Is it ok if im scared for my mom to have another baby?
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Your mom is a grown woman and I don't know what doctor in his right mind would say that she will die because there is no real way to determine that. They could say she has a chance of not making it but not that she will die. Second, if that is a chance your mom is willing to take then she has some kind of issue going on because I have two sons and if someone told me that having another one would probably be deadly to me then there is no way in hell I would risk it. Your mom needs to talk to someone. Of course it's ok for you to be scared. Talk to your mom!! Ask her why you are not enough for her and why she needs another baby.
I would be scared too!!
if your story is true, you should be scared.
I so know how you feel. I am the oldest of 7 kids. I am scared my mom will have another. and she has a dangerous condition. maybe you could talk to her about this because you are part of the family so you should be able to give some input right?
Maybe she knows the risks and her chances of dying may be slim. I do not think she would kill herslf and not be there for the new baby. Talk to her and get all of the details and let her know how you feel.
you have every reason to be scared hun
-hugs-
it is ok.maybe u should convince your mom not to have another child and give some reasons not to
well i would be scared too- but are you sure she will die. and if you are then you should talk to her about adoption- she can still get a cute little baby- but without risking her life
Well of course its perfectly normal to be afraid of another addition to the family. I'm the oldest in my family and I've got 2 brothers and 2 sisters, and you bet I was scared when I found out I was going to have another sibling. Eventually though they'll grow on you and eventually you won't be able to live without them. Even if they do annoy the crap out of you. Best wises to you. Oh and tell your mom your feelings I'm sure she'll understand.
There is nothing you can do or say. She will make up her own mind. It's probably because she sees the mess you have made of your life and wants to try again. You might try being a better person so she won't want to "redo" you.
its normal my SISTER just had a baby but to bad she gave birth in lebanon on july 14th,that means after 2 days of the war, it was really tough for the whole family.it couldnt be worst than this.ull figure out after time that its a wonderful experience ull get to play with a younger brother and feed him..its awesome!but i was afraid to.NORMAL.----HOLLY CRAP!!SORRY I DIDNT READ THAT SHELL DIE..try to talk to her alone and figure it out.go to other doctors see if its true. and if shes really gonna die ask her what would be the use to give birth to a baby that will have no mother when it grows up
omg you should be scared out of ur mind...
stop her at all costs
Take a deep breath. Tell yourself it's okay, because your mom hasn't had the baby yet. See if you can talk to your mom about it. Tell her that your scared about her. Talk to her about considering adoption if she really wants another baby. And above all, if she does have the baby, remember this: Doctors are sometimes wrong.
Its totally OK for you to be scared because that's wehry sirius
Try to persuade your mother to listen to her doctor's warning. When you bring a child into the world it's not all about YOU and what YOU want. It has to be about how you are going to be able to raise that child in a proper and responsible way. If you have that child, and it damages your health, how are you going to do this, and how are you going to fulfil your responsibilities to your other children, and your family?
It is one of the most selfish things in the world when you are talking about creating another human being, to be talking about doing it just because "you want to"
Talk to your mom about this, tell her how you feel and then, if you Believe in HIM, Talk to God.
Well it may help to ask His Blessing on this matter and to give your mom as well as yourself, comfort and strength.
DJ
she will not die intill god wants her 2
And haveing a little sis or bro is a pain i know i have 5 of them
but ur mom will be ok and if she has a nother baby she will love u
but she might not act like that
i AGREE WITH THE PERSON IN THE ELF HAT I AM SOOOOOOOOO SORRY. aND LIKE SOMEONE ELSE SAID CONVINCE HER TO ADOPT.
I do not know which health consequences may put your mother at risk during labor or carriage, but I do know that by guessing your mother to being over the age of 40 (based on your avatar), that amniocentesis used for the purpose of aid in detecting some illnesses in the amniotic sac, has been medically proven to have higher consequence of risk to the health of the baby en vitro in women of this age, or older. One can be certain that any health risks which may put your mother at risk, coupled with the risk associated with the allowance of amniocentesis by waiver, or the risk of unforeseen health issues that may arise by the lack thereof, may even exacerbate any issues that your mother has been warned of, and proves that caution and care of thinking towards decision in this matter is a must.
yeh im feeling im scared for u!
tell her dont do it
otherwise she wont be there for u when u need her
please tell her u are scared for ur mum to have another baby..
if i know u..i would hug u
x*xhugsx*x
I think you should talk to your Mother. She is probably the best one to make this kind of decision since she is older and more experienced and has all the facts. I doubt that the doctor said that she could die. If your Mom is older, say in her mid to late 30's or even early 40's then she might be considered a "high risk" pregnancy, but that does not mean that she will die. Far from it. It means there could be health complications for her and or the baby if she's not careful, but chances are, since she's already had kids (you) she knows what she's doing. Talk to her and tell her how you feel and make sure that she is going to the doctor and taking care of herself throughout her pregnancy. It is not something for you to worry about dear. I doubt your Mom would deliberately put herself in harm's way and leave you and another baby motherless. No Mom would want to do that to her kids.
Talk to her and express ur concern for her health.
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