17 preganant with 3?
im still at school but by the time they are born i will be finished school already.
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Well First off I'm not here to judge or to put u down congratulations. I disagree wit the others when they say beg ur boyfriend or parents. U shouldn't have to BEG anyone. I'm 17 too and i had twins and everyone was against me, and yeah i was scared like u but then one night i had just got out of work(i work 3 jobs) and i was doing my homework when my baby kicked and it was the best feeling in the world and that's when i knew that i live life for me and them and not care about the negativity from others. Just Be Strong and Stay in school even if ur going through a tough time cuz u don't just wanna educate yourself but one day u gonna have to educate them as well. E-mail if u ever wanna talk.
Ouch ,sorry, tough break
For one, you shouldn't be having sex. If your against abortion and adoption, your only choice is to keep the baby. Try and work things out with your boyfriend and pray. Only God can help you now. Family can do all so much before they give up.
YOU ALSO HAVE THE FATHER TO HELP YOU AND I THINK YOU CAN DO IT. IT MAY SEEM HARD BUT LIFE IS HARD.
beg and plead your parents, your bf, and his parents to help!!
First of all I have to ask if the father is in the picture, if so than you need to let him know that you need his help because he is responsible for the children too. I would also suggest you talk to a counselor and your parent this is very important you are young and you need as much help as possible.
3 kids at 17 wow! and i thought i had problems with 2 dogs 2 cats and a crazy x gf. tough break honey... better get signed up on wic and get ready to file those child support papers..
don't get sacred ask for help to your mom they are clinic that can help you also i think in this case the government should help with food stamp and you can also apply for housing you can do it please don't abort god will never give us something we cant handle and if you used all that protection and still got pregnant i think is because that baby were meant to be and thats why they are there loves them raise them you see i probably be hard the first months but it will be worthy you have been blessed with triplets that something amaising i got pregnant at 15 and here i am ok everything has work out fine now im 19 and have 2 child and is all ojk i have my house and everything if you finished schol before they are born the state caan help you with a child care while you work they even paid for it so dont get scared you can just look for help hope this help and my best wishes
I know it'll be hard, but adoption seems to be the best option in our situation. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders, graduate from highschool and go to college. Get a good job, get married and have a family. You can always have the adoption remain open, so you can be in their lives as much as you and their adoptive parents agree on. You want your kids to be raised in a good home, with everything they want and need. That'll be hard to do with three children when you are 17, even if your family is supporting you. Check out the options in your area. You can go through a public, private, religious or many other offices. In the end it's your choice. But remember to put your future and the future of your children first. Don't worry what others will think of you for doing what you do.
Wow! If you have help from the father and your parents i see this as being very possible. I dont see how one person could do it alone? I sure as heck couldnt
You absolutely have to have an amazing support system... and that means way more than just you and your boyfriend.
You can do it... but your next 20 years is going to be entirely devoted to these three kids...
I really don't know what to tell you... Good Luck!!
Good luck to you , your sure gonna need it.But look at it this way..yes having to take care of triplets is going to be really tough but you were blessed with three little miracles!! Try to find help and support in your family , friends, and community..Remember what dosen`t kill you will make you stronger!! Best wishes to you and your little family!!
Dont listen to these AHholes that are telling you tought break and **** like that... it was an accident!! it was oviously ment to be if you used the condom, and pill. everything happens for a reason..
You should put the babies up for adoption until you get on your feet and finish school.
You can do this. Support from your family and friends will help a lot...and don't worry, they will help. Don't be scared to ask for help in any way, and just remember you'll get through this and you'll be a great mommy. Good luck.
if you LOVED them you would give 2 for adoption to the same family (adopt them as twins) - or adopt out all 3 as triplets...
this is the ultimate act of love. really.. you are putting their needs ahead of your own... that is love
the best thing you can do for you and your kids is to put them up for adoption to a family that can support them. if you're lucky you can put all 3 of them for adoption to the same family.
♥ candy-diva ♥
Maybe talk to close family looking to have children, like an aunt or cousin who wants children. Get some possible adoptees who you know you'll see frequently lined up, and consider if you want to give them some-or all-of your children. That way, it won't be as depressing, but you'll be splitting up triplets on the downside, and as an upside, you'll see them at every family function and give your family much satisfaction. You could also get child support from the father, and have him get partial custody, and get lots of help from family. Do you have cousins who are preparing to be pregnant? Get them to take "Mommy 101" Hands-On by helping you raise your triplets, and don't plan on going on dates for a while. When they're in school, you can apply for a community college, like Bryman or Maric. Then, you'll be able to get a job while they're in school.
Good luck, and congratulations!
If you are not giving them up for adoption you need to start by enlisting your family and friends to do research for possible grants by baby companies, social service organizations, and ministries in your area that can help you.
This sounds difficult because i have heard of 17 year olds not being able to handle 1 but 3 that is tough but not impossible. That is good that you are not thinking about abortion because that is a horrible thing to do and giving them for adoption is a tough thing to do too. Maybe your family can help you with the babies and the baby's father can too and his family. YOu will make it through one way or another.
Good Luck!
why did you have sex if are anti-abortion? you knew the risks, now you have the consequence
thats what happens! deal with it! sounds like a problem
3 babies oh my, girl you are gonna have it rough for a while. i wish you much luck and a supportive family and friend system! you can do it. get state aide as well.
well it is hard to give birth to 3 kids. most people miscarry with even twins. so maybe you might be lucky and miscarry.. since you say you dont want kids. thats an accomplishment though triplets. anyways did you follow your pills regulalry? took them on time everyday?and didnt miss any pills? i dont think you did,. and the condom probably broke im sorry this is happening to you. but even though it will hurt giving up the babies for adoption (if they all make it) they will have a much better life. you will only be in a way selfish by keeping them. you cannot provide fro them even withthe help of your bf. keeping them would only help ease your pain of not giving them away. but giving them up for adoption is your best bet. they would have a better life.
good luck
Give 2 up for adoption and raise one. That way you have 1 to raise and love without the hassle of 3. I suggest you pick which one you want to keep with your boyfriend and get jobs.
What about your bofreind?
tell your parents and they would take it from there. and what is up with these 13-17 girls having babies and not married
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