I want to have another baby, how should I bring it up with my husband?

Any good ideas for bringing it up. I know he wants to wait a while longer, but our son is 3 and a half and I don't want the kids too far apart. And since he'll be over 4 if I got pregnant right now, I think it would be good spacing. I need convincing ideas and ways to bring it up.

Answer:
well im not so sure on this answer i would chat with him about it and just bring it up. Like just say hon u know i am wanting to have another child i dont want to wait to long cause i dont to much space to come between them. And on the other hand as well u dont want to age to much either u know cause after 40 its hard to get pregnant and i wouldnt want to get pregnant at that age anyways. And guys can be so complicated sometimes with trying to bring things up and chat u know cause most males u try and sit down and chat with them they either ignore u or tune u out at least mine does he hates when i talk constantly. If u need any other help please contact me.
well, if u have to ask us, y'all shouldnt be married.
Just have a heart to heart with your husband. If you can't sit down and talk with him open and honestly what kind of marriage do you have?
Just be honest and tell him exactly what you just said. First of all, tell him that you are ready. Then tell him that you don't want to wait much longer because the kids will be getting farther and farther apart in age. Explain to him that it takes time. Off birthc control.and 3-4-6 months to get pg, and 9 month pregnancy...do the math. And just add, you two aren't getting any younger in there--for good measure. I would also tell him that although you don't forsee any problems, many people do have problems conceiving, even after a first successful pregnancy. And the only way you will know is to start trying.
you should just start buying baby clothes and hopefully he will figure out what you want and if he doesn't after a while them you should just come out and say it

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