Wondering....(girls...
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have you ever had a friend betray you??
Answer:
Yes, and yes. The world of girls can be very cruel. They will say harsh things to hurt you, torment you, annoy you, and everything else under the sun to bother you or make you feel uncomfortable.
If a friend betrays you, you have every right to be mad at them. They hurt you and no one likes to purposely be hurt. Take time to cool off and then go talk to them. Figure out what happened or what went wrong.
The best thing for you is to forgive and forget. It is painful and it is likely that the process will be painful. If you constantly dwell on what one person did wrong to you, it can make your like miserable and hard to accomplish happiness.
As a teenage girl it is going to be hard to do that, or to ignore it which would also work. But if you don't try, you can not be mad because it was you who didn't try to improve things for the better.
Go talk to them find out what may have happened. Most of the time it is caused by miscommunications. And the people understanding things the wrong way of that in which they were ment to be understood.
13..and yea
Well, when I was that age, yes actually. I told a girl who I thought was my friend a HUGE secret...next thing you know, entire eighth grade knows. If this has happened to you, the best thing you can do is IGNORE her! Block her out of your life before she causes more trouble. I made the mistsake of not doing that...
yes i have we decided to do a school project together and i went out of town in the begining and when i came back she had down nothing there ewas just thee work we did before I left so she came over and she jsut goofed of the whole time while I was working then i asked her to search something on the computer and she said to me can I borrow a CD of your if I do that and I got pissed off so I said to her do YOU WANT ME TO PAY YOU TO WORK ON SCHOOL PROJECT and she got pissed off at me and a of a suden ( didn't feel good) and had her mom pick her up and I ended up doing to whole project by myself and Monday morning when I got to school I found out that I needed to go to the teachers room durring lunch it turned out she told the teacher that I didn't let her do any of the project and she also went around the school telling people that I get everything I want because my brother died so if your friend berayed you don't bother trying to become friends with her again. Whats your screen name mine is tidhar1500 lets become online friends
I'm 15 and yes. I had a friend who turned against me and started talking behind my back and spreading rumors. The worst part is she had been my friend for 9 years.
im actually 18 but as far back as i can remember all the way up to now, EVERY single girl i thought was my best friend has back stabbed me!which is why i no longer have best friends or why i dont get too close to other girls anymore. sorry about your betrayal.
15 and yes I have had a friend betray me...I guess she wasn't really a friend.
yep when i was 14 or 15 my best friend stole my boyfriend, then i forgave her and she did it again. And she was so much more unattractive than me, made me feel very bad. But in goin that she made me realise the guys were stupid sleezes anyway.
ages 12-19 friends betray each other all the time due to all those bloody homone changes, its best not to dwell on it for too long cos those hormones can make young people do crazy things....
13-15 is a very difficult part of life, but believe me, it gets better! Im 20 and happy as larry, when i was 13 i was a depressed wreck. Dont worry about that stuff and LIVE! :) Be happy
at any age a friend can hurt and betray you.
I'm 17, but when I was about 14 or 15, my best friend hurt me sexually. (You know what I mean... I don't want to say it on here). Everyone has had someone betray them...
I'm 16 now, but i had a best friend when I was younger (8-14), and we shared everything with each other. She started having problems and began to feel bad about herself, so she started blabbing all my stuff to everyone and even making things up about me. When people found out she was lying, though, she got into a LOT of trouble. Nobody really likes her now because they know what kind of person she is. Hang in there; everything will come out right in the end.
yes.and it hurts..iv done some bad things and theyv done worse back. it really hurts when a friend of the oppisite sex betrays u. sry bout ur friends
Yes i have many times! it sucks!
Love yew tay
Yea. Just ignore. If you give her your time or energy she'll just keep on irking you!
yeah i am 14 and yes that happened to me but i don't want to get into it.
Yes, 13
-Fredo
yeah i have had a freid betray me before and it SUCKED!heres how it happened. i had four great freinds that iv'e had since preschool. one day one of my freinds to start a (I hate katlen belle club) all of a sudden i had no freinds and my old freinds were making up stuff about me, my new nickname was the dorky loaner i used to be queen awesomeness or cuddle bunny. I just spent that time getting good grades and really focusing on my family and my pets. 2 weeks later it all stoped and i had my freinds begging me to forgive them but i told i forgave them but we cant be freinds anymore. And it all turned out fine.
i am a guy and yes that has happend to me
13 and yeah. My cousin was my ultimate BFF until maybe fifth or sixth grade. Then all of a sudden she's making fun of me in front of all the "popular" people just to get a laugh out of them. their favorite thing to do was try and make me cry at lunch. they even told some kid I had a huge crush on him and he wouldn't leave me alone for months. Now that we're a little bit older it's stopped and we're friends again, proving that all clouds have a silver lining. don't give up hope.
13 and yes. so many times
im 14, and i had these friends who were soo nice 2 me den they started spredding rumors bout me
15, yes I have. It's normal, things like that happen.
i'm 18 and i have lost a friend ceuse i just can't trust her. Some of the things she's done to me haven't been nice but i'm slowlery getting over it. It's hard to loose a friend through betrayal
Oh...I would tell you, but I'm 16.
YES I HAVE SHE IS A COMPLETE BIATCH .. JUST ONE GIRL THOUGH... EVER SINCE I TRY NOT TO REALLY BECOME REAL GOOD FRIENDS WITH THESE HEIFERS ANYMORE.... DONT SWEAT THEM THOUGH, YOU ARE ALWAYS BETTER LATER THEY WILL TRY AND BECOME YOUR FRIEND AGAIN BUT YOU WILL BE ABLE TO MOVE ON AND FORGET ABOUT THEM...NEVER TRUST BITCHES THESE DAYS.. ONLY YOUR BOYFRIEND......
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