Should women have babies if the father is not consenting?
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No, you shouldn't have a baby unless both of you are willing. It is deceitful and undermines the relationship. No one woman has the right to take it upon herself to decide what is right for her partner just because she is ready. This is exactly where people get the idea that a woman will trap a man with pregnancy. Talk to your partner and if he's not ready, he's not ready. You don't have the right to decide for him anymore than he has the right to decide for you. Especially since you would also be obligating him financially.
If he truly isn't ready what kind of father do you think he's going to be? He will resent you in the long run. And if you think he will come around, think again many do not.
Sounds like you are looking for a sperm donor more than a partner. If you can't wait then move on and look for someone who is ready to have a family.
Or you can end the relationship and go directly to a sperm bank.
No. I thought when you had a relationship with your partner it was a 50/50 deals where you decided things together.
If the person is not pregnant already, I would say no, they should not have a baby with that person. If the father is not ready to be a father, why would you want to make him be a father. He could end up resenting you and the child and you would be a single parent.
It should be up to the woman because she has to carry the baby around for nine entire months then give painful birth.
I think it should be the womens chose since she is the one who is going to have the baby, and if she wants to take the chance of losing her husband then let her.
By using the word "father" you have already made the male a relation of a child.
Assuming this was Freudian, the question really is - are the man and woman together for life or is it just a casual thing?
Casual - then fine, have a baby and let the man pay maintenance for 16 years because he failed to use contraception.
For life? Well, if it is not a mutually agreed thing between you then it may well revert to the former!
In a couple of years, the male birth control pill is going to go on the market. This will make it possible for men to have the last word on conception. This is a rather necessary thing to address since it is so common for a woman to have children without the consent of her partner and then the legal system forces the man to cooperate after the fact.
I guess what I am saying is you are asking the wrong question. Morality is not considered the issue here but rather power. Our government empowers women to do this. Right or wrong, a woman can and do (in large numbers) do this because the government supports their decision. This is inappropriate but men have failed to sway the government's decision on this. The moral argument against it has fallen on deaf ears. So, what is needed is the power to solve the issue. And the male BCP is that power. Simply get a script for it and take it and you have effectively blocked any woman from doing this to you.
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Babies are miracles to begin with. It is a gift from God whether you want it or not. I think it was your time to learn a lesson or a message from this child assuming she's pregnant or bound for it. The women should have the baby because it was ment to be. There is a reason why God Wants you to be come a Daddy. Even if you don't want the baby I think is up to God whether he thinks the baby should come into this world. If your ready or not here it comes. If she is not pregnant yet and your not ready; tell her your reasons why you want to wait. Then map out a plan of where you want to be then get there and ask yourself am I ready now?
If the man CHOOSES to have sex then he has no right to NOT be consenting to having a baby. By CHOOSING to have sex one chooses ALL of the consequences that happen when one makes that choice and one of those consequences is pregnancy. IF a man does not want to become a father he should either NOT have sex, or make sure there is no possible way for him to create a pregnancy.
If you mean that you want to have a child and your spouse does not make sure that he wants one in the future and isn't ready yet or he never wants children. If he never wants children then you can go far by being a single parent, if you have to.
Be sure that you are financially prepared and are ready to put a child before you for the rest of your life. When you have a child they come first, you don't get to go out and play, it is their childhood once you have a child and you make your life THEIRS.
If you are not ready to be a father or a mother, use protection. Be careful who you sleeping with. If he/she is good enough to potentially give you an STD by having unprotected sex then apparently you are saying that this person is worthy of enough to produce a child with. And if she is already pregnant, a man can't tell a woman what to do with her body, and a woman should not be able to decide to kill a life because she made a stupid choice. If you don't want the child put it up for adoption but don't play excutioner, the child is innocent.
For him to even be in the predicament, he already consented to having a baby when he had unprotected sex with her. It take two. Just because he doesn't want a baby, he should still take precaution in helping to prevent her from getting pregnant. It's not only her fault because she didn't have sex with herself. Now if she puts a hole in the condom or lies about being on birth control, then that's a different story, but he should still take precaution.
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