How ask your son about if we has trouble in the school?
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My son and I talked everyday about stuff. I made it a point to take an hour with him and any problem he was having came out in our stuff talk. I would always start with, "so how much trouble did you cause today" he would just laugh but it did give me the information I needed to keep an eye on him and who he was hanging out with. He would always say he caused no trouble but so and so did this and this guy did this I knew who to keep him away from.
from your question, it sounds like you had trouble in school.
just ask him, and maybe tell him about problems that you had in school too. most kids - especially teenagers - wont want to tell you anything, so dont pressure him too much for answers. if he is younger (which he probably isnt now that i see your additional details), you could also talk to his teachers. if he is older, i wouldnt recommend that. if he found out, he would probably feel really upset and betrayed, like you crossed the line into his business.
well trust me if you talk as well as you write...your son isn't going to understand a thing your trying to say
how? just ask him. if it provakes a fight oh well as least it opened some communication. and the more you bugg ask and provoke the answers the more you can get a perspective on the subject. they are kids your kid you have the right to know what it going on. so just ask him.
The best thing to do would be to have open communication with your child. Tell him everyday how much you love him, and let him know that you are always there for him if he is in trouble or sad or anything like that. Tell him that you are always there with an open heart and a shoulder to lean on. If he is in trouble, DO NOT insult him or belittle him. Encourage him and tell him even if he was doing something you didnt approve of that no matter what you will always love him. Educate him about sex, drugs and alcohol and the scray things that happen to people who are not careful. This may open his eyes. And he will respect you for your advice.
Whoa, wait. What?
look at his progress report....ask him to help you on the next question
Just ask. If you don't get an answer just keep asking. Eventually he will realize you care enough to talk and want to help him.
You approach him and ask "Are you having any trouble at school?"
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