My girlfriend is due in a couple of weeks. any last minute advice?
Answer:
Yep...
Whatever she wants, give it to her.
In the delivery room, the proper answer to everything is "yes dear"
Wait on her hand and foot because by now she's probably pretty uncomfortable.
Tell her how beautiful you think she is, and what a great mom she's going to make.
Give lots of back rubs and hugs, if she wants them.
Ask her what you can do for her to make things easier on her during this transition period. She might have a whole list ready.
Just be there. No matter what. In labor, she'll scream and cry, and maybe say terrible things. Take it, and move on. She won't mean a word of it.
Yeah don't ask her to play poker with you when she's in labor..LOL my husband did that!
Oh and don't look down "there" while she's in labor and shout "my god that thing is big now" lol again my husband did that!
He seems to think he's a funny guy
wear a cup!! HAHAHA! No seriously just have fun good luck and don't have a nervous break down. Be there for her and your little one. Oh yeah and be really patient when you bring the little one home.
sleep now as much as you can you wont once the baby is here
remain calm
get some sleep
Be supportive... and be ready for your world to flip upside down. It is awesome, but draining.
Good Luck!
Enjoy your sleep!!!!!!!
Take a deep breath.
Be patient with her
Prepare yourself for a lifetime of fun, love, and heartache all rolled into one.
Sleep and SLEEP becuase once baby comes niether of you will know what that word is any more. Congrates on the baby though.
My wife is due in a week and I am planning to go to bed as early as possible every day till then. Sleep will never be the same after that.
Also, save, save, save. Save money like a Scrooge. Just my opinion.
I was going to answer your question, but I found that I couldn't do so in a serious manner.
So all I say is good luck!
marry her.
Get Married first before the kid comes.
Here is what I can recommend:
-sleep now while you can
-remind your girl how much you love her...give her a massage or rub her feet
-stay with her for EVERYTHING...my hubby had to leave for a couple of hours while I was still dilating & waiting, well we found our son was in distress & I had to be rushed into the ER and I had to try to relay his cell # while in a total panic...he still apologises for leaving 3 years later
-don't be afraid to cry...it is an amazing event and your emotions will be at full throtle...my hubby is a mans man & the first time I saw him cry in 20 years was when he first saw our son. I fell in love all over again.
-when you get home...HELP HER OUT. Laundry, dishes & the other mundane tasks will be a Godsend to her if you help out.
-be prepared to change your life completely...your child is now priority #1
Good luck and remember to take care of each other!
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