I am needing to know some stuff about adoption.?

my husband and I are wanting to adopt but we don't know where to start any help would be nice.

Answer:
You have a lot of options available to you depending on the age range you prefer (whether you prefer an infant, would accept a toddler, older child, etc.) and also whether you are open to accepting a child of a different ethnicity. One option would be private adoption. This is usually a good choice if you want a baby who is Caucasian; however, it is very expensive and could take quite some time. The best way to get started with this choice is to contact an attorney who specializes in private adoption. There are also many religious organizations that work to place children available for adoption. Some of these organizations are less expensive than private adoption and some even charge a sliding fee based on your income. You can find a lot of information about adoption registries at http://adoption.about.com/od/registries/... Another choice would be to adopt out of the couuntry. This option would still allow you to adopt a fairly young child-toddler or younger. There is still usually some expense to this choice, you would need to travel to the country where you are adopting the child from and you may or may not know as much about the child's background such as medical history. To find out more about overseas adoptions check out www.orphansoverseas.org www.childrenshopeint.org or www.adoption.com. A third choice would be to adopt from foster care. This choice requires that you attend several weeks of training, submit to a background check, etc., depending on the requirements in your state. It is more difficult to adopt a very young child or infant with this choice, although it can be done. Younger children available for adoption through foster care generally have special needs although this can vary from simply being of an ethnic minority that would make it difficult for them to be adopted, part of a sibling group that needs to stay together or actually having special medical and/or emotional needs. With this option you can specify that you want to adopt only and will only accept a child who is legally available for adoption-in other words, parental rights have already been terminated. For babies this can be difficult because that process is lengthy. We adopted 5 children from foster care and with the last child, although we took her when she was 5 weeks old she was almost 18 months old before we were able to complete the adoption because of waiting for the parental rights termination. Adopting from foster care is generally the least expensive option, if money is a problem for you. We were reimbursed for all of our adoption related expenses, including attorney fees. If you think this option might be right for you check with your state's child protective service department to get started. Best of luck!!
great question, me too...
theres several organisations around the country that can help with adoption. you can see your gp about adoption and see if they know any local orgainsations or theres the social services.
call the operator n ask them
Try searching adoption on the internet and see what you find. My sister adopted 4 kids. She went through Catholic Social Services. We live in Michigan. Other states probably have Catholic Social Services too.
You should contact an adoption agency. My sister and her husband have seriously researched adoption and going it without the help of an agency is a big mistake and will make the process much harder for you. The agency you choose to contact depends on if you are seeking to adopt domestically or from another country. If seeking a foreign adoption my sister highly recommends going thru China, they take very good care of the infants and the children they adopt out tend to have less attachment related issues.
If seeking w/in the US you can contact your local DSS, Catholic Charities or attorneys who work in adoptions.
First look and see whether your state is an agency required state. Meaning you MUST go through an adoption agency in order to adopt. (I live in Colorado and they are an agency required state).

If not, you can find an adoption lawyer and adopt that way. Place classified ads, put up an adoption website online, and putyour profile on the adoption ad websites as well. This will help find a birthmother for you.

If it is an adoption agency required state, then you can do what is called an independent adoption. Basically you use them for all the legal stuff except you take on the challenge of finding a birthmother yourself. This will save you money since you will not be paying the adoption agency for their matching fees.

I suggest joining some adoption groups for support and advice as well. Yahoo has some wonderful ones, whether you are doing a domestic adoption or an international one.
http://www.americanadoptions.com...

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