Urgent need of advice...?
There is a play that is going on for a few more days. Maybe we could go to that... I just can't figure out what to do.
Answer:
If all you've ever done is engage in "small talk" then I doubt he feels anything other than maybe liking you as an acquaintance. He doesn't know you well enough to feel anything else and you don't know him well enough to either. I suggest you go slow, start chatting him up a bit more, find out what he likes to do, what his interests are and whether you and he share any. Those are the first steps to a relationship and shouldn't be omitted since they are the most important.
follow your heart and if it is meant to be then it will happen ;) good luck sweetie!
Try asking for his number, IM or email address, than you can get to know him easier without other people around or him seeing you are nervous.
Do you have some more friends in the play that are also his friends? Get a few friends and tell him, " hey , _____( enter guy's name here) me and a couple friends are going out for pizza and we want to know if you want to come too."
Hunny, Just be brave. Try talking to him a few times and then once you start feeling a bit more comfortable around him then pop the question. It's a play not like your asking him to marry you. If he says NO then he's a jerk and wasn't worth the date anyway.
Good Luck
approach him, start a casual conversation and it should work from there. don't act stuck up or soft, just normal. be your self and things should fall into place for you
just talk to him and just slip that you and a few friends are going to your house and hurry and grab a few friends to come over.
Just talk to him and see what he is interested in and ask him out but not so much as a date ask him if he wants to get pizza or something like that and dont stress about it.
forward this page to him with a note saying "wanna go out?"
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