Guys, What do I do/expect?
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First of all, I am impressed with you that you have stayed with her for these past few months. That says you really care about her. So then, let her lead the way through this for you. If she says she is ready then don't second guess her. Just as you would not press her for sex while she is dealing with the trauma of being raped, don't deny her now that she says she is ready. The two of you may have sex and then, who knows how she will react? But what is important is that you take whatever happens in stride and just be supportive of her. If you really care about her and are ready to stay with her, then take her at her word when she says she is ready. If she changes her mind later or after the fact, then accept it. Good luck.
You've just got to be gentle. Make sure she feels comfortable at all times. Check in often and make sure that she's still doing ok. It takes time to recover, but if she says she's really ready then trust that she knows herself. Communication is the most important tool you can use in this situation. Good luck with everything.
Well it will probably help her move on and feel "normal" again. Just take it slow and if she wants to stop then stop.Good luck.
Explain to her how you are feeling. Together you both should be able to work things out.
well if you just take time and go slow and ask her if she is ok and when she says sto stop and if you see thats she is getting freaked out you should stop and be loving and kind to her needs and everything should go well and p.s she wont confuse you with the other guy because the other guy is a piece of s#!& and worthless and you are trying to comfort her and be there
Do as she asks and don't second guess her. Trust that she knows what she can handle and ask her if everything is okay every time you start doing something different or going further. If you notice that she is pulling away, becoming cold or that she is doing anything strange, stop. Tell her its okay and that you don't have to go all the way right now. Tell her you'll wait for her and that she doesn't have to worry about loosing you. Just take it slow and if possible, let her lead you.
Good luck to you both
Just have sex with her man dont be a punk.
she wants to and u want to... why not?
Well if you have to ask if you should I'd probably say your not ready for it. Its a big step and you should wait until theres no doubt in your mind, just take your time and see how it goes.
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