Im 13 and i feel left out...?
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don't feel bad, I'm 32 and I'm 4' 10 1/2". You got me beat. ;-) I use to feel the same way in school but you will quickly get over it. Since my early 20's I have loved the fact that I'm small. Being called "cute" is a lot better than being called an "amazon" Don't sweat it, you'll soon realize there are a lot of men (and I mean a lot) who find short women very attractive.
The only time it bothers me anymore is when I'm trying to reach something on the top shelf. At which point I roll my eyes and grab a kitchen chair. Then it's no longer a problem.
don't worry
well, try sleeping straight it helps, and hang on bars a lot other than that crack a joke saying wats the weather up there? accept who u r and remember in time things will change not all peeps are the same..
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well i know what you feel im 12 and im 4'8 and people tease even though i don't care. Just don't worry you'll grow someday.
dont be down Im full grown and still 5'4" in 7 years you will look back and laugh that you even cared
My daughters friend is your height and she gets called those names too. Just try to keep your chin up and keep a positive attitude and they will see you for more than just a smaller girl.
U sound like a friend at EWMS, but anywayz you will grow it will just happen all at once at a certain age : )
Be happy
I'm in high school and to be honest you really don't need any friends because that becomes stressful and people in Jr high talks to much so stick to yourself and also be yourself.
dont worry about boys concentrate on school,but your still young you should still at least have a couple more growth sperts ahead
My only advice to you is to look up at the bright side of life
I'd say your pretty regardless your height...except that I've never seen you. To heck with your height...why let that dictate your life. If they won't ask you out...ASK THEM!
I'm sure you look great. Maybe you should celebrate your difference instead of thinking it's a bad thing. It's cool to be short...you don't have to bend down so far to reach things. And i'm sure that you haven't not been asked out just because of your heighth; that would be crazy.
hah! im short too and have been called cute, but i don't really worry about it. You're only 13 years old...you should appreciate how you are and not compare yourself to other people. I doubt that you're going live a miserable life just because of your height.
I know you are young and probably won't agree, but there is nothing at all you can do about your height. It's not like you have crazy hair and can cut and dye it. This is something you cannot change. So, don't let others get to you. You are you and special. You just have to accept it and worry about the things that you can control.
first -- stop complaining about yourself. and secondly dont listen to idiots and that is the only people who make fun of people who are different.. just close your ears and never ever again make fun or complain of it yourself. that is just asking for trouble. becides people in my family are cute and we like it that way. we dont care much for GIANTS so enjoy your little self.
Whatever you do, don't ever feel as though your different height is your fault. Some people just grow at different times. I am sure that you will be asked out in no time if you remain true to who you are never try to change to make others happy.
Height doesn't really mater...besides you'll probably get taller anyways. Everyone grow at their own pace like I'm 15 and 6'1 but I havn't grown in 6months. it's who you are inside that maters. And plus shorter girls are Hot!!
dont worry you perfect just the way you are:)
that's only four inches difference. besides, why do you need to be asked out? you're 13. my sis is 28 and 4'11". i'm 30 and 5'6". you may never be taller. just don't worry about it. pick out a quality you like about yourself and focus on that.
I'm very sorry you feel that way. I thought girls like you are really adorable but I guess by thinking that way, ended up hurting someone. I feel ashamed to think that they are cute.
People call you with these names are probably jealous(like me...I wish I was tiny) or simply teasing for some reasons. Don't take it so seriously, it will do the best for you ^ ^
About being asked out, don't worry so much. There's like 80 more years for you to live you know XD You will fine boys likes a girl like you, I can tell!
I hope you'll feel better and wish you the best luck. Take care!
Sweetie, I am 38 yrs and 4'11 .. Enjoy the attention. Don't let it get to you.. Chin up! You will be ask out.. Better to wait for the right guy than to get a jerk anyway. Your still young. I once dated a guy that was 6'4 and do you know even when I was on my tip toes it was still hard to hug and kiss him?! It will happen hang in there.. Hey, I would rather be shorter that taller then the guys~ Keep positive and smile. Personality counts most. Remember dynamite comes in small packages and less is more.
first of all you need to except who you are and second you cant please other people all the time, so what if u are short get over it. jr high and high school will be ackward and weird so just try to survive. PLUS girls stop growing at 18 so take your calcium and vitamin c and ull grow some more sooner or later.you need to built some self confidence...every morning when you wake up look at ur self in the mirror and tell yourself that you like urself and that you are a smart woman and that you are important for who you are inside not what you look like outside. Physical appearances fade but ur brain will never. You will get a date sooner or later.some people dont start dating until they are 18+...relax u are just experiencing life.it doensnt get any easier unless u except the things that you cannot change and change the things that you can. Good luck.
13 the age of confusion. You will be called things because people that age and many ages like to do so. Why? Because it makes them feel better about themselves. No need to complain about your height. I would be more thankful you are alive to enjoy being just you. Should you tolerate the comments? Nope, either come back with something witty, or think in your head "bite me". Learn to accept yourself for who you are. When you can do that, the comments will seem like nothing. When you learn that people like to insult because they have their own insecurities about themselves, that's when you will really be strong.
Wow! I get picked on a lot at school to. What I have learned is to not feel like you are being left out. Get out there and talk to people. There is an eighth grader at my middle school that calls me "oompa loompa." I do have a girlfriend that is 5'1/2 feet tall, but it doesn't matter how tall you are. I feel left out to at times. I have took a girl to "Peer Mediation" because she was calling me "gay." I was upset. So see you are not the only one that feels left out.
I'm 15, and actually think smaller girls are waay cuter, id rather date small than tall.
ok let me tell you something...at your age i was 4'8"...i didnt get taller until i hit about 15...im 17 now & only 5'4"...i dont care about my height anymore but its fine now since im taller then most of my family & right around the same as most of my friends...i was made fun of because i was flat chested & because i hadnt started my period yet when EVERY other girl had (didnt get it until after my 15th b-day) & in class one day while these too boys were making fun of me (in 8th grade) about being flat chested & short...you know what i said "one day your gonna want to be with me because i wont be flat chested or short & ill look better then half of the girls at this school" hey hey hey guess what happened...i left to hawaii for a year & came back...& guess who thought i look FINE as H3LL?! lol...dont worry girl you'll grow into yourself just give it time & dont worry about what other people say...everything will turn out just fine :D!
i have a friend like that short. just be who you are and be happy. god made you like that
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