Am i crazy to want another or what?
Answers: Do what you want.
Who care what other people construe.
I am a mum to an 18month old,a 2 1/2 year old-fashioned and 26 weeks pregnant.
I work 2 days a week and nobody but me and my husband take trouble of our children(we have no inherited near)
i love having the children close, if you are emotionally all set then no problem.
I don't verbs financially as my children will get the best beside what we have get but boy don't they have fun and lots of love!
My own flesh and blood thinks I am crazy too. I own 7 kids. I had 8 pregnancies surrounded by 10 yrs. I have 2 kids that are 364 days apart. If you want to own a baby...later go for it. Nobody but you and your fiance should opt your life for you.
I expect if you can do it and you want to, go for it. I assume most people judge that anytime somebody gets pregnant it's a bleak thing. People don't know how beautiful it is. Especially the individuals who don't have kids. They don't think through how much love and joy you can be aware of for another!
i think if u own the money and u have someone to pilfer care of them or if ur a stay at home mom be in motion right ahead the more the merrier. I have 2 kids 8yrs old-fashioned & 2yrs old if i have the money and someone close in my kith and kin to take nurture of the baby i would enjoy 2 more kids
Hey do what you do.. That is your life and if your taking watchfulness of them with no oblige from your family that i.e. your s ***, no one else.. Don't agree to them tell you what to do this is your go and you have to live it
I have a sneaking suspicion that you should wait. Maybe your fiancee is trying to relay u that maybe he's lively with the two kids and truly does want to purely enjoy life span for the way it is in a minute. I'm sure that if your unexpected pregnancy occured he would be by your side completely and adjectives heartedly becuz he cares alot in the region of u. but all and adjectives maybe waiting is the right entry
its just because it hasn't happen yet ppl other think you want here opinion lol. if i be you i would wait roughly speaking another year. from what i have be told if they are closer it is allot harder. my mom had me and my sister 2 year apart and she feel like she never get to enjoy my sister person a baby bc she have a 2 yearold that needed her and she didn't get to relish me as much because she had a babe that needed her. at 3 they are more into being big brother or sister than i want to be the kid from what i have see. lets put it this method of all the ppl i know who have kids close in age allot option they had spaced them further apart. but i don't know of anyone who have there kids 3-4 years apart that wishes they be closer. of course that is to say all my judgment only you know what is right for you and your familial.
I have 3 and citizens told me the same piece, that I was crazy to want more than 2 surrounded by this day and age. But I be an only child and I hold always dreamed to enjoy a big family! And trust me it be nothing tallying the 3rd! By the time you have your 3rd you are a much more laid stern parent and it is sooo much more fun!! I say don't listen to everyone else and a moment ago do what you want to do and if they won't stop being cynical to you about it next just convey them to leave you alone and they can do what they want next to their families and you will do what you want near yours. My first 2 are 27 mo. apart and it was really strong, they are both boys and fight adjectives the time my middle and youngest are 39 mo. apart and it was sooo much easier. I didn't enjoy 2 in diapers and my middle one be old adequate to help out and he be more independent when in come to doing things on his own. You know what you can handle and so you are the best one to net decisions on how you want your ethnic group. Good Luck!
Before, thinking of having another kid, you get to give yourself some time to plan too.
Are doing financially capably?
How is the environment of bringing up the kids?
You already have two. One is 4, and the other newly turned 1 yr.
Children grow up very in a hurry. You love children ( i can tell) but you have to present yourself some time to think and relax too, i tight as being a mother and wife.
Well, do you work? If yes, consequently who takes precision of the kids when you are not around? The maid? Nursery ? Or grandparents?
If you are a housewife, i am sure that you would want to give the bestest assistance and ATTENTION for these two kids first, since they are still VERY YOUNG.
Being pregnant is YOUR CHOICE. You do not need to want advise from friends or relatives who will a moment ago give the unexpected stare, instead of helping!
Deep down, you have to know what you really want.
Ask yourself : Are you mentally, emotionally , and financially prepared to own another child?
Coz by the end of the time, you are the one who is going to be taking care of the babe-in-arms and handling full responsibility of it. NOT YOUR FRIENDS.
At the end of the morning, the decision is still yours.Understand yourself better, dear.
All the best, gal!
If you want to own more kids than just 2, afterwards I think that is to say what you should do. If you and you fiance think it's not a problem, other people's opinion shouldn't count. I mean they are your kids, not there's. This is your time and if this is how you want to live it, surrounded by children. I dont see what the deal w/ race who think that 2 children is reasonably enough. I dont see anything wrong w/ family that are large contained by number. The people who enjoy the issue are the ones that can't imagine themselves w/ more than 2 children. That is their problem not yours. As far as other those being glowing for the ones that are getting pregnant 6mos after just have a child are most likely freshly being polite. No one should be getting angry that you want more children. Having more children is not going to engineer you any less of a mother. There are tons of women that enjoy young children adjectives in close age and they incline their children just fine. Too heaps people want to exceed judgements and think that in that opinions are other right. Like I said, this is your your life, your choice. Whether you want to hold babies close together in age, far apart surrounded by age, 2 children or even more should not be the concerns of others.
I have 2 boys 13 months apart and wouldn't enjoy it any other way. Now that my youngest is 1, I'm starting to return with baby confusion...I guess I'm just uncommon to not being pregnant this year. You're not crazy! You a moment ago love being a mom!
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