I am a married woman.but my love to my hubby is like friendship no more love..?
but i dont want ny hubby i want another man. what will i do? am i a horrible person?
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Been there and its not worth it. You are not horrible but the relationship has now changed from being just you and him to that of Mother and Wife - you are now considering where does the Lover come into it?and trying to assert your new identity (bet the baby is coming up to a year old?) Also at this stage many of us forget to tell the other that they are still attractive/ beautiful/ still in love - it is taken for granted (if I am still with you then I love you - is the common assumption). Now into the mix come an unattached male that makes you feel a million Dollars and makes you forget all about the other areas of life - he treats you like a women and not just as the mother of the child - this makes you glow and realise that you are still able to pull. Before you jump ship take a serious look at your married life - what is missing? talk to your husband about your needs as well. Try and organise 1 day every fortnight without the baby so you can be a couple once more and catch up with what is important. If this does not work then obviously the marriage could be in deep trouble - if the other guy is serious about you - he will not pressurise you either.
shame on you.only joking... than leave your husband and find another man.not hard.dont torture yourself
Before you throw in the towel or end up cheating. You should think long and hard about your current relationship. Relationships often go through that stale period where it feels more like friendship, but it's up to both of you to put the spice back into it and remind each other why you fell in love. It's easy to be persuaded by the energy of a new possible love or attraction, but eventually you will come to the same crossroad in that relationship. Either way, I wish you the best =)
no, your not a horrible person, but two years isn't long to get to know your hubby. I'm thinking you may not be looking at the big picture. BUT, if your not happy, and can't resolve your problem, then move on. Better to be happy and wondering than sad and alone.
I wish you well, truly
Are you sure you just think that you do not love your hubby anymore because you feel something, a spark, for another man? Once the newness and excitement of this new relationship ends you my regret this. Maybe you and your hubby need some counseling and maybe you should consider distancing yourself from this other man. Good luck to you!
You should really think about it. There must have been a reason for you to marry the guy int he first place, and enough love to haev his child, so hwat happened? what changed? love often changes feelings and strenghts during our lives its not uncommon. I think you should stick with your husband as that was the vow you made to him in the first place. Im sure deep down you love him.
this is usual, it is a marriage life,
at first like dog & cat, have good shag
after 5 years like brother & sister, shag is incest
dont wory you will be OK in next few years
I think you need the help of St Jeremy of Kyle!!
Do what you feel is best. There is nothing else you can do.
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