Okay my mom is making a big deal out of it? help?
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Your mother is only doing what she thinks is best for you. I don't think it's the fact that he's too old for you. It's just that right now, it's not okay. He's an adult, and you're not. That's dangerous. You're just asking for trouble. Be a teen, have fun, hang out. If you wait a couple years you'd be fine. I mean look down the road 5 years, you'll be twenty and he'd be twenty-three. Nothing wrong with that. You've still got a couple years before you're considered grown. Enjoy them. Don't waste them hanging around boring "grown ups."
Talk to your Mom. I don't think she's overreacting. She's just trying to do her job.
Your mother is just trying to protect you. Really, I think he may be too old for you.
Bring him round anyway. As long as you are doing nothing naughty, she should come round. Make sure she meets hims, and sees he is a decent chap.
You shouldn't be dating at all, do teens really understand the concept of love?? I seriously doubt it. Let alone pre-teens.
you are a child and need to give up dating for a few years..this is a teen who is of age and will do nothing but get you into trouble..take your Mom's advice and look for boys your own age.
He is way too old for you! I wouldn't allow it and it is against the law for you to be with him in any way. I hope she does call the cops. Find a boy your age.
i gotta side with your mom on this one. he's an adult and you're not. i could see if there was only a 1 year difference in your ages, but 3 years is a bit too old for you. sorry, i know it's probably not what you wanted to hear. talk with your mom and hear her out and try to understand where she's coming from. you've got so many years ahead of you for dating and relationships...have fun with your friends while you're young. best of luck.
Just don't say anything to your mom but don't really ignore her cause she will get madder. DONT BE MEAN!!! If i could chose i would just stop going out with the guy until I'm at leased 18 so I'm an adult. your still a child so your parents are still in charge of u and who u date. I dont really see anything wrong with dateing a guy 4/3 years older than me my friend is married to a guy 10 years older than her!!
GOOD LUCK!!
sideing with your mom here... I know how you feel but he is more mature... and legally shouldn't be alone with you.. soooo... that is a problem... yea.. guys are jerks your age and your just going to have too put up with that till you a bit older.
I'm sure that this is hard for you being unable to be with a guy that you really want to be with. I know, I'm having a similar problem of my own now! However, I would have to agree with your mom. 18-year-olds are more emotionally mature than 14/15-year-olds. It's part of the "balance" of nature. I'm 16, so I could be wrong, but it seems to me that 18-year-old boys are generally out for only sex, especially when there's a 14/15 year old girl there. It just seems kinda awkward, there being a relationship between an adult and a young teenager. There's my stance.
the older you are the less significant the age difference will be. if he really likes you he will wait till you are legal age for him to date.
boyfriends come and go, especially when you are younger, but your parents are your's forever. what may seem like true love could be just infatuation. give yourself time to grow up a bit more. i know most 14/15 yr old boys are jerks, but at 18 he could get inserious trouble legally. if you do love him step back until you are legal age to keep him from getting in trouble.
i'm 15 too and my gf is 18 ur mom's just looking out for you. that's all.
I see that you may not be getting the answers nor support you are looking for and I won't stop the trend. I seriously think you are getting in way over your head with this guy. On top of that I think you are far more intelligent than most people give you credit for. I know you have seen the movies and have heard the stories of young girls falling in love with guys and later regreting it. You've seen 'MAURY'. You know it happens to us all no matter how old we are. Your mother is responsible for your safety and she knows much better what is best for you especially in a matter such as this. If this boy cares for you he will not want to drive a wedge between you and your mother. People that truly care about others want PEACE, SAFETY and LOVE for others. Is this what he wants for you? It sounds as though he wants 'a PIECE', whether or not he uses SAFETY when he eventually talks you into making LOVE to him. TEST HIM AND SEE IF HE WOULD MAKE LOVE TO YOU? If he says 'no' see how long he goes. Liars don't take long to get BUSTED.
when u are 18, you will understand. you mom is sooooo right on this one. sorry. the fact that you cant understand why she is angry proves my point that you are too young to understand.
any way he is too old for you, 14 or 15 is a tricky age you feel boys your age are very inmature but 18 is too old because there are things that they can do that you can't. Just give it time...wait on a boyfriend you have plenty of time..boys are nothing but a pain in the butt any how. And no your mom is not making a big deal out of it she just doean't want to see you making any mistakes
He has no business seeing you...in fact it's pretty much against the law. I'm with your mother, if you were my 14 year old daughter I'd call the cops to. Just because HIS parents are okay with it doesn't make it okay with me. OF course his parents are going to be okay with it because they don't want HIM to get arrested.
Ok. well try to convince her. get his parents involved 2 it might help.
~ML
Thats like me...Im 13 and dated a 16year old...my mom freaking flipped! Shes trying to protect you! I said **** her and dated him anyways after that but dont do that!
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Yeah I understand your mom is being PROTECTIVE.but ya know what I have been in the same sitution before but he was sixteen and it sucks cuz I really liked him alot but when I told her his age she was like HECK NO.that made me so angry because in my eyes there was not a thing wrong with him I thought he was PERFECT.but no my mom had to disagree! ...I hate it...If you find a way e-mail me!...lol
Well i think that 18 is a little too old try dating a 16 or 17 yr old guy
i think you should give your mom time to settle down.my mom says 15 is too old 4 me and i am 14.it is gonna be hard 4 her to accept it but i think she will cool down and then be fine when she see`s he is a nice guy and is good 4 you.
first thing i want to say is what can the cops do... they can't do anything if u don't have sex which is illegal. they can't arrest him just because you like him and hang with him. your mom is just profiling and is stubborn. i would just prove to her that you are mature and he is a nice guy
First of all, your mom is just being a good mother,and trying to protect you. You are way too young to even think of dating. He is way too old for you, and should know , that dating someone as young as you is very wrong! Your mom is right!
Sorry hun, gotta go with Mom on this one. Trust her and her judgement. She's known and loved you all your life. She only ever wanted the best for you since the day you were born. NO ONE will ever love you as much as your parents do.
This guy has just stepped in.. an adult, dating an underage (jailbait) teen. What's wrong with with this picture?
And his parents feel his behavior is OK?? Again, what's wrong with this picture?
When a guy over 18 and a girl under 18- that can be statutory rape if u r sleeping together. If she cannot prove u r having sex with him then she really cant have him arrested. But she can get him for tresspassing if he comes over and she doesnt want him there. She could make life hell for him. She is just looking out for you and worried about you and thinking some older guy is going to take advantage of you. She really is doing it all out of love. Maybe if u talked to her and made a deal that you would only see him in your home when she is home. Atleast until she is more comfortable with him ya know? Good luck to u
OK. Stop and think for a moment. Try to imagine your soon 15 year old daughter dating a soon 19 year old. Would you allow it? just think about it. When your done thinking write down your decision and remember it when your daughter tells you this. Good luck
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