Should I tell my Husband Im Pregnant right away?HELP?
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just wait a few months, see if he notices, just say your getting fat. pretend it's not really happening, just hope it goes away. go out one moring to pick up Alyssa and say, ooow look i've found another one.
SERIOUSLY... tell him, it's his responsibility too, you can then decide if you want to keep it. coz if you tell him when it's too late and he didn't want it, that could cause far more problems than telling him now. tell him NOW!!
good luck.
hes going to find out sooner or later tell him
He IS your husband. He will need to find out sooner or later.
ok, first you need to decide if this is what YOU want. If you want to keep it, then go for it. If you don't want to keep it you have options like abortion & adoption.
If you need to talk with him, you need to do it soon, so you can make the best descision for yourself.
If you need to talk your welcome to email me!
You are going to have to be honest with your husband and tell him. Maybe he might feel differently knowing that you are pregnant. If you want to keep it you have no choice but to tell him. If you don't - its still his right to know. Its a decision that you will have to make together as husband and wife. Good Luck!
Tell him the truth and soon. Maybe he will change his mind. You never know. Good luck
yes, tell him. If he is a real man, he will just have to deal with it and provide for his family
Of course baby.
Your husband loves you.
It's his baby as well as yours. You've done nothing wrong. That's life. If HE said he didn't want kids HE should have been wearing a rubber. You forgetting to take the pill doesn't absolve him from all responsibility does it?
Tell him. Nothing is as bad as we think it is going to be. Hopefully hes a real man and will step up to the plate. Either way, you have to tell him. Right?
I wish you both the best. and Congratulations!
We know how babies are born and so does your husband. It's a natural thing and sometimes it just happens that way birth control and all. Personally, in this situation so he doesn't threaten to divorce you unless you end it I would wait till it's close to being too late. Not obviously so.
Well, you did not make the child alone! He participated! If he does not want to have any more kids, then he should do a vasectomy! So he has to know! The sooner the better, or else he might say that you did not tell it. Good luck! For you and the new baby!
Yes, tell him. I am sure that he can't look at you and say 'no I don't want another kid' if he did that then he is not worth keeping.
You have to tell him at some point, it will be obvious soon. Just sit him down and tell him, he should be happy for the two of you.
If together you both decide you can't afford another child consider adoption as there are many people trying to have children that would love to have one. Abortions are wrong (Just had to stick my Christian View in there... sorry)
Bottom line, talk to him and tell him the truth, a child is a gift from God so enjoy the next 18 happy years!
God Bless, Congrats, and Good Luck!
Break the news immediately. He has to know.
When he eventually finds out, he'll feel hurt if you've taken so long to tlll him. He may feel you don't trust him and he may stop trusting you.
why isn't your husband going to the doctor and getting a vasectomy? then there won't be any more kids...
tell him the rabbit died and the shot didn't work.next time use a condom too
Yes you should tell him things happen for a reason and they turn out to be the best little suprizes ever so just think of the best things out of this
I hate the shot...I know so many women that got pregnant on it.I'm so sorry you are in this situation! If it were me, I would tell my husband the truth and seriously discuss the options. Don't feel too bad. You are on the shot, so you tried to be responsible. However, bc isn't 100% effective, and he knows that, so anytime you have sex of course pregnancy is a possibility. Of course, I would get off the shot and get on the patch or pill at this point...seeing how the shot is ineffective!
Good luck and take care!
Things happen and as long as you don't fear your life and the life of your children...just tell him. If you do fear him and his reaction, leave with your child and don't tell him anything. You can go to a police station and they will help you find a place to stay or with family if you have any close to you.
If he loves you then he will understand that it took him to create this miricle of life. I say tell him. If you are worried that he might flip out the tell him in front of some close friends or family. They will be there with their support.
If he didn't want another child, he should have been using condoms. Did he magically think your egg would reject his sperm based on him just not wanting it? lol
You'll have to tell him eventually, but decide on what YOU want... do you want to have the baby? If you don't want to have it, then get an early abortion... it's up to you. If you do want to have the baby, I'd wait to tell him until you're around 12 weeks along.
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