Advice please!?
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Looks like you will be the biggest / best influence in your childs life. Name her what YOU want... Good luck!
First off I want to congratulate you for your baby and the choice you made.I bet your baby is a blessing! What name do you like best?
once you show him the Baby you can change his name to MUD! That Baby will do the a number on him. right now he is confused once he see's it is for real and she how beautiful she is Mr Mudd will be putty in her hand!!! I bet the first time he see's her he will have to ask you twice her name! cause being freaked out he wont care she will be 'daddy's girl'
1. I commend you for choosing life.
2. The best indicator of future behavior is past behavior (Dr. Phil).
3. A child almost always wants to know who their parent is - regardless if it is a non-existent relationship.
4. I like the recent trend of giving the child the last name as a first name - perhaps you could come up with something to represent both of you.
I wish you all the best!
Go with your favorite name. He obviously has deserted you both. Don't worry about what he thinks or may think.
You should a name that is what you want and feel most pleased with. You should not look back for all you know he will never be man enough to face this wonderful child. And if he does then whatever the name is going to be ok! because is his child and it is very precious! As a parent I can only tell you that after our daughter was born the name is second and all it matter is all she does! Yes! we had different names but now nothing really matters, only her well being!
do not wrry you will make the right choice once again!
its what YOU like, hes the butthead that left!
Name her what you want the baby to go by, but give her a middle name that he would like
Im still waiting for the names....... are they? Seriously, I say name the baby what u think. when u see that baby for the first time. it will hit u! Ur X isnt here and i dont think what u name ur child will be the reason he doesnt come around. dont live ur life trying to please him. if he wants a relationship with he child, he will come around and be the man he needs to be regaurdless of the babys name.
Look, if he's not around now I wouldn't hold my breath. He shouldn't have a say if he's not paying the bills. He's giving up his rights by his absence. Name the baby whatever you want. Just be careful not to pick a dorky name. What you name a child it will have to live with for life in most cases. Besides, the names you pick out now you might not use after the baby is born. My wife and I had names picked out we didn't use either time.
Only go with the name you both liked if YOU actually want it. Since he's not around NOW, I say he gets no say on the name. If he wanted to be a part of the process, he'd be around now. You can't base either yours or your daughter's futures on what he may or may not do someday. Go with your gut instinct in the now.
Good luck! He sounds like a turd and you'll be better off without him.
dont do abortion...
This is the time for name selection ...
I was married when I had both my kids, but deep down, I didn't care what my husband wanted to name my babies. I was the one who went through the nine months of having this baby. If I wasn't with the babies father i definetely could care less what he thought.
When my daughter was born the nurse said, what is her name? My husband looked at me and said yes, what is her name? It told my husband that I would decide when I seen her.
Name your daughter what you want. don't worry about what he thinks. More than likely you will be the main parent to this child the rest of its life.
If he hates the babies name, too bad. He should been a bigger part of your life. Someone who wanted you to have an abortion doesn't deserve to have a part in naming your baby.
You are doing all the work and paying for all the medical bills, plus you are the one carrying the child. I think since he isn't there for you, pick the name you like. If he comes around, the name isn't going to matter, he will love the child anyway. Don't stress about it, there is enough to worry about later. take care of you.
You need to chose a name that you think the child will be happy with and that you are happy with. He may see her for the first time and regret miss out on the special time with you and that will be his loss but you need to consider your desires in the name.
I wouldn't name the child with any name that your boyfriend chose - he sounds like a real loser, he doesn't deserve to have any say. Forget about him. You should choose something that YOU would love to call your baby. :-)
Since he's not around and if you think that he's not going to come around then the decision is yours about what you want to name the baby. In my opinion he doesn't have any rights if he's not there for you or the baby.
When the baby is born call him let him know maybe by then he would want to be a part of her life maybe yours too, Get pregnant might have been to much of a surprise for him. You have to chose what name is best for your daughter whether he is there or not.
NAME YOUR DAUGHTER WHAT YOU WISH TO. HE MIGHT NOT EVEN BE IN THE PICTURE.
SCREW this JERK!! Don't even take his feelings or opinion in to consideration. I'm surprised he cares enough to tell you a name, I mean after he asked you to MURDER your child. I would name MY baby what ever I want to. I mean if it were up to him, there wouldn't be a baby to name. He's a loser. The relationship your daughter has with him will be his choice and have nothing to do with the baby's name. I pray that he grows up and it a steady part of your childs life. Good luck to you!!
I would name the baby what ever i wanted too. If he doesn't want anything to do with the baby then that id his problem. He'll only be hurttin himself in the long run. The baby will have all the love it will need with you and ur family.
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