13 and...?
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well when i did yes, but i didn't have a choice in the matter of losing my virginity. but, when you do have a choice, i don't know, sorry.
ya, usually
Go to college then have a child! Its normal to want a child but you need to wait so you can provide.
Yes it does.
Hurt? Yeah, at 13 it will hurt. When you're more developed, it won't hurt as bad.
no and i don't know i azm still a virgin
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listen, you are 13 you don't want or need a baby, you are a baby, DON'T have sex you are TOOOO young. Enjoy your childhood, how would you support a baby? Wait many years, not 4 more like 10+ you are tooooo young please be smart and enjoy your teen years.. ! NO BABIES OR SEX!
It hurt me so bad that it took 8 hours for it to finally be done.
Yes it does hurt. In fact you will bleed a lot your first time. It's very uncomfortable and painful. I had to stop and there was a mess to clean up. It was pretty embarrassing too.
You need to set better goals for yourself. A baby at 18? Your life is so sad. I feel so sorry for you. I feel sorry for your unborn baby too.
I'm still a virgin myself but I have heard that it is supposed to hurt a little for a second or so and bleed if you haven't already broken the hymen by horseback riding and bike riding.
It can, but not half as bad as having a baby.
If the guy is gentle about it, the experience can be less then miserable or painful. I would say wait a bit longer cause 13 is still a young age to have sex, but if your eager and nothing is going to stop you then:
use protection - a condom with lubricant can help with any friction you may feel from a condom and/or help on your first time. Not to mention the obvious
KY or any other lubricant - on you an the other person can help things move along a bit smoother if you have never experienced sex before
Babys are expensive and need more then just a little bit of your attention. Most girls experiencing puberty share a common desire to have a baby. Watching a sibling can only give you a portion of the responsibility. Aside from feeding, changing, and 24/7 watching of a babies needs there are the fundamentals. You have to be able to financially provide for them, give up your life so they can have a good life.
When you are 17-21 you are going to want to live your life for you. Take some time to be selfish cause when that baby comes it will never be about you again. Unless you are filthy rich, I would recommend getting a stable work history, some kind of financial stability, and an education to fall back on. A child will love you unconditionally if you are 13, 18, or 30. You have to be willing to give it all up when that baby is born. How do you teach your child to grow up when you are still growing up?
They are cute and adorable but they do grow out of those nice infant years and into children who become rebellious and will test your every bit of energy, strength, and patience. You have to live your own life to understand what dangers they may face or what challenges may lay ahead for them. If you cut your own life short for a child you are missing out on the challenges of being independent alone and facing challenges that will mature you and teach you the fundamentals of life. You shouldnt bring a child into the world to learn the harsh lessons of adulthood with you.
It shouldn't hurt badly unless your partner is inconsiderate out of ignorance or inexperience. Wait till you're older. Everyone I know that were younger like you regret it because sex is better with age and children tend to be taken advantage of.Have a child when you can support yourself and at 18, you won't be able to. Good luck and don't gamble with STD's always use a condom when the time comes.
i was 14 when i first had sex. it didnt hurt. having a baby at 15 did. i am now 28 with 4 children. thankfully all my children have the same dad. he supports us financially and emotionally. i will be graduating college next dec. i wish to god that i would have waited. the things i am trying to accomplish now, i wish i would have done b4 having kids. now i have to fit everything around them. i wouldnt trade my kids for anything in the world, but i could have given them a better life if i had been smarter. Like you i had to take care of siblings and i thought that a baby was no big deal. pampers are expensive and so is childcare. your baby will need things from you that you arent even able to give yourself. i have a 13 year old daughter, 5 yr old son and 4month old twins. sometimes i still feel like im not ready.
i hope you feel me, if you dont, i'll break it down.
Close your legs. Be a kid while you can. your 1st time is so special and should not be done for the heck of it. try to wait until marriage or at least till you get older to even do it, let alone have any kids.
I'm very glad you thought it through. And I think it will be great for you to baby sit a baby so you can see how hard it is to care for them. You can also gain a lot of love from your new baby sister and learn to be a good role model for her. As for the other question, yes it hurts, and unless you're really ready and in love with the guy, it's honestly not even worth it.
You are crazy! you are jeolus for crying baby, unslept nights, no more social life!!! and you are 13!!!!!!!!!!...
you are totally loosing it........
ye it hurts like you wouldnt believe the 1st time you have sex..the pain and the blood are enough to make you not want to have sex again..but also the rush of pain and pleasure toghether makes it all worth it.
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