Should I have a second baby?

My husband is never home to help with our son who is 4. I really would like to have another child for my sake and my son't sake but afraid i will raise it alone again like i did my son. I sit at home all the time while he goes out! I don't know what to do. I will be 29 this year and torn. I do not really want babies after 30 so I have to decide NOW what to do? What would you do in my situation. I don't want to regret either choice later on.

Answer:
I am a single mom of one and am having another. No one helps me and I find it is fun.. as long as you have a good displine system and you all have fun and show respect.. it is fun
Don't know my dear, but let me be the one giving you a baby as a gift!
why would u have another baby now, if your asking yourself if u should or not the answer is no!! you dont want to regret having a baby now then later on down the road decide it wasnt a good choice. u say u dont want to have another baby after 30, but will it really make that big of a difference if u have one at 31-32 as opposed to having one at 29? i think u should wait another year or so and maybe u and your husband can figure out a way where he can be home more often and then u can start talking about another child. but until then i think u should wait. and until u decide use birth control so u dont accidently get preg.
If your husband won't help then it is a bad idea to have another kid. He helped make the child, he needs to have equal parts in raising.
I know how you feel, my husband is in the military and away from home alot too. He is overseas now. We have a 4 year old boy and a 7 week old girl. I do not regret having a second baby. I would never want my child to grow up without a brother or sister. I know, I am an only child and always wanted a brother. What makes it alright is knowing my husband will be coming home soon.
Sounds like he's fully taking advantage of you, and you're letting him. Why should that change? Don't expect him to contribute anything but pitching in to help create the playmate for your son.

As long as you're comfortable with flying solo with this one as well, why not have the second?

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