I need advice girls!?
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If you can afford it maybe send her a small thing of flowers...Then she will know you are thinking of her and you won't have to "bother" her.
just be there to support her. Tell her how sorry you are that she lost her baby and that you are there to listen if she wants to talk.
call her and dont talk about the situation just make her feel comfortable.....not by mentioning it
CALL HER AND APOLOGIZE SO SHE WILL KNOW SHE HAS A FRIEND THAT SHE CAN COUNT ON.BE VERY BRIEF UNLESS YOU THINK SHE WANTS TO TALK TELL HER YOU ARE THERE FOR HER AND IF YOU WANTS TO HANG UP DO IT LET HER CALL YOU IF YOU DON'T HEAR FROM IN A WEEK CALL HER AGAIN TO CHECK ON HER BE BRIEF AND LET HER PASS THROUGH IT
just take it slow 4 a while and maybe get her a gift and talk about it a little but don't bring it up let her do it
personally, i hate when people say that they're sorry. It's not your fault this happened. Let her know you're there for her, and you love her and support her. I really like the idea of flowers someone put up. Let her know you're there whenever she needs you and she'll talk when she's ready
First off - don't e-mail. That's rediculously impersonal.
Secondly - don't apologize. You did nothing - it will demean her loss.
Just let her know you're there for her and that you feel terrible for what she's going through. Bring her flowers. Hug her. She needs you now - not in a couple of days.
a cousin of mine had a miscariage not to long ago. i also think you should send some flowers with a card in it like "i'm thinking of you" in it.
text. email.over the loss of a baby! Please call and offer your condolences, better yet, do it face to face. She is as upset as she will ever be, comforting words will not multiply her grief.
I'm so sorry to read that. i think the best way is to send her something just to let her know how much you love her and support her.
Help her clean her house, cook for her, help her i f her jobs is piling up, etc.
Actions not words are the ones who express better our feelings.
But first call her.
Good Luck
just be there to support her. bring her flowers, or cookies, or something to make her a little better, and dont dwel on the subject. jst be supportive, and nice!
just take things slow. maybe a card would be nice. whatever you do she'll know that she has a caring friend and would definately appreciate that.
I think your instinct to give your friend space while wanting her to know you care are right on. When I was in your friend's situation, the quick, kind calls of friends were comforting during a sad and confusing time. If she gets upset, don't view that as a bad thing. Losing a baby leaves you not knowing where to put your emotions -- overwhelming sadness at losing what would have been your future as the mother of THAT baby. Yes, life will go on. Hopefully she will have a smooth healthy pregnancy and another baby in the future. But right now, there is shock and grief. I would recommend a call over email -- just begin with, "I don't want to keep you too long" or something like that, but still let her know your thinking of her. Email doesn't reflect tone and real feeling particularly well under such circumstances. Sorry to hear of your friend's loss.
Just let her alone for a few days. She will need some time to get used to not being pregnant especially if she was embrassing the idea. I don't know if I would like to have an email either. They are not very personal and they don't convey the tone in your voice. What I mean is the don't really show your emotion and she might not take it very warmly.
Call her husband and talk to him. Ask him if she is feeling ok enoigh to talk. Don't keep her very long, tell her you are there for her if she wants to talk and that you love her. She doesn't need to hear.. "everything happens for a reason" and " you will have another chance" she will come to that conclusion in time. She needs time to grieve this pregnancy now.
It is the idea that she was going to have her first baby and now she is not that is consuming her right now and if she could have done something different.
Just let her know you are there! AND BE THERE FOR HER!
I would hand deliver her a note or card. an email is very impersonal. Even if you just leave the note at the door, you are showing that you really care.
a sympathy card. My friend had a molar pregnancy so when I was watching her daughter with my kids when she was having the dnc done, we made her a get well card with the kids hands prints and it made her day. Im just saying a nice card. sorry for your friend
Well All u Can Do Is Wait For Her To Try ASgain But For NOW jUST TELL HER THAT U aRE sO Sorry For her misscarriage Adn Hopes She Gets one next Time And Also pray For Her Alot!
even though she doesnt wanna talk she still would appreciate the little things u do for her just tell her that ur there for her and she can call you when she needs to talk.
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