What should you do if you are pregnat and your babies daddy doesnt want to take responsibilty?
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Take him to court. He has to pay child support.
He's an idiot hammer him for maintenance and tell your kids what a scum bag he is.
Sue for child support.
It may hurt ur feelings and ur child but since he wanna hurt u then u have to hurt him back and hit him up for child support
Take him on Jerry Springer.
Get booked on Maury!
Get an abortion if you cannot support yourself
continue to have a healthy pregnancy, identify him as the father to state agencies, and let the law take its course. If you are financing your own pregnancy (a rarity) consult an attorney.
this is never ending.take care of your child regardless...one good parent is better than none...
don't worry,with the laws today he's gonna have to anyway.
Baby's daddy, unless there are more.
Pursue him through the courts for child support and name the child after you...and never let him near you again. I am sorry though. What a little weeny boy!
Consider giving up the baby for adoption. If that's not an option for you, you can make him take a paternity test and get support from him whether he likes it or not.
There's not much you can do. That's why it's so damn important for a woman to choose only men who would never do this. Basically, you and your child are screwed.
First rule...DON'T have sex outside of marriage we are not animals. 2nd, if good old daddy wants to run...the law will force him to pay for his child..it's called child-support! He is NO man if he wants to run from what he has done.
This whole "baby's daddy" thing, fuc*ing kills me!!
Don't they sell condoms in the local bodegas??
Mr Happy
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Unfortunately, you cannot do anything until after your baby is born, then, you sock him with child support.
call Maury!
but seriously, go to a local legal aide office or child welfare agency to obtain free or low-cost legal advice. you have a right to child support.
Well, if I'm just going to answer and try not to be sensitive about the subject, you can do a few things:
1. have an abortion
2. give the baby up for adoption
3. keep the baby and sue for child support. Then hope that babydaddy isn't a deadbeat. But already, he sounds like one.
He's not going to change his mind, sweetie. Looks like you should have used protection when you messed with this one. Sorry, and good luck.
How old are you? There are adoptive couples out there who love your baby and give him/her a great upbringing. Open adoptions are common now and you can choose the parents you would like. Can I suggest a Christian adoption agency?
Get a lawyer, and pray like hell
Oh sweetie i am so sorry. Demand that he takes responsibility for his actions, then make him take a paternity test and pay child support. I hope you and your baby have a fab life, without the pathetic excuse for a father- I'm sure you can do better than him.
you can talk to a lawyer, and take him to court. He has to take responsability for his child. call a lawyer and get a free consultation. Or also get ahold of someone at ors. I have the utah site, I am sure they can help you in the right direction.
http://www.ors.utah.gov/
Find a mirror...look into it...and say, "I sure is hell made a bad decision!" Then realize that the babies responsibility is yours alone.
Let him take a paternity test...then haul him to the courts. Men need to learn to take responsibility for their actions.
First, you should've protected yourself from this situation by using birth control. Second, if he doesn't take any responsibility now, he never will so now you have to force him to do so. If you are recieving some sort of welfare then you can file for benefits for the baby and you have to name him as the father. I would also suggest a paternity test after the baby is born so it is documented fact that he is the father. The system will take care of it from here. You will recieve benefits no matter what but he will have to pay them back to the state. This happened to my uncle.
If you are not recieving any welfare I suggest taking good care of yourself. Don't worry about him. After the baby is born, get a paternity test and then you have proof he is the father. Then get a good lawyer and have them file for child support for the baby. Make him pay for at least half of the paternity test and have his payments set up so they go through the court system.
You will not be able to count on him to support you or help you out. He is a deadbeat. It is a shame. This child did not ask to be brought into this world to a parent like that. From this day on, you need to make sure you use birth control and keep yourself safe.
Best wishes to you.
Wow. That is one heck of a situation. I know from experience that trying to force him to is not the way to go about it. I mean, I may be gay, but I help people all the time. I don't know the particualr situation, but he seems kinda like a loser anyway. Not the sort you'd want around your child. My father was a single parent, and my mom had virtually nothing to do with us. My brother and I turned out just fine, both of us agree that we are better off than we would have been had she taken interest in our lives. Write me an email or IM me on Yahoo and we can talk more. Interaction is so helpful. Just know that whatever happens, you have people, even if you don't know us, behind you lending you our strength whenever you need it.
Either know that you'll be raising the child alone or have an abortion or give the baby up for adoption.
You might be able to get court ordered child support but if they don't want to pay they rarely will.
See a lawyer and get a paternity test done.
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