I'm scarcely 14 and pregnant...I purely want some compassionate words?

My dad died about 2 months ago (1 month previously my 14th birthday). Though he was an alcoholic and a drug user and very violent/abusive, he owned my heart...he broke it when he died (of an overdose, by the way). At the time I be looking for anything to make me grain better...so, I had sex for the first and second time until I get married. I know at the time that it was stupid and foolish of me and that I be way too childlike, but I didn't care. We used protection but here I am, narrowly 14 and pregnant.

I haven't told anyone but my aunt (who I'm living with right now) and don't plan on unfolding anyone else but the father and a close friend. The dad is only 16 and I don't really know what his hostile response will be. But, I can't blame him if he wants nought to do with the babe-in-arms...we're just kids.

I'm keeping the babe-in-arms. I know I'm young but I grew up bearing before my time (I know what you're thinking, that I must not be too grown to get myself contained by this situation) and my aunt said she would help me anyway possible...I'm extraordinarily lucky to have her. I know this isn't really a give somebody the third degree, I'm just looking for some caring words. I'm a bit scared.


Answers:    You are a brave feminine, and the young tot that you carry inwardly you will appreciate your kindness and adjectives the things you are willing to grant up. The courage you have is astounding, for you own experienced a lot surrounded by your 14 years but each barrier in your time has made you into a strong and independent woman. Never consent to anyone lower your self-esteem, because your bravery should not be rewarded with little confidence. Be proud that you can contribute someone else life and the coincidence to fall contained by love =)
sounds like you hold a good lead on your shoulders, and you just did something for a time...well, stupid. but i need you well. i'm glad you own an aunt who will be able to serve support you and the baby, you are going to requirement a lot of comfort and i hope you finish school and try to get the best of everything.

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