My husband and i are having our first child together, HOWEVER, we have each been married before and?
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There is nothing wrong with having a shower. I think most people would assume that you got rid of all your baby things long ago. Beside friends and family like to have a reason to get together and this is a great reason (if I were your friend I would want to celebrate the upcoming arrival of your new baby with you!)
Id go. A baby shower really isnt for the mother its for the child to be. GO have fun!
DO NOT short change your experiences with your first child with your hubby. YOU HAVE THAT SHOWER!! You have that shower and you act as if this is the first baby...in all actuality it is for you and hubby. You will regret it if you dont have one. Good Luck
Why would you feel weird about this situation? I wouldn't feel weird being invited to something like that because you and your ex-husband divorced for a reason and the child should get a baby shower. If you didn't hold one just because it's from this marriage then it's not very fair is it?
I don't like divorce and remarriages at all. Sorry, there are just too many situations like this when it was supposed to be until death do people part the first time around.
I understand that it's okay sometimes, when partners are unfaithful, but that's really the only reason.
i would feel wierd but they are your friends and should understand you are trying to make a new life for all the children invovled
If your friends want to throw you a party LET THEM!
(Also why do people think showers are only for the first child, or that showers are all about the presents? They aren't they are about celebrating a woman for bringing a new life into the world)
Why feel weird about it. You are having a baby and every baby deserves a celebration and its been a while since you had baby things. Im having my fourth baby and my best friend is throwing me a shower. Id say its definitley ok for you
i would love to go to a baby shower of a good friend and her husband, i would go to a baby shower of a friend if she wasnt with the father and it was her tenth kid.i went to my sister in laws and it was the same situation...dont worry if your friends love you theyll go and not find this situation odd at all..
congratulations
i would feel real excited for the both of you and it doesnt matter if you two have kids out of other nmariages as long as you 2 are happy together
yeah, have the party for the baby
maybe get untraditional gifts instead
any excuse for a celebration is good I think
I think that a baby shower is important for you, I would definitely go.
I'd feel delighted and start looking for a baby shower gift.
I would feel just fine with it.
SO many families are blended today and it's not an issue.
This baby is a new baby and it's wonderful to have a shower!
Congratulations on your new little one and ENJOY that shower!!
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