How are you supposed to feel after losing your virginity?
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I felt great emotionally because I was in love with him and it was the first time for both of us. physically It hurt soooo bad. I was so swollen due to us both being kinda inexperienced and the lack of lubrication.
some girls may feel a little bit sore. other than that no differently.
like you lost something
It depends on the cicumstances of losing your virginity. I was scared to death, some people are sad, some are extremely happy. It just depends on how you feel. Was it a good thing (were you in love), was it a bad thing (were you pressured and not truly ready)? However you feel is completely normal. Its a huge life changing thing.
I don't think there's a way you are "supposed" to feel. Hope yours was a wonderful experience.
Do you mean emotionally or physically? Emotionally it depends on the circumstances, do you love the person you lost it to? If so then you should feel great and more in love!
Physically there might be some minor pain and bleeding which goes away after the first day.
I saved mine for my husband. It was the one gift to give him that only he could have. Since I was married to him, I didn't feel bad at all.
How you feel after losing your virginity depends on *why* you lost it. You could be thrilled, deeply in love, and very happy, or deeply depressed, angry with him and yourself, and suicidal.
Are you married to the guy you first had sex with? If you aren't married to him, is it a long-term relationship or a guy who is just using you and taking advantage of your body and mind?
After the thrill and arousal is over and he's had his orgasm, rolled away and started to snore, you're laying there ignored, sad, let down and depressed... it's no wonder that what should be the giving of a precious gift is called "losing" your virginity.
I hope you were careful to use a condom. Even if you did, get checked for pregnancy and STDs. Abstinence is the only way to avoid both.
alil sore but not really any different.
it depends on how u accept the way it is. if u love him, then enjoy. its the beginning of how you truly love each other. at first, there`s guilt and butterflies all over ur stomach since u dont know what happens after. there`s pain in it and bleeds a little but tolerable.
Losing your virginity is supposed to be a special thing. It really depends on how much you love the person. I dont know really how much I can answer this question because I dont know much about you. Meaning if you are young or if you are an adult. People these days have sex for all the wrong reasons. Sex is a wonderful thing if you have a partner that feels the same way you do about sex. You should be connected to a person in some kind of spiritual way also. I will share my experience with you. I was very young when I had sex and it seemed great but what did I really know I was not experienced. I loved the person as much as someone young can. Age really does matter and maturity. when I became an adult and got married it was a totally different feeling. I felt many different emotions. I loved my husband so much that we became one. My advice is if you have to ask the question what are you supposed to feel you were not ready. This is something hard to explain and you should talk to your parents or some adult you trust. Iam sorry if I didnt give you the answer you wanted, but theres no wrong or right feeling.
I was sore... and there was a big "Well this is IT?" kinda feeling. I am married to the man I lost it to and I was (and still am) very in love with him. Got much better after the first few times though :-)
whatever you feel is how you are suppose to feel. if it is negative i'm sorry. if it is positive great. it is neither welcome to the club.
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