My husband isn't interested in sex after the baby. Why not?

Baby is almost 9 months. We do it like twice a month. I initiate always. He says he is still attracted to me, but he sure doesn't act like it. I had a c-section, so it's not the baby coming out thing? And yes, things have been stressful, but not so bad. I wanna do it. Why doesn't he? What can I do?

Answer:
I'm having the same issue...my baby is 61/2 months..but it's not only him it's me too..but my reason is my birth control takes my desire away ...really i think it's the energy that is put into the baby drains them and makes them easily tired my b/f always falls asleep on the couch and since i dont ask he doesnt give...what does he say when you ask for it?.get a babysitter if you can for the entire weekend and spend alone with him and see if you get it without asking...
talk to him and find out!! Say you want to know what the deal is...sex at least once a week is said to be most healthy :) and keep relationships alive and strong.
Things change!! Is he working more, not sleeping as much, busting his butt to keep everything going? It could be something like that and not you, Dads try thier best to take care of the family, he may be using his energy for that - ask him...
That's too bad. Maybe he is afraid of you getting pregnant again? Maybe your contraception method changed and he doesn't like it (e.g. condom)? Probably there is something bothering him but he doesn't even realize it!
Maybe he is afraid you may have another! We all know newborns are very difficult and sometimes stressful!

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