I just found out that i'm pregnant. What should i do?
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I suggest talking it over or thinking it over, Pro's and Con's... How old are you and your boyfriend... You did lay down and new there was a chance of getting pregnant without any contraceptives or condoms, etc.. im not going to sit here tho and judge you because you may want to get an abortion, i believe you have the choice to do with your life what you will... However you have soooo many choices out there for you, there is adoption and there are sooooooo many families out there who would love to have a baby who just cant, think it over andmake sure you are 100% certain on what you are doing, make the right choice!!
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Hey sweetheart, definitely have the baby. Don't ever get abortion. Babies are so precious!!
i think it's okay either way
Talk to your Mom or a counselor before doing anything drastic, then get to a Dr. to get checked out. Good luck.
Don't have an abortion, you will regret it for the rest of your life if you do.
Go to Planned Parenthood.
well congrats first of all...second the baby is precious life so don't waste it keep it if you want but if you don't give it to some one who wants one...good luck
1) You need to tell your parents. Get to the doctor.
2) Look into adoption--parents everywhere are looking for children to adopt and homes to give them. At least you realize that you need to give the child a chance--adopt. There are open adoptions and you get to pick the parents. Sometimes they even pay for your medical bills.
3) Take vitamins, stop drinking and doing drugs (if you do them), and figure out what you want to do.
4) Have a serious talk with your boyfriend--does he even know how you got pregnant? You need to explain to him that this is his mess too, and if he is willing to just wipe the slate clean for the sake of convince, he's not worth having around.
U SHUDVE THOUGTH OF IT BEFORE U GOT SO HORNY NOW U BETTER TAKE CARE OF TEH BABY BECAUSE IT DUZN DESERVE TO DIE!
Have the baby and if you can afford it support him/her on your own. He needs to wear condoms or take responsibility. You and your baby are the ones to suffer not him. If you cannot handle it on your own then give the baby to someone who needs a baby and cannot have one. that would be very kind.
Good luck honey, I personally would dump him. That baby is part of you and he wants to kill it! Hummmmm...
the baby is NOT going to ruin your life you just have to learn how to balance both of them out. DON'T give a abortion. If you decide it is NOT what YOU want then there is people out there on a list begging people to have babies for them that are unable to have them on there own. BEST WISHES
Considering that the current laws in the US are all for the woman's choice, do what you feel is right.
I believe that adoption is a wonderful decision!
Just because you're pregnant doesn't mean you're throwing your life away. For many people I know, their lives are better, and are "on track" from what they used to be.
There are many services for whatever you decide. Abortion clinics, adoption services, counseling for either one.
I hope you make the right decision for what you feel is right. Best of luck to you.
u should never do abortion your killing a child, it is ver cruel.u should only put it up for adoption if u dont have the money to raise the child, but if u do hav the money u should raise the it, everyone says it is a blessing to have a child and if u do decide to put it up for adobtion make sure it has good parents and you can keep in touch with your child
This is only a decision you can make for yourself, you know what you're options are and just weigh them all carefully. Do what you feel is right, no matter what your boyfriend says. Good Luck!
This is something you need to really think about before you make a decision like abortion or adoption. I know there are lots of couples out there that would love to adopt a baby but this is your decision so you have to do what you think is right for yourself. Good luck.
Find someone you can talk to that's supportive - clergy, mentor, etc. You just found out, so you don't have to decide anything at this minute. Breathe. You have choices -- and although the daddy should have some input, ultimately it is your decision. Hands down, parenthood is the best and worst thing you can ever do in your life ;)
You DON'T throw your life away when you have a child. You take on more responsibility and make sacrifices.No matter if you have it now or have one later you will always make sacrifices.No one is EVER ready to have a child whether they are 15 or 35. Its something you learn about and do as you go.No matter how long you wait they are still expensive but well worth the expense. If you don't believe in abortion then don't do it.Do what YOU feel is right. You CAN always put the baby up for adoption.
These people on here cannot tell you what to do. You have to make the decision b/c you will have to live with it the rest of your life whether you keep it or not. I believe in pro-choice but do what you think is best.
let the baby live..
never mind your boyfriend...he is just showing how irresponsible he is by running away from a responsibility..
having a baby is never throwing a life away but a embracing a new life with your child...
YOu will know when the child comes what you need to do. If you feel adoption is the best option because you are not ready yet then thats fine, just be good to your baby and keep it safe while its in you. And if you choose to find it a good family
Call your OB/GYN. Once you hear the baby's heartbeat you'll know what to do.
Make an appointment with your ob/gyn. He/She can explain all of your options to you. There are different types of adoptions that are available. I would definitely not get an abortion until you know all of your options. So the first thing I would do is contact my doctor.
Your right. Abortion is cruel and violent.
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I think youll find once you feel your baby moving around inside of you ad hearing the heartbeat and seeing him/her on the ultrasound,youll fall deeply in love and holding your baby will be the most amazing feeling ever. However,if you feel your not able to its still just as responsible and loving o allow another family to raise your child. There are options like if you still want to be part of the childs life and after the birth yiou can still change your mind. The child will get to experience all the things in life every kid should. This is so easy for guys to say because the baby isnt living within them. They are totaly detached. A man isnt worth your own baby's life.
well you need to figure it out yourself. No one else can truly make the decision for you. Start educating yourself on all the options.
If you are living at home with your parents tell them and maybe they will be able to give you some emotional support. You will need counscelling but the ultimate decision is yours. I dont believe in abortion i think it is murder
I recomend follow your heart, have a baby is gonna change your life but is the most beutiful thing can happen to a woman. and I'm a guy ehh. BE HAPPY. and another thing dump that Idiot.
So you don't want to keep it, put it up for adoption or have an abortion huh?
I would strongly suggest that if you do not make a decision one will be made for you and it may not be the one you want.
If I were you I would make sure I used condoms the next time and tell all other young girls that you meet to do the same.
Keep the baby and talk to your parents about this. Good Luck.
Well your bf sound like a coward & is not responsible for his actions. I don't think either is fair; to abort a pregnancy or to put the baby up for adoption. Why would you go thru 9 months of feeling the babies movements and then go thru labor pains and just have a couple of seconds to see him/her then give them away. Thats so cold and when the child knows that he/she is adopted they will come looking for you (They always do) and will probably hate you for giving them up. But giving a thought about an abotion seems like the right thing to do..Think about that.
What did your mom do? She loved you that's what.
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