Should i be jealous?
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Wow. flaring pregnancy hormones at its finest... don't worry. The people who love you will be there for you. and if they aren't... pitch a b!tch and make them pay attention to you. They will do whatever you want them to do if you ask them to. the last thing a person wants is to have a p!ssed off pregnant chick mad at them!
You are not a bad person for feeling this. I never felt that way though because I don't have any friends (seriously). or friends that were pregnant the same time as me. She's your friend, not your family member. The important people in your life will pay you proper attention.
Good luck, momma!
just be happy you are pregnant with your miracle you are just as special as her.
I've never really had someone near me pregnant at the same time.. you have every right to be jealous its natural and your pregnant! just try to enjoy the time your pregnant maybe you will have a girl and she will have a boy or vice versa who knows... good luck and congrats :) heres a link to other mommies due in july http://messageboards.aol.com/aol/en_us/a...
No way you guys could have a lot of fun together during your pregnancy you know stop looking at it like its negative start thinking about it as positive you guys will get just as much attention as the next one
perhaps its only human to think this way, no matter how generous or saint, its only norm for u to want or wish all attention on u & yourself... but be comforted that u have ur hubby to shower all his TLC on u & u only... pls dont stress yourself silly k... take lotsa rest & great care of yourself & u deserve it...
i've nvr encountered this but juz gave birth 3mths ago now my bb boy is e diamond of e family but another sis-in-law is due 3mths down, i'm trying think how i'll react when all attention would fall on e newborn instead...
hahahhaha =)
Hi sweetie first of all Congratulations on your first baby. I can understand where you are coming from. Try not to be jealous this is such a happy time in both of your lives. I was the first one to get pregnant out of all my friends and I did enjoy the attention. Don't worry you will still get plenty of attention. The second time around for me... all of my friends and myself included, all five of us were all pregnant at the same time all within one or two months of each other...and I have to tell you how cool it is that our babies all have playmates the same age. God bless you and your baby and Good Luck with the pregnancy!!
I felt this with both of my pregnancies. With my first I was having the first grandbaby of the family and all the attention was focused on my babyshower and what my baby needed then my sister in law found out she was due right after me. I thought this would take the attention off of my baby and onto hers but it didnt. Everyone was oh-ing and aw-ing over my daughter, then 3 months later her daughter was born. I wasn't even told until 2 weeks later no one made a big deal out of it and to this day my daughter still gets all the attention event hough it has made us closer since now we have something in common. However just a few months after my first we had an oopsy and along came number 2...Now im pregnant with another little girl and my fiance's sister just found out she is having another baby. I dont have any close family where we live but my fiances family doesn't seem to notice when im around anymore they seem to care sooo much about HER pregnancy to the point where they canceled my baby shower for some stupid reason that inolved her. So yes I know exactly how you feel, and im guessing its normal. A pregnancy is suppose to be special, its something you can never get back and something you will never forget..Its like having a wedding rehersal and someone proposing in the middle of all the toasts...
LOL...you are too cute for asking this one!
I say, there is moreeeeeee than enough attention to go around and trust me, before all is said and done you are going to want people to LEAVE YOU ALONE! LOL
Embrace the idea of having someone close to you to share the changes of your body, planning for the baby, etc with. And just think, your children will be able to grow up together! Look at the positive side instead of the negative; while your emotions are normal for the most part, envy and jealousy are NEVER good and are emotions that we ALL need to stay away from! God does everything for a reason and this is a blessing not a curse.
Take care and keep a positive attitude about all this!
My best friend and I are pg at the same time. We have known each other for about 22 years. She is 21 weeks and I thought I was 12 but after and ultrasound I am only 11, but it is very exciting. It is nice to have someone to go through this with. I do not think anyone is going to get more attention, you both are going to be getting plenty. Just be happy and worry about having a healthy happy baby not this trivial stuff. You are probably just being hormonal. It will be fine..
Just be lucky you ARE pregnant. Some people, like me, have been trying for months and aren't yet.
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