How big of an age difference is too big?

I have a crush on a guy who is 15. He liked me first, but I'm only 13. Is the age difference too big? I don't intend to be doing anything too mature with him, just dating and maybe kissing.

Answer:
no that is not too much of an age difference. Now if you were crushing on a 20 year old then that would be a problem.

And mentally you all are pretty much the same age :)
I would say date someone closer to your age until you are a little older. Although you might not plan on doing anything more than kissing, he might have different expectations. You have to be careful and not be taken advantage of. If you do date him, make sure you stay in a group and don't go anywhere secluded alone with him. You don't want to be pressured into anything you are not comfortable with.
no. but you should becareful because some guys are now xperimenting doing the STUFF they really shouldnt be doing. but if he respects you and cares for you, then he wouldnt pressure you to do stuff like that. if its on those terms, i dont think so. but respect yourself so others may respect you. no means no and you need to show them that. dont ever be afraid.
sometimes it depends on puberty, but usually that isn't much. age really counts when ure 1-30 yrs old.after that age diff could be between 1-20 yrs. 2 yrs 4 u is fine.
Let x = your age.
x/2 + 6 = the appropriate age for someone to date you.
When I had my first real boyfriend I was 13 and he was 15. We kissed and went places together and stuff but we never had sex.
You are fine but don't have sex until you are ready. Preferably MARRIED!!
no, not at allll. think about it this way, when you're 20 he'll be 22.. it's not a big age difference at all.
At the age of 13 that's too big of an age difference (in my opinion anything out of your grade in school would be too big a difference at your age). At the age of 20 it wouldn't be.
Age is just a number. Unless you like someone like, 30 or 20 or something, then, it is! Lol. And anyways, that is only 2 years away.
aren't you still in middle school? well i say too much of an age difference right now.wait another year or two..
I think it is too much of an age differnce. I also think at 13 DATING is not a word for you. Ask your parents. Wonder how so many 13 yr olds are moms?? Simple parents let their 13 yr olds date.
No way is that age difference too big! Im almost 20(in a couple of days) and my partner is 24! You do what makes you feel happy! and under no circumstances should you do anything that you feel you dont what to! Good Luck and just have fun in life!!
your age difference is ok. i would say 7 or 8 years apart is too far but you are ok.
He's a bit too old for you. It is not safe! 13 is just beginning the teen years, you're still a young girl, not quite a young woman yet.
By the time you're 15 you will have learned much, then bf's no more than 3 years older for awhile. Till you are at least 25. Then you do what ever the heck you want.
How's that?
no that is definitly not too big of an age difference, just be sure that you don't let him pressure you into something that you don't want to do.
that is ok for you.You are just 2 years apart.
no i do not think it is to much i am 17 and my bf is 40 yes now that is big but i think that as long as he respects you and doesn't;t pressure you to do something that you don;t want to do it is cool but one thing that you need to do is explain to him that you are to young to do anything now but he needs to allow your relationship to mature for it to go further and if he respects that then i think that you will be fine and another thing is that you don't need to move into it to fast you are young and there will be time for u to act like and adult when you become an adult take it from me i started having sex when i was 14 and i regretted IT everyday and most of the girls i know regretted it to i hope i have helped write me and let me know how it goes ,,Melanie
Here's what I think of as an appropriate age differnce:
Middle School: 2 years or less
High School: 3 years or less
After: up to you
15 and 13 is fine.
i don't think it is
i am datin a guy that's 14 and i am 12 so no
no the age differance is fine =)
it would not be fine if the guy was like 21 or higher and you are only 13
No two years older is ok.
2 YEARS IS FINE I THINK THATS PERFECT IM IN THE SAME SITUATION... I THINK 5 YEARS OR MORE IS A PROBLEM!!
really age difference doesnt matter. if you care for each other than you care for each other. its a little more difficult when you are younger, say if your 10 and he is 20 something is not right but if its 30 and 40 it doesnt seem as bad. but your situation doesnt seem too bad, but if he dont feel right than you should respect that

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