Ever find out a child isnt yours?

what would you do if you found out after 4yrs that a child you bonded with wasnt yours? would you stay in the picture or leave?

Answer:
A real man would stay and raise that child just like it was his and you sound like a real man to me. Look at it this way she'll think when she's older, there isn't anything greater to have a child call you momma or daddy. Good Luck real man
stay. adopt it and love it...
i would stay with the CHILD f*** the mom
well, first off this situation is pretty complicated, was it the mom's fault or the hospital's, either way you have the ability to sue both. I would get professional help on this one. Don't leave though, that would hurt the child and it is not his/her fault.
you love the child and the child loves you, don't hurt each other for no reason, remember that, it is not always about having the same blood.
the child's life, yes. Staying with the woman is up to you. Myself personally, no.
Stay because that child still needs a father figure and you already gave that for 4 years to him. ever realize what will happen if you abandon him now? he will think that no one loves him. please don't break a child's heart
of course i would stay in the picture - i have been with this child since birth she knows me as her father and i know her as my daughter and we will always contiue to be this way to each other
stay involved in the childs life...
If you have bonded with that child, at four, they will see you as an important figure in their life. I would stay in the picture, but be like a godfather or something
I personally would want to stay. But you should be careful. I've heard that the family courts could make you pay child support till its 18 if the mom leaves you...even if its not yours. Its really goofy, and probably the reason some men are scared of single mothers.

Best advice, consult with a good lawyer quick.

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