My best friend is pregnant with my boyfriend !?!?!?!?
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I'd Prolly tell them to have a great life together...Hope you have a healthy baby...Been nice knowing you...Adios'...How can she be a friend, if shes playing with YOUR boyfriend. I wouldn't give him the time of day if he asked for it...
what a great friend she is, not only does she look after your boyfriend but the baby that should have been yours - id have killed her
whoop that trick,whoop that trick,whoop that trick.
forgive her, but drop him
Wow, that's a tough one...
Can you imagine spending time with her in, say, 10 years? When the kid is older? How does that feel? Do you feel weird or uncomfortable? How does it feel to look at the kid? How does it feel to have dinner with your boyfriend, your friend and her kid?
If you think it would feel ok, give it a try!
Personally I couldn't do it, but every person is different.
Forgive them for your own sanity, but walk away from both of them. You deserve some respect and the first person to show such respect is you.
It really depends how you treat the friendship. If I were in your shoes, I will forgive her but I will never be the godmother of the baby and I will dumped the guy. To me this is consider as an act of betrayal of trust and anybody who does this, I won't considered him or her as my friend even though I can forgive him/her
Do you forgive her? Only be the god-mother if you can forgive her. It's going to hurt like hell when she has the baby and your boyfriend is all happy and involved and everybody is oohing and aahing over the baby. Think things over, if you can truly find it in your heart to forgive her, then go ahead, if not, then walk away. I'm not sure why she did that, but she had no concern for your feelings and neither did your boyfriend.
Well you should follow your haert and if your mad be mad and tell hr to give you some time.
Sounds like neither of them really give a sh*t about your feelings.
The question is, do you think you can ever trust either of them again. If the answer is maybe or yes, then it's up to you.
but if the answer is a flat out no, then move on.
There are lots of people out there, who will treat you alot better.
Good luck.
Sounds like a soap opera.
Well you have been friends with the girl for longer than the boy.
Maybe you should be glad you found out early that your boyfriend sleeps around and that your girlfriend isn't too bashful to get laid by your fellow.
Sorry if that seems harsh but it is the truth.
Maybe we should blame it all on Hollywood with its, "Sleep with anybody you want to" , kind of movies.
To err is human to forgive is divine.
If you can forgive them both good for you. If you can forgive only one of them you are stronger than me.
Your boyfriend will ALWAYS have rights to visit HIS child, can you live with that?
Is he going to stay with you or is he going to be with her or is he just going to split and leave all three of you. You, your girlfriend, and his baby?
I wouldn't call her a friend at all. Obviously if she cared about you at all, she wouldn't have been sleeping with your boyfriend. Hopefully you dumped him too. And normally family members are considered for godparents.
Walk away - just walk away.
Look you should really give her a second chance but drop you boyfriend because if anybody he got pregnant it should have been you . but then again you guys are probably to young to get pregnant or event thinking about sex. so you should probably drop him but keep her as a friend
They had betrayed you once. Wouldnt there be a 2nd time? Do you still believe in them?
For purposes of self-respect it is better to decline such a proposal!
You should forgive her but wounds doesnt heal that fast. You had been best friends since primary school , did she think of that way too?
No way. Cut both of them loose and stay far away from them.
are u sure u'll be able to handle that?
How do u feel about ur godchild being ur ex's child - if u can be sure that you won't blame the child for his parents mistakes then it's up to you.However i personally would refuse to be godmother and ditch both friend and boyfriend.
err..wel why are you still with your boyfriend DUMP HIM! and i kno she is your best friend and everything but shudnt asked you 2 be godmother that is soo wrong
wel i guess you to should still be friends but i would let her sweat for a little bit to teach her a lesson because what she did was so wrong
hth
does ur boy friend really love u ???????
or are both of them are into love?????
what were the cicumstances which led them into have sex????
do u still love ur boy friend?????
was ur friend really helpless while doing sex ???
are both of them repenting for what they done??????
follow ur heart
cheers
gudlava
You should write a screenplay. I take it he is now your ex-boyfriend? That might make things a little easier.
It's up to you.
Is he still your b/f?
Do you still want to be friends with her?
Are you sure it is your B/F baby?
There are far too many questions to this problem that needs sorting out long before being godmother to a baby.
Sort out what you want from either friendship before deciding what they want from you. Only you know your friend and remember she has to live with this for the rest of her life.
well you can forgive her if you want but drop your boyfriend and keep a closr eyes on her with your future boyfriend so she dont get pregnnt again of one of them
well now that is up to you. personally I'd ditch the both of them.
wow hmm i guess shes not ur best friend ne-more or if it was me i would not b...yeah that would be nice to make u the godmother but dam thats str8 up wrong and inconsiderate...personally i wouldnt be freidns wit her even if i was friends wit her since primary school...but thats my opinion
I would.BF's come and go...but Best Friends are to be forever.
sorry to say.. u have to give up her and also your boyfriend..if they had taken you into consideration..they shouldnt even do that..
i feel you are short changed by them..they are taking u for granted..
also..by being godmother is not so simple as in name..u also need to buy things and care for the kid
Sure you should forgive her..who are we to judge we all make mistakes
but, has she came to you and ask you for forgiveness? And os she relly regretting the pain she caused you? And about bing the godmother ... if you feel you want to do this in your heart then go ahead. But, know that this will cause you some feelings in the future.
Some would say go on with your life and really thinking abuot it after i forgave i would do the same cause it happened to me my friend messed around with my bf and i forgave her and left him but, when i got another boyfriend she tried to do the same again and that is when i really stopped talking to her. Cause once they do it they think we will always forgive them and they WILL do it again. So whatever your decision is it will be a life experience.
So good luck.
It really is your choice. I mean that is not a friend to her. If she slept with your boyfriend behind yur back then I do not think that you could be friends with her again. That was a violation of the friendship and trust that you two had for each other and she decided to throw it all away basically. So it is your choice. Just think, if you were still friends with her, would she try to sleep with your future boyfriends again?
What is your definition of a best friend? I don't think I could ever be friends with someone again if they betrayed me in such a fashion. Just because you have known her for alot of years don't mean you have still be friends. Friendship should be about trust, and it sounds like she's not someone you can trust.
This is serious Id walk away from the both of them. Your boyfriend cheated on you and your best friend betrayed you, you deserve to hang around much better people who respect and care about you. Obviuosly these two dont..
WHAT!!!!!
No, I don't think I would be hangin out with her anymore or accept the Godparent role. Why are you still with this guy?
They are both wronge here and neither one of them deserve to have you in their lives. You need to let them both go and move on with your life. If you don't this is just gonna keep causing you pain through the years. Imagine when she gives birth and the excitement the two of them will share that you will not be involved in. That is really gonna hurt. There are lots of other guys out there who will deserve you... Please move on and forget about them. GOOD LUCK ,,, you need it.
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