What sort of pressure do you kids put on your relationship with your husband (there dads)?
does the more children you have the more pressure it puts on your relationship?
do sometimes you wish you never had children?
finally how many of you have seperated because of your children.
Answer:
My husband and I have been together for 3 and a half years (or so). We have a 2 year old daughter and I have 2 girls 5 and 7 from previous relationship. With my previous relationship it broke down cause i was sick of being taken for granted and he was a (bleep). I am 29 weeks pregnant with mine an my husbands 2nd child. If we argue about the kids its usually about discipline (I'm a little more relaxed). We dont get much time just ourselves or able to go out alone. But we both really enjoy taking the kids out and being able to enjoy each others company. We will have time on our own when the kids are older, I dont want to miss a thing. If on the odd chance the kids are at there grandparents etc. We find ourselves staying home with a dvd and take out, because we are so tired and not used to going out all night, like when we were younger.
they suffer AND we're more in love than ever before. more children do equal more pressure. I've never seriously wished I didn't have children. And I'm not divorced or separated.
I think couples fight over three things--kids, money, and sex--and having children surely brings up issues in all three arenas! :)
My husband and I have really different parenting styles, and it DOES cause problems in our relationship. It's weird, because we have really similar values. But he's really overprotective, a "helicopter daddy," and I'm just not like that.
Two kids really take a toll on the wallet, so that's something to stress out about.
And sex...well, it's great when we get some, but it's hard to find a time when we're alone, both in the mood, and both awake!
It's not that I don't love him--I do. And I meant it when I said "'til death do us part." But it HAS been hard. And anyone who tells you different is not being truthful.
I didn't seperate because of my children, we seperated for other reasons. I've found a man that I have been dating since i was 4 months pregnant, and he has accepted my child as his son, even though biologically he isn't. Kids put pressure one relationships, but strong couples can survive through that. Kids are a huge responsibility, and they cut down on your alone time, along with things you can do. I'm more in love with my boyfriend now than ever before. When I see him with my son, I know that I found a great guy. I don't know if I answered your questions well enough, but that's my opinion.
ha ha im a father of three sure my wife says its more pressure but we deal with it together thats what a relationship is all about and sex is no problem play when the kids are asleep
children enhanced our relationship..big time! No, I never wished that we didn't have them, and I felt sorry for those who didn't have kids..
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