Im pregnant and..?

i have a son who's 7 and a daughter who's 3 and my son doesn't want another younger sibling he thinks babies are smelly and annoying what should i do?

Answer:
talk to him about how he was once a baby too and how when the new baby gets older how much fun it will be. try to make a new baby a positive thing to him and talk about all the good things
don't stress it you'r in charge of the house not the kids but try to talk to your son and say ''I KNOW YOU DON'T LIKE BABIES BUT YOU HAVE TO DILL WITH IT AND BE THE BIG BROTHER TO HELP ME WITH THE BABY''that's all you have to say?
Your son will get over it and if not tough cookies for him .. dont worry so much about what he thinks he is a child and children do not think like adults.
hmm thats a toughy. I think he will just learn to accept it. Good luck!

Cathy
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tell your son that it is the sercol of life.
belive me he will be fine my sister wanted to throw me away it took a little while for her to get used to the baby but she got used to me and now we are best friends but hes just a little kid and thinks he not going to get as much attention and give him the[ i will still love you just as much] speech and see what happens good luck
I didn't want a sister (I am the oldest) when my mother became pregnant again. I was used to being the only kid! I am 23 now and she is 22, she is my best freind in the world. We talk at least 1x a day and email all the time.
A seven year old thinks everything is smelly.

Just give him time to adapt to it. You managed to survive having one baby with him around, you'll get through the next.
Let him get involved with the baby once (s)he is here and don't feel upset right now if he insists that he doesn't want another sibling, remember that it's not his decision, it's yours and your husband/fiance/partner's.

You'll be fine, he'll be okay with it, don't worry about these things.

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