My ex never wanted me to use a condom?
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Do you realize that every time you and that girl had sex without using a condom, you were having sex with everyone else she had sex with? That is a very dangerous situation. You definitely need to be tested for various diseases, and please don't wait to have it done! Always use a condom unless you are in a committed relationship (like married) and want to have children. If you did get her pregnant, then you will be paying child support for at least the next 18 years of your life. WOW! Good luck, I hope you are disease and child free.
So whts the issue? There aint any problem...
It's obviously bothering you, so why don't you track her down and find out?
Of course you should've used a comdom for all you know you could have caught a STI get yourself checked out at a clinic and get in contact with your ex and make sure she is ok
firstly if she didn't want you to use a condom you shouldn't have had sex with her
not only could you have caught something you may have gotten her pregnant like you say there is a possibility thay she wanted you to get her pregnant
just read your 360 profile and at 46 you should know better
She might have been unable to conceive but that does not count out STDs. Have yourself tested and then consideryourself lucky.
well call her and ask her
Firstly you should always use a condom until you're in an established relationship where the woman is using an alternative form of contraception to ensure an unplanned pregnancy doesn't occur. Also, you need to protect yourself against sexually transmitted diseases.
Secondly, if you had got her pregnant then I'm sure there are ways for her to track you down to tell you, especially if she wants maintenance. However, if you're that concerned then contact her direct and just ask!
A lesson learnt for next time!
If you got her pregnant, trust me, she will let you know. But ask yourself this, was she on any type of birth conrol?
ya know...even if she said not to worry about a condom, you still need to protect yourself!
how many people has she said that to? you don't really know for sure, so you were not only leaving things open for pregnancy, but you weren't protecting YOURSELF from STDs.
so, track her down and see how she is. if she isn't pregnant and you don't have an STD, then consider yourself lucky and remember to wrap it up from now on!
take care.
Always...
USE
A
CONDOM.
If youre worried, than i would suggest trying to find her, if she was pregnant and never told you, you might be able to at least get out of child support.
i wouldnt worry about until she tells you that she has missed her period ...You could press on for words but it may just make her mad..ask to take a test.thats all i can think of
well to start with, you should have said that u either use a condom or no sex, then u would not be in this situation.
but whats done is done.
if she is pregnant then you would have heard off her if she wanted u to have anything to do with it.
if you are still worried, casually call her to 'catch up' n see if she says anything, or, call her mate to see how she is.
next time use a condom!!
Well, if she didnt want to use a condom and you did maybe you shouldnt of. As for her maybe being pregnant, iddf she is I would hope you would take care of ya'll child cause that baby need both parents in it's life. Trust me , I know.
why are you worried if anything happened she would have tried to contact you.
Unless you want to be safe during sex, it is best to wear a condom at all times. Who cares if a girl asks you to not wear a condom during sex, you need to think for yourself. It is true that you need to check up on her, see if she's okay, pregnant or not. Also, in the meantime ask her to take a pregnancy test to calm your worries. When a girl asks you to not use a condom, nine times out of ten, she is either to trap you or is just trying to get pregnant.
MAN UP to it
it was she who was suggesting you not to use......it wasnt your mistake then why worry
PS:some girls feel its not so comfortable
If you have her phone number call her. Or go see her and ask her.
you should of used a condom, some one has to be responsible. track her down, or ask around with her friends. maybe she was on the pill?
dont worry about it... if she ain't contacted you then move on to someone else and let her get on with her life.
Dude are you stupid? yes pregnancy is defenitly a possiblity when you have unprotected sex. What about STDS? Do you know Aids is the 3rd deadliest desease in the world. Maybe she ran off because she has something and didnt want to tell you. If a chick tells you not to wear a condom then I dont care how hot and bothered you are dont give the goods up period!! Is it worth you getting some nasty or deadly desease or having a baby before your even of legal age to vote. Its not worth it next time put a condom on and if she says no well dont give it up to protect yourself!!
U R Damned!! Either you get infected or you have to pay maintenance and be bogged down for the rest of your life!
hmmm ya never know
more fool you are you really that weak, tell any girlfriend you have in the future its a condom or nothing it's your life being played with...,
all i can say is call her up and ask her what is going on and if she is pregnant even though its not really ur fault u have to help take care of the baby
forget her she has the problem not you
Im sure if she was pregga she would inform you, if you were going to feel like this after why did u not use one anyway?
Maybe she intends to transfer to u STIs or worst of all AIDs...u had beta go for a check up.
OR
maybe she needs a baby. why shuld u worried.
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