 21 and still have not had sex I don't think I am going to wait till i get married I am going to wait until I find a guy that treats me right and with respect I hope this helps
Having sex is a personal choice, if you feel you are ready to do it then do it without guilt.. but if you want to wait then thats good too.
You dont mention how old you are but unless you're in your 30's and still a virgin I would say wait a bit longer and decide later on what it is you want to do.
Have some fun.
i said i'd wait. then stuff happens in life and ur mind chages. im 19 im still a virgin but i don't think i want to sleep with the one person for the rest of my life. but then again may be i do. im not sure its up to u don't listen to us
I believe if you are going to have sex, you need to enter into it as if you were expecting to get pregnant. No matter how many precautions you take, there is still the possibility of a pregnancy (my mother-in-law got pregnant six years after she had her tubes tied, so, NOTHING is foolproof). If and when you are emotionally, financially, and physically able to provide for a child, then I believe it is fine to have sex. I didn't wait until marriage, but I also did NOT have sex unless I was in a position to care for any possible children without the help of my partner. I was 23, had graduated college, and had a full-time job, housing, etc. when I first had sex. My husband certainly doesn't think any less of me because we had sex before we were married, but we also didn't have sex until we were ready to support a child, if necessary (he's in the military, so, he'd be obligated to provide support whether he wanted to or not). Ultimately, it comes down to how mature you are and how willing you are to accept possible consequences. I have friends who were virgins until they were married (or near virgins; their only partner is their now-husband), others who have had many partners, and most who fall in between. Each person is different, and so, YOU must decide what is best for you.
The one thing I urge you to do is to wait until you have completed your post-high school education, whether that is a four-year degree, trade school, etc. Having a baby before that is done will make your life extremely difficult.
I think it's up to you. If you think you're ready then go ahead, but if you're not then just wait. I thought I was gonna wait til I was married, but I guess that'll never happen. Plus if your religion is important to you then don't do it. Wait as long as you want. You should really wait for that one special person to come into your life.
I would wait, b/c supposedly you think you'll be with him for along time and then you get pregnant and he walks out on you and leaves you to raise your kid, and your left there fighting over in court wether or not he should help you raise your kid. Plus it reduces the risk of STD and such. Just think really hard about it before you make your decision.
I think you are right suppose you never get married I think you should just wait for the right guy and stay with him there are couples that aren't married and they're together I would just stay with one guy and there are ways to prevent pregnancy.
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