I think i am pregnant but my boyfriend already has a child and i am scared that my parents will hate me?
Answer:
Don't be afraid... your parents wont hate you [unless you are a
Muslim or Asian - then be very afraid - because you might be an honour killing!].
Check to see if you are pregnant first then deal with it if you are.
Your parents may be angry to start with.. but should calm down quickly and offer you more support than you ever thought them capable of.
You're parents WILL NOT hate you. they may be angry, but parents love their children, despite the turmoils they put as through, as you are about to discover.
You need to become an adult really quick here. First find out if you are pregnant. Then talk to your boyfriend, and parents, family, pastor, counselor. There are many options here, but you need to get some help from those who love you most.
it is hard to get unpregnant
if you are than you are ,and will have to face up to whatever happens.
i come from a very catholic family and telling them i was pregnant was the scariest thing i ever did. i thought they would hate me but it turns out they are very exited and cant wait to be grandparents!
Your parents will not hate you. They may be disappointed in you, but if they're any kind of parent at all, they'll help you through this. Tell them you are scared and that abortion is not an option for you. They should support you through this. Good luck!
dont worry chick your mom and dad would rather you told them than you struggling by yourself.and if you and your boyfriend are strong then it might be the one to last
Do the test first and whatever - dont worry. I got pregnant at 16 (30 years ago this wasnt a good thing to do) I was so scared I didnt tell my mum until I was 5 months gone. She was upset at first and shouted a bit but before my baby was born she did so much knitting and couldnt wait. When my daughter was born my mum was my rock and she was the best grandma a baby could have. I'm sure it'll all be fine - good luck xxxx
you sound like me when i was17 in high school. tell your parents right away you can only hide your condition for so long plus your baby needs you to go to the doctor right away for a check up and some vitamins. my parents told me to have an abortion or get out i got out. this is your baby not theirs so follow your heart you have to live with yourself for the rest of your life. you made a mistake not GOD. he gave your baby life dont let anyone take it away you are the guardian of that gift you can call me any time if you want to talk. my prayers are with you. talk to someone at catholic charities in your town they will find a doctor and anything else you need help with.
Asha,Trust me honey your parents will not hate you.There your parent"s.They might be hurt.But will never hate you.I was where you are when i was sixteen.So honey i know your scared.Don"t do any thing you will regret later.Talk to your mom and dad.They love you.Please let me know how you are. I'am a mom with three beatiful girls.
First of all, I think you should make sure whether you are pregnant or not, you might be worried over nothing, so make sure you really have a problem before you start panicking about it.
If you are feeling pregnancy symptoms (missed period, morning sickness, nausea, soar breasts..etc) and you have already missed your period by more than 2 or 3 days, a home pregnancy test would do the job for you, you can even have a blood test to be more sure about it. If you still haven't missed a period, then you have to wait till you can have the test and be sure about it...
If you turn out to be pregnant, then what I think you should do is make sure you know what you wanna do, do you want to keep this baby or not, if you are sure you wanna keep this baby then you should talk to your boyfriend and your parents.
Talk to your boyfriend, see how much he can support you, and how much support you will need from him, let him share the responsibility with you. He already has a child, so he has a pretty good idea what having a baby really means.
Finally, I think you should talk to ur parents, no matter how upset you think they will get, you will need their support (if they decide to help you out) and you need to know where exactly are you standing...
Having a baby is a huge responsibility, but if you really want this baby I am sure you will be able to manage.
Good luck, let us know how things turn out for you.
they might be disappointed in you but they won't hate you. having a child is a big responsibility and that's something that you have to think about. you need to weigh the good and the bad. take a pregnancy test and go from there.
it does not matter if he has other children now he is going to have another one if he did not want more children or could not take care of them he should have covered it up but as far as your parents they are your parents and will love you no matter what they may be a little upset but they will get over it
Take more than one pregnacy test they aren't always right first time.
hopefully he should be over the moon about it.
Anyway think about the baby would it be brought up well, you need all the suport you can get if you are pregnant, even now you do do the test with your boyfreind...
Good luck :) be happy
Your parent may get angry but they could never hate you, they have limitless love for you because you are their child. Dont get an abortion if you dont want it. Tell your boyfriend if you want him to be in the kids life.
they will get over it and just because he has a child dose not mean anything it is still his responsitly to take care of the child.
talk to your mom. she loves you unconditionally. i am sure you are scared, your parents may be a little upset, but they will be there for you. if your boyfriend already has a child, he should learn to use a condom. first, talk to your mom, alone. there will be tears. she will help figure out the best time and place to tell your dad. don't say nothing to your partner, yet. you will have to tell him, just make sure you are pg first. there are many options available for you. do not quit school, stick to your dreams. a baby is not the end of the world. just someone to take along on the journey. trust in the love you and your mother share. she will help you through this. good luck.
your parents will not hate you hun they might be disappointed or upset about it.firstly i would talk to your mum tell her you suspect you might be pregnant then make sure either way you make the right choice. i was 19 when i had my little boy i wouldn't swap him for the world but its hard.
good luck and don't let anyone push you into any choices you don't want to make DO WHATS RIGHT FOR YOU
well tell your parents then talk to your boyfriend if he already has he must like to have them
Hi there, why not do a test first to confirm whether you should even have to worry about this in teh first place, your boyfriend will have to know at some point, im sure he wont be to bad as he has been unresponsible enough by not using protection in the first place you have dont this on purpose or by yourself, it takes two to tango !
If you dont want an abortion that is fine ok?? And no one can make you. Abortions are awful things and its good to know what you dont want. Your parents wont hate you. They may be shocked and upset but you need to tell them - (The one parent you are closer too or grandparent). But before you do you need to take a pregnancy test. These tests are purchased in the chemist and in some super markets. But one you know please speak with someone about what you wnat to do. Take care
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